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I was distracted by the fact there is an anime style picture in this take. I was thinking,"Holy shit he actually used an anime pictures!. O. O" :D
Have you played Catherine?
I have not but seeing as it's on the playstation 3 console. That's the main reason why since they don't have a pv emulator for it.
lol what consoles do you have?
I have 2 gaming systems. The wii that I got on a black Friday sale about 4 years ago. Then last year I bought a New 3ds XL. Which yeah I know it's a handheld console. The rest I have played by using pc emulators.
I wasn't allowed to have gaming consoles growing up as a kid. My parents thought if they got me one I would never leave my room.
lol oh American thinking...
Not really an American thing.
uh, there have been countless studies in us about negative affect of video games and violence in videogames so yes it is an American thing as well as some other countries.
PEOPLE OF GAG STOP DEBATING ME WHEN YOU DON'T CLEARLY DON'T READ OR HAVE ANY FACTS TO BACK UP YOUR STATEMENTS
What the hell are you talking about?
What does that have to do with a kid ending up not wanting to leave their room. Due to playing video games?
As a very average and plain girl myself, I can see where you're coming from in this take. But I still think you're making some broad generalizations.
And average doesn't mean ugly so don't use it as a synonym, because it's not.
and I sense you always will lol
don't ever presume to tell me what to do. Ask me if you'd like and you'll find i'm pretty considerate.
You sense I will always... what? Can you please expand on that?
I don't really know you and I'm sorry for telling you what to do. It was a little crass but I felt I had to say it. But to be honest with you, it bothers me that people use the word average to mean ugly. That's not what average means. I don't sugarcoat things on here to spare people's feelings.
Well shoot, looks like I scared another person off 😢
well, i'll be honest i'm tired of having my stuff hated on for the wrong reasons like because people think i'm targeting ugly people so i'll go pc and use average or another synonym.
i sense you always will think everything i say ultimately is a crass generalization
I am not hating on anything here. I don't know why you are worrying about that. I may not agree 100%, but that doesn't mean I hate the post. I never said you were targeting ugly people, I just said I think you're using the word "average" in the wrong context - it is not a synonym for ugly, at least not according to my thesaurus, lol. There is nothing wrong with being average, obviously since most people are average.
Not everyone is going to like or completely agree with everything you have to say, unfortunately. It's best to just brush it off and move on without worrying what people are thinking.
it's not about my feeling get hurt it's about the message being heard. I want it to reach the most amount of people possible. If that means using nicer language so that people are more receptive i'm all for it.
Fair enough.
Hot girls are not nicer than average girls. But hot girls aren't meaner than average girls. It has nothing to do with looks. I've met both hot and average girls that were total bitches.
i dont think its automatic that they think the hot girl won't like em. it may also be that they prefer and are drawn to someone at their level cuz its balanced. there is symmetry in nature. our society already puts hot people so much on the pedestal, i feel like its gonna lead people to grow old and depressed cuz the glow is gone.
Nice myTake. It's nice to hear a differing opinion from a male on this.
thank you : )
How receptive they are has nothing to do with their looks. It's 50/50.
Some pretty girls are really really picky some aren't
Some average girls are really really picky some aren't
yeah you're right it's entirely 50/50. Everything is exactly even and exactly fair. You really have a realistic view point on life. Thank you for this.
No problem :)
lol, damn you
Lol, uh ok?
i was being sarcastic. you have an extremely poor understanding of reality and your not acknowledging that i was being sarcastic is frustrating to em
I didn't say you weren't being sarcastic what the fuck. I didn't take offense to it.
You can fuck off, I have a perfect understanding of reality unlike you.
yeah, everythings 50/50. I can walk up to Scarlett Johansson and it will be a 50/50 chance she'll want to have sex immediately. with everyone i meet i'd say it's about a 50/50 chance i'll like them and be nice to them. i'd also say it's about 50/50 chance that everything i try i will be amazing at on the first try.
Yes for most of that except for the Scarlett Johansson.
She's a famous celebrity who is also very attractive so she is GOING to be extremely picky more often that not.
lol NO to all of them. what planet do you live on...
It's pretty close to 50/50 to most of them that you mentioned. You either fail or succeed 50/50. Besides the examples you gave were extremely vague minus the Scarlett one.
The more specific it gets the more further away from 50/50 it gets I guess that what I was going at.
it's not just as possible of happening as it is not happening... you act like everything is literally a dice roll
Everything is a dice roll. Wtf? Probability is a thing for EVERYTHING.
Some chances are better than others, some are close to 50/50 some are very unlikely. What planet are YOU living on?
very few are exactly 50/50 or even close
I guess that would depend on the attractiveness of the person. For an average person things are closer to 50/50. For an unattractive person things don't work often in their favor in terms of sex and dating. For an attractive person things TEND to work in their favor.
i'm too distracted by the fact none of those girls in the pictures were attractive. you'd probably find them at a local bar in 2001.
Why 2001?
@VIVANT because they're wearing very 2000's outfits.
A level of a girl's beauty in her own opinion can easily be seen in her personality and manner. If she thinks she is hot and beautiful, she will seem confident, and if she thinks she is not very beautiful or thinks she is less attractive than other girls, she will seem shy and not confident.
How she really looks is irrelevant.
