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Why Girls Shouldn't Have Sex At A Young Age (Page 2)
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Okay true but there are two limitations :-
●not all girls are innocent
●just because she's 18+ it doesn't mean she's get smarter and won't get used.
Correction... NO girls are innocent, and neither are guys for that matter!
I hope you realize not all men are like that, nor are all 15/16/17 year olds so stupid enough to just hook up with someone. If you're in a relationship and you want to have sex it really isn't anyone's decision other than the people in the relationship. I, myself, am a virgin. However I'm in a relationship with a guy. He's one of the best men I know, next to my grandfather. I can tell he has the best intentions, and even I have trouble talking about sex with him because he would rather focus on the relationship aspect before anything about sex. It's ridiculous to generalize men like they're "master manipulators". Like guys are the only ones who want just sex. Lmao. I've seen plenty of slutty girls that manipulate guys into sex.
Such a dark picture painted here. I have seen relationships with the age gaps you described that were successful with the guy being older, it depends on the individiual. I've seen a 16 yr girl that also used older guys for sex and then told us about it later as if it was an achievement of hers after he was "dismissed". In other words it's not an exact science.
Sadly too many older guys can damage younger girls, physically and mentally, before they are really ready for sex. Often girls feel peer pressure to 'do it' when in reality none of their peers have actually done it!
It has been this way forever, a girl needs to be strong and resist until the right real guy comes along, in a proper relationship, and she feels ready for sex.
Maybe you should retitle this 'why girls of all ages shouldn't fuck players on the assumption that it will bring them together'.
Seriously, no guy i have ever chosen to be friends with has ever pulled this shit. It's not because i'd rule them out as friends for doing it, it's because genuinely decent people don't lie their way into people's pants then dump them.
Now you know what does happen even with decent people? People fall in love, they have sex, and a while later, things end anyway.
I don't think anyone should have sex because they think it will bring them closer together. That's a bad reason to have sex, period.
You should fuck because you trust the person and want to fuck them. If you don't want to be sexual with someone, you probably shouldn't be dating them at all.
Excellent point... And good values!
Maybe she wanted sex. and people have to learn the through trial and error what kind of people they want to be around. none of this really stated why a woman shouldn't have sex. its just a reminder relationships dont always or often work out. thats life. treating things like tis like the worst thing in the world is unhealthy. its not a crisis. she'll feel crappy and move on and next time shell be stronger. avoiding hurt when you're song just means roll be old without having any ability to deal with it. life has to be lived to learn. there will always be shitty people so what. the important thing is how resilient you are. and 15 16 17 is not so young for sex. its when your body is primed for it. just use proper protection. stop stressing.
the only bad sex is forced sex... and thats not what were talking about here.
This is the most absurd thing I've ever read. First of all you made the choice in sleeping with him, and you're blaming him for it? Secondly, not all guys are like that. I agree that young girls, including myself should not be having sex at a young age, but you're acting like what happened to you is going to happen to other girls. Me and I bet a lot of other girls would be smart enough not to be drawn in by a older guy. And if we did that would be our fault. You're basically blaming that guy for you sleeping with him.
I know girls who have gone through this and you know what?
They are fine. They were heart broken and hurt then time healed that over time, and now they are married to good guys.
Oh and those guys, they grew up and out of that way and ended up married too.
The relationships you have in your teens are NOT the end all be all in life.
by the way, good take.
That is true but I wouldn't want for anyone to go through that. Because I made the decision to wait until I am an adult to have sex, I dont have to deal with such heartbreak at a young age. It might actually happen when i am older, something like this, who knows. But at least i will have the maturity to handle it better
@Grungenoreos I have grandmothers, mothers, their daughters, siblings and cousins who have all gone through this. They try to warn other girls about it, but it never works. It's like it's the heartache all people (male and female) have to go through.
Lmao not true. I think you mean heartbreak in general but I know quite a few men and women that didn't go through heartbreak by being used for their body. And I know women that have found ways to make it work and have been with the same person for many years and find a way to make it work
And that isn't to say I dont have people in my life who haven't gone through this. My aunt did, my Dad did, one of my cousins did and some friends did. But hey you dont have to go through this type of heartbreak by protecting yourself. I can count on more than one hand girls that can say they were never used just for sex. I feel bad for all the women in your life that apparently have all been used for sex. And I feel bad for you thinking that its okay because everyone goes through that. Yes heartbreak happens but mot to everyone and usually it does but you shpuldnt act like being used for sex is okay. Id hate to be your daughter. Daughters need father figures to look out for them
@Grungenoreos mm-hmm...
I am going into logistics and I am very factual so yeah I like to get into all the details about these things and whats really the big picture.
I see that you're trying to promote abstinence, but I don't know about the way your going about it.
I myself am torn between you shouldn't let anyone's dick have importance enough to change your identity, and wanting to be sexually involved with someone special.
Ultimately, it's gonna be that young girls choice and instead of being helpful about it. You would've just hit her fear factor and might've caused her more stress and anxiety than what she was already in by literally posting the worst outcome to having sex.
And truthfully, girls aren't stupid. If sex is all he wants, he'll have a track record to show it.
I wouldn't say all guy are like thay, but I have met quite a few...
In my experience there are three kinds of guys, the guys who date because they want sex, the guys that don't date, and guys that actually just want to be in a relationship. Unfortunately most guys seem to fall into the first two categories.
