My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

I came to a conclusion why girls (at least those in my country) don’t like me, even if I approach them. So what I will write below, applies for my country mostly. I’m just posting my thoughts and nothing more.

Being out on own

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

As I said, perhaps this is a country thing. Here, if they see you alone, chances are they’ll treat you like the gypsy who comes next to you, to play music when you are drinking your coffee. This, if you approach a girl who is with her friend or in a group. If she is alone, you will be treated better, at least. But how often do you see a girl ALONE?

Not Drinking Coffee

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

Again, I think that the more coffee brands a guy knows, the more chances he has to get lucky.

I discard bar/clubs

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

I am not into drinking to begin with, and I dislike the music they play there. On the one hand you have some really boring chill-out, and on the other hand you have this repetitive techno beat. But this is not only a country thing I believe, because in any corner of the world, your chances are higher in bars/clubs.

I don’t belong…anywhere

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

What I mean? I don’t work, I don’t go to school, I’m not a member of some club/team. I don’t belong to any political party (Believe it or not, many people found their SO from there). So my ­­­only option are the streets.

I also discard internet dating

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

I would feel way WAY less as a person, if I chose to follow this form of dating. Even if it means, I would boost my chances, then I’d rather not do it. It’s pitiful.

Different clothes/hairdo than most guys

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

From what I see here in my country, almost all guys have at least two of these traits on their appearance:

Plaid Shirts

Undercuts

Skinny Jeans

Beard

Hipster glasses (or however those big old-school glasses are called)

Tattoos

Me? I don’t have any of those traits, because I find them silly. I’m not “in”, and I’d rather not follow, even if it means being more…acceptable.

Putting effort when it comes to my appearance.

My Point Of View, Why I Am Still Single Even If I Am Good Looking

Ironically the guys pulling chicks (here) don’t care much about their appearance, and they look very plain to my eyes, and they tend to be on the chubbier side also.

Anyway, I believe I was born in the wrong country and the local girls just don’t “click” with me. Being different than the rest is a crime here. But…who wants to be a boring common person anyway?

By the way, some of those might apply to others too. I see some people here as well, wondering why they are single, even if looks isn't a problem.


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  • That's so sad, but hey, some girls like weird guys, don't lose hope :)

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    • I never stop believing, but I have learned one thing so far. Most girls care a lot about what their friends say, and they would rather date a below average guy who is "ordinary", just in order to avoid comments.

    • Meh, they should stop being so susceptible to influence of their friends.

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