I would talk to both of them. See which one liked me. I know not all conversations lead to more. Men that skip the prettiest girl can really miss out. You never know what she likes or looking for. As far as average goes what's wrong with that ( I mean average and not your ugly definition) she may have a lot you like once you get to talking with her. Always have an open mind because once you close it is that much more to miss out on.
I'm not exactly sure how this works. I know of a theory that a guy can approach not the best looking girl in the group but a lesser yet still good looking one and she may be more receptive. He takes himself more out of the competitive pool.
I agree, many "average" girls are insecure - but then again, so are guys... I remember a post by a guy who got approached by a pretty girl and he blew her off because he thought it was a set up...
yea even when guys know logically they're not being set up i think they still probably feel that way if they think the girl is hotter than they themselves are capable of "getting"
Nicely done and very true. I would go one step further and say that for any guy, your likelihood of success with any single girl is approximately IDENTICAL as your likelihood of success with any other single girl, REGARDLESS of how attractive she is. Now the super hot girl is probably more likely to already be taken, but if she isn't I dont' think your odds are any worse with her than with the average or even the below average girl.
I know what you are asking but I find lots of average girls very hot and there is a lot under those clothes that make so called 'Attractive Girls' look puny.
There is no one person that everyone is going to think is good looking. How ugly or how attractive someone is depends on who you ask. Just because you put someone in a certain category based on looks does not mean that everyone else will.
In my experience the opposite is true. The pretty one are usually damaged while the less prety ladies have a lot less experience with guys so they are less damaged/picky.
I would totally talk to a hot guy.. we can't know someone without spending time with them. 😄😄
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Often times, the reasons why women get approached have nothing to do with their level of attractiveness, but the body language and vibes they give off. This is coming from an exceptionally attractive girl by the way.
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I would talk to both of them. See which one liked me. I know not all conversations lead to more. Men that skip the prettiest girl can really miss out. You never know what she likes or looking for. As far as average goes what's wrong with that ( I mean average and not your ugly definition) she may have a lot you like once you get to talking with her. Always have an open mind because once you close it is that much more to miss out on.
I'm not exactly sure how this works. I know of a theory that a guy can approach not the best looking girl in the group but a lesser yet still good looking one and she may be more receptive. He takes himself more out of the competitive pool.
I agree, many "average" girls are insecure - but then again, so are guys... I remember a post by a guy who got approached by a pretty girl and he blew her off because he thought it was a set up...
yea even when guys know logically they're not being set up i think they still probably feel that way if they think the girl is hotter than they themselves are capable of "getting"
I just don't feel comfortable flirting with a hot girl
why?
I have anxiety around them
@miklail they're all attractive
Nicely done and very true. I would go one step further and say that for any guy, your likelihood of success with any single girl is approximately IDENTICAL as your likelihood of success with any other single girl, REGARDLESS of how attractive she is. Now the super hot girl is probably more likely to already be taken, but if she isn't I dont' think your odds are any worse with her than with the average or even the below average girl.
Yeah, it's true, but why are some guys afraid when an attractive girls are pursuing them?
same reason
Let's be honest how often does that happen to most average joes?
@Moose2coolvargas Very rarely I think :P
So I'm not average.
I always remember that scene.
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Me too lol
I know what you are asking but I find lots of average girls very hot and there is a lot under those clothes that make so called 'Attractive Girls' look puny.
There is no one person that everyone is going to think is good looking. How ugly or how attractive someone is depends on who you ask. Just because you put someone in a certain category based on looks does not mean that everyone else will.
i think i mentioned that.
In my experience the opposite is true. The pretty one are usually damaged while the less prety ladies have a lot less experience with guys so they are less damaged/picky.
Same here
Hmm good to know how the common male brain works : P
lol cheeky
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Sorry I couldn’t read all of this - too many words!
Yup. My boyfriend was pretty cautious when I began pursuing him.
An average girl looks attractive next to an ugly girl.
I only make friends with girls who are 7's or higher.
Sorry but this is a load of bunkum...'Attractive' in whose opinion? Some men might find a woman attractive that you don't.
I would totally talk to a hot guy.. we can't know someone without spending time with them. 😄😄
Often times, the reasons why women get approached have nothing to do with their level of attractiveness, but the body language and vibes they give off. This is coming from an exceptionally attractive girl by the way.
Yeah, noticed that too. Average girls tend to be the lowest in personality. Actually, the uglier the girl the lower their personality.
all these girls are average lol
also this is a fail post
right? lol