did anyone else learn something new about themself? I did. I learned today that I secretl in the back of my mind only want sex and my brain covers it up with actual interest in my partner. I also learned that if both my girlfriend and I love each other and consent to sex, I'm actually pressuring her and forcing her. Woah!
Another take where women tell other women what to do with THEIR body because of their experience. I lost it at 18 to a long term boyfriend. We lasted until I was 23 and we got into a relationship at 16. 7 years? Not too shabby. I'm still good friends with him. It's called being smart...
Sorry you went through this but this is your personal opinion lol. I lost my virginity to someone I didn't give two fucks about and neither did he and I don't regret it at all haha we were both in it for purely sexual reasons
You do realize that some of these people you are talking about can also be high school sweethearts that get married after high school or has that changed?
I agree, our bodies are precious and no one likes feeling used.. I feel like girls should honestly wait.. guys too, but girls get more emotionally attached than men do I'm for pro-abstinence so yeah
Well, they shouldn't have had fantasies about what was on the other side of the wall after they jumped over it. Best to make up your mind about a decision and stick with it, rather than make it "in the hopes"...
Or how bout girls do whatever they want? I personally think I'm too young for sex but if girls my age feel ready, I'd say let them be.
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that's why best solution is no sex before marriage. And a marriage makes a guy more serious and committed. So if a guy decide to marry a girl then most likely it's he's serious !
@funny_strange_man a lot? where are you bading that on? I don't know I think it's a few that actually cheat and it depends on what kinda guy you are some are just unfaithful bitches not real men.
I had some of the best sex at 15.. 16..17.. Years old. The girls I fucked did as well. This is dumb lol people should be enjoying sex at those prime ages.
"I had sex I later regret. Must be the guy's fault" -Every woman, ever
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woah this hit me, Im 14 and currently dating a 16 yer old, he keeps asking for sex and Im not ready thing is I truly love him and well Im very confused.
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If you feel uncomfortable about it then you shouldn't go through with it just out of love. If he loves you, he can wait until you're ready.
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did anyone else learn something new about themself? I did. I learned today that I secretl in the back of my mind only want sex and my brain covers it up with actual interest in my partner. I also learned that if both my girlfriend and I love each other and consent to sex, I'm actually pressuring her and forcing her. Woah!
I am so glad that this never happened to me. I did not have sex with anyone but my husband and at 24 too.
Nice!
Another take where women tell other women what to do with THEIR body because of their experience. I lost it at 18 to a long term boyfriend. We lasted until I was 23 and we got into a relationship at 16. 7 years? Not too shabby. I'm still good friends with him. It's called being smart...
I get sick of the takes where women have to tell men how to behave and say what they hate about men.
@bobbyxx I hate takes in general that involve telling ANYBODY how to behave. It's pathetic. Let people be.
Sorry you went through this but this is your personal opinion lol. I lost my virginity to someone I didn't give two fucks about and neither did he and I don't regret it at all haha we were both in it for purely sexual reasons
Way too cynical. Not all girls are innocent and naive. You can't apply your narrative to everyone.
True, glad I didn;t have sex with my first boyfriend. He used reverse psychology saying he didn't need it. But not all guys leave...
Man hater much?
You do realize that some of these people you are talking about can also be high school sweethearts that get married after high school or has that changed?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS THOUGH
I agree, our bodies are precious and no one likes feeling used.. I feel like girls should honestly wait.. guys too, but girls get more emotionally attached than men do
I'm for pro-abstinence so yeah
Well, they shouldn't have had fantasies about what was on the other side of the wall after they jumped over it. Best to make up your mind about a decision and stick with it, rather than make it "in the hopes"...
Which is why I stayed a virgin throughout high school and some of college.
If you're ready for sex, then you are.
You are describing the prototype of a player, which is not like the average guy.
Or how bout girls do whatever they want? I personally think I'm too young for sex but if girls my age feel ready, I'd say let them be.
that's why best solution is no sex before marriage.
And a marriage makes a guy more serious and committed.
So if a guy decide to marry a girl then most likely it's he's serious !
Why do a lot of married guys cheat. Not all but a lot.
@funny_strange_man a lot? where are you bading that on?
I don't know I think it's a few that actually cheat and it depends on what kinda guy you are some are just unfaithful bitches not real men.
If you are having sex for any other reason than you being horny and wanting to fuck, you are doing it wrong. Love and sex are separate things.
Only girls? Really?
There's only males like this out there? Really?
Sex should only be a thing for over 18? Really?
it depends on the individual this happens to females that are older also. it depends if the individual has low self esteem
I had some of the best sex at 15.. 16..17.. Years old. The girls I fucked did as well. This is dumb lol people should be enjoying sex at those prime ages.
Teenage kids are so exaggerating with their emotions
"I had sex I later regret. Must be the guy's fault"
-Every woman, ever
woah this hit me, Im 14 and currently dating a 16 yer old, he keeps asking for sex and Im not ready thing is I truly love him and well Im very confused.
If you feel uncomfortable about it then you shouldn't go through with it just out of love. If he loves you, he can wait until you're ready.
While that is very true I am also very stubborn, and I won't give in to him until Im ready so no worries :)