But I am only 13 what do I know?
... apparently not my age
Lol :P
"Unfortunately most guys seem to fall into the first two categories. But I am only 13 what do I know?"
That's just a puberty thing right now. Sex becomes a very big part of maturation because your body is trying to tell you to reproduce, and sex is an inevitable stage of progression in a relationship. That's all that comes down to. You're still 13 though, so don't rush it and think long and hard about any decisions on that going forward.
I only skimmed, mainly because most of what I did read is complete nonsense. while I do think teen girls should to teen guys, I personally regret waiting until I was 19. while I agree 15 is a bit too young, 16/17 in my personal opinion is the ideal age to start having more "serious" and sexual relationships. those who wait longer usually have a lot of relationship problems for many years. not always, many a large number do. whereas the ones who started younger get all the bullshit drama that most inevitably go through out of the way and move on to better, more mature, healthy relationships later on.
instead of trying to shame girls into waiting longer, it would be better/smarter to encourage them to store chasing after more mature (which is rarely the case) older guys and instead give the boys their own age a chance.
It is a shame that a lot of people wait until marriage because of religion. I wonder if they have problems because they will not have sex until average age of 22.
@Hwlsop I simply waited for sex/dating until after high school, mostly out of an extreme fear of pregnancy. had nothing to do with religion, but I still wish I had at least started dating in high school.
I didn't mean you, it is just something I wonder about. Religion feels they are doing what is best for them and is it really?
This is a joke.
You don't know everything "he wanted"
Sexual chemistry is important, it's really indicator of a person's style and expression.
If your not compatible then it only makes sense that move on from each other.
There is no reason you should have to wait ages to sanctify some special privilege, you are not a prize to win, you r not supremely valuable, your a person just like me. And if you wanna kick it for a little I welcome you but I will not promise to be there for you always, Its not my job here to entertain, to make you feel safe and secure about yourself, and I'm not predictable.
This what you should expect:
I am going share with you a portion of my life n your welcome to check it out but I can't promise anything because I don't know what the future holds.
I read the entire post and in this case the guy is the one to blame.
SO GUYS SUCK IT UP
I dont like it, but it's true. Recently one of my two close friends (girls) got dumped by her fionce and he didn't do it face to face. When she was going on her exams 500 kms away he called her to say ''it's over''. Does that sound right to you (not to me).
So yes men (not all) take advange of younger and unexpirianced girls.
Can happen to a guy too. Happened to me so I know the feeling. Girl had a crush on me but didn't want me for a relationship. Just wanted sex. Now I'm not complaining but it did hurt and it blindsided me cause I thought girls didn't do this but some will.
But also can't blame guys. If a guy doesn't pursue a girl sexually, she will lose interest or he will be friendzoned. So guys are obligated to make a move if the relationship is gonna go anywhere.
Lots of guys are saying that this is like a story of a guy taking advantage of a girl but like it or not its actually what happens in the majority of the times. Once the guy sleeps with her at an early and a young age what does he really want after that? They would be too young to even think of marriage, he basically wouldn't want anything else. And unfortunately that's the truth most of the times. I'm not saying always but most of the times this happens.
Good MyTake 😊
I think what's wrong here is how girls take it. Sex cannot happen without two consenting partners.. so if a girl has sex.. guy has too.. whatever it did to the girl. Guy went through the same thing.. but guys wouldn't be crying if they had sex with a girl and their relationship didn't work out.. they might even always have a sweet spot for that girl.. but girls will hate the guy and said he used them.. if both partners were happy at that time. And no one was forced. It's nothing wrong.. if sex is wrong at young age.. it's wrong for both genders...
Wait. Wanting sex is an ulterior motive? It's always been an open significant motive for me.
Of course the guy wants sex. He's a guy.
The question is whether the girl wants it too.
If she's just going along, trading her body reluctantly for him to be nice to her, that sucks. She should say no.
If she likes him and wants to trade happies with him, and does, I don't see the problem. Sex is a GOOD thing.
"Common knowledge"...
You can fuck right off.
Just because you were hot and stupid once and got knocked around by some assholes, to say that true gentlemen dont exist, even teenaged ones, is a fucking lie!
You wanna know my biggest turn-off? When it SEEMS that a lady is unsure or uncomfortable about having sex in that moment. Not ever have I pressured a girl towards her loss of innocence. That being said , I've collected two V-Cards, and I still talk and laugh with both of them.
You're angry and misinformed, and spreading YOUR hate throughout the world. you're not a good person.
maturity difference? are you implying that younger girls have the same maturity of the older guys? and are more mature than the ones at their age?
Doesn't seem mature to me, that they still brainless engage in than then,..
There's a difference between maturity and experience pal :)
I don't want to be the butthurt little kid, but not all guys think with their dicks...
I dont think being upset for being used like that would be considered "butthurt". Someone has a right to feel heartbreak over being used for one thing and then left like nothing mattered after all the things you guys had together. That being said, yes not all guys think with their dicks
@Grungenoreos
I didn't say that I'm (or was) in a situation like this, but she is acting like all guys that are in a relationship with a teenage girl (regardless of their age) only want pussy.
I do think with my dick.
@Vivaldi
Well, not everyone is able to use common sense...
I am a man. We can't have sex when we want, unlike women.