I came to a conclusion why girls (at least those in my country) don’t like me, even if I approach them. So what I will write below, applies for my country mostly. I’m just posting my thoughts and nothing more.
Being out on own
As I said, perhaps this is a country thing. Here, if they see you alone, chances are they’ll treat you like the gypsy who comes next to you, to play music when you are drinking your coffee. This, if you approach a girl who is with her friend or in a group. If she is alone, you will be treated better, at least. But how often do you see a girl ALONE?
Not Drinking Coffee
Again, I think that the more coffee brands a guy knows, the more chances he has to get lucky.
I discard bar/clubs
I am not into drinking to begin with, and I dislike the music they play there. On the one hand you have some really boring chill-out, and on the other hand you have this repetitive techno beat. But this is not only a country thing I believe, because in any corner of the world, your chances are higher in bars/clubs.
I don’t belong…anywhere
What I mean? I don’t work, I don’t go to school, I’m not a member of some club/team. I don’t belong to any political party (Believe it or not, many people found their SO from there). So my only option are the streets.
I also discard internet dating
I would feel way WAY less as a person, if I chose to follow this form of dating. Even if it means, I would boost my chances, then I’d rather not do it. It’s pitiful.
Different clothes/hairdo than most guys
From what I see here in my country, almost all guys have at least two of these traits on their appearance:
Plaid Shirts
Undercuts
Skinny Jeans
Beard
Hipster glasses (or however those big old-school glasses are called)
Tattoos
Me? I don’t have any of those traits, because I find them silly. I’m not “in”, and I’d rather not follow, even if it means being more…acceptable.
Putting effort when it comes to my appearance.
Ironically the guys pulling chicks (here) don’t care much about their appearance, and they look very plain to my eyes, and they tend to be on the chubbier side also.
Anyway, I believe I was born in the wrong country and the local girls just don’t “click” with me. Being different than the rest is a crime here. But…who wants to be a boring common person anyway?
By the way, some of those might apply to others too. I see some people here as well, wondering why they are single, even if looks isn't a problem.
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