I don't do parties anymore because I would always try to talk to the girls at the parties and get ignored or constantly rejected, my friends would always invite me to set me up with one of their single female friends but im just not that appealing to females, so if I go to parties now I don't approach any female and I stick with hanging with the guys.
It's not okay to judge people based on something that they cannot change. As other people say pickiness has nothing to do with their appearance and the same goes for their personalities. I know many people do that but it sounds pretty rude to me that you chose a girl who you think unattractive so you have more chance lol
i agree
First of all, you said you used the term average because you don't like using the word ugly. That's false. Ugly and average aren't synonyms
Secondly, just because you think a girl isn't that pretty, it doesn't mean she doesn't have preferences and she owes you free s**. That's douchebag logic
Guess what? Average people are people too.. They aren't tools to be used
And of course a girl can understand when you're trying to use her. She isn't stupid
Once a sexy woman sees my 6 pack abs she and all average women wanna say hi to me at the Gym. Some even offer their number or Facebook page. So it's not all about women who get attention men get it too. Plus if guys put a little more effort into looking good all women would want them. Rather they got beer belly's they here talking trash about average v. s pretty. Damn it no women wants ur ugly ass dude.
@DaMack999 with this personality you're below average no matter what you look like.
Well some people couldn't care less about your looks...
Many do. Apparently you're in the minority.
@DaMack999 women care more about someone's personality.. Or money (the ones who are gold-diggers). Who cares about your 6 pack bud?
Please safe me the fake info. I dated many women they all say that but in essence they love the abs. Otherwise they would not be paying to see them at women only strip clubs
@DaMack999 "Plus if guys put a little more effort into looking good all women would want them. Rather they got beer belly's they here talking trash about average v. s pretty. Damn it no women wants ur ugly ass dude. " I love you man for saying this xd I'm glad that there are men who get the irony of dudes who don't look good at all and are expecting a beautiful woman to come to them. *Expecting, not wanting. They can want her, but not expect her*
I don't get why a man would flirt a woman he doesn't feel attracted to, in the first place. Is it so important to have a girlfriend that you'd take anyone over not having a relationship?
lol it's not a girlfriend they're after usually more like a decent f***
still, it's weird. anyone would do? it's kinda slutty
within reason but often a lot of girls fit the sex bill than fit the girlfriend bill
For practice so he's natural when he does meet a girl he's attracted to and doesn't lose his shit.
Also when your confidence / self esteem gets low you want to prove your good enough.
Iv never been with someone I wasn't attracted to but Iv definitely had times where I was unsure if i should and feeling low about something lack of experience , worrying about grades , looks etc pushed me to say yes.
Lol you've got it wrong. The nice hot girls usually are the insecure ones, not the confident ones. The confident ones behave like this "Did I give you permission to speak to me? Go away!" and are only nice to guys they deem attractive. Your advice only works for attractive guys, not the common male.
Woah woah woah, um no offence but I do not think this is true at all. Just because someone is confident doesn’t mean that they will be rude.
Statistically speaking he has equal chances (realistically close to none) with either of the girls. Seeing as 80% of women only consider 20% of men attractive, and thus worth their attention and time. The rest of us are gonna have to rely on our luck and their despair.
I'd rather get to know them. The reason is looks draw us in yes, but the most attractive in many occasions have more baggage. The more attractive or at times more insecure. I want to hear her intelligence, see her personality, and attitude. Looks are deceiving and fleeting over time. You may have looks and none of these qualities then your just eye candy and boring.
I think "average" girls are attractive. They may not be "hot" but can still be attractive.
fair point. i hope you know what i meant by attractive versus average in the context of this post though
Yes, but I think "hot" vs "average" is better. For example, I am considered attractive/hot, however I consider my self 'average' and that to me is ok.
so you feel you're attractive but not hot
I always go for the most beautiful one, but I test out to see how their personality is before I make my move because looks is not everything. But if I find someone with a great personality but they are not the most beautiful one I give them a chance because a great personality goes a long way as long as they are ok to look at.
Let me tell u. a lot of the hot girls get dates but get fucked and kicked to the curb because they got shit personalities. Average girls find husbands while the hot chick goes through all this trouble and carries all the baggage often. This also happens
just saying, there are some girls that have been gifted with both looks and personality.
@damnwinter yah pointem out! cause you can't or if they exist, the meet a good guy and dissapear into a happy private life. ist extremely rare.
@damnwinter were all programmed to take the path of least resistance and yes they find their own and it doesn't develope into inner beauty much. suffering... scarcity... rejection are things that make you beautiful and tolerante and enlightened on the inside. rough seas also make skilled sailors.
I'm sorry, I didn't quite catch that. But the fact that you genuinely don't believe that there are beautiful girls with good personalities on this whole planet is problematic.
@damnwinter I agree with you
@truthhammer you're so bitter and you're personality is shit. glad that beautiful women dodged a bullet. have all the average girls you want.
I woudl pick the smaller breasted one ANY day.
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I always talk to the hottest girl in the room. Even if they were all 5 and 6 id talk to the hottest one. If she is receptive then boom im happy if she isn't then i deny her before she can deny me and thus it makes me look even hotter. And either way if I ultimately end up liking someone else, it come in stronger having already "conquered" the hottest girl.