Dating a 10 When You're Not (Page 2)

[loveslongnails]

I've never "dated" a 10 for an extended period of time. I had a few one and two night flings with a 10. That was spectacular. It's something to be sitting across from someone who is sooooo beautiful that just looking at her is blissful. And if she's intelligent, geez, that's the best. Why she liked me, I'll never know !! hehe.

[myTake Owner]

Maybe you've got to give yourself a little more credit

[loveslongnails]

I'm realistic. She liked me because I paid attention to things about her besides her body and good looks. She was used to that. This girl was the definition of head turning gorgeous, in a rock n roll sort of way. If there was a male in the room and she walked in, he would look. It was impossible not to look. When we hung out together, I could feel guys thinking "why is she with him?" But I guess I made her feel like I cared about her mind too.

[Greaver]

She’s like me she doesn’t look at looks as the most important thing but what am I talking about I’m pretty fucking cute and I respect her she makes her own choices and doesn’t let anyone influence her decisions to be with him that’s true love nothing fake about it

[xZoeyx]

Just like someone said in the video, if you like someone for their personality they tend to start looking cute to you.
And some "hot" people don't use their looks like that. Some are actually looking for real love and not a partner that's equally attractive

[Anonymous]

I would never want to date a super attractive woman.

1. As a nerdy man, I don't trust their intentions and don't trust them. Stay with your jocks and leave me alone.

2. They have such huge egos combined with bad personalities.

3. Eventually if you do date one, they'll eventually screw you over and cheat.

Basically, to sum it up, I wouldn't want a woman who is a 10. I wouldn't even want to be friends with one. Stay on your own level and you won't get hurt.

[myTake Owner]

So, no one who stays on "their level" ever gets hurt? Really, is that how life works? If only. You can get hurt with a 10 or a 1; it all just depends on the person.

[Prof_Don]

U seem like the type to not buy a nice car, because u worry about it being stolen! :-P

[Anonymous]

This only works for men. Unattractive women can't get attractive men easily , since alpha males know they can get high quality mates and they don't need to settle for less for their emotional needs or whatever attractive women choose not so handsome men for.

[Edwin23]

Actually your wrong , it's the other way around.

Unattractive women can get Attractive men easily.
Unattractive Men can't get Attractive Woman easily.

In this situation this Man just got lucky. And his Cirumstances were just right.

[Anonymous]

This kind of problem with society doesn't happen only in relation to beauty difference but also to race difference and other matters, I always ignore the remarks the others do about me and my boyfriend because:
#1 They're not friends and if they are then they may not be anymore
#2 I don't care about strangers

[Anonymous]

Interesting. I don't know why so many people care about other people's relationships. I may see a couple where one partner is more attractive but I would NEVER flirt with the more attractive one or ask outright "how are you together?" That's just rude... but then again, may people lack basic manners these days...

[monkeynutts]

Yeah this kind of thing happens to couples, people try to split them up too. It's when issues like this come into focus I realise how evil the secular world is, people that don't have a faith that requires you to always treat people with dignity are so evil, and they don't even realize they are.

[Lucifer_666]

Ugh, this kind of stuff boils my blood! I can't stand people who are obsessed with looks. The fact that they won a contest for the most mismatched couple is the worst thing. Who said you need to be good looking to have a SO? This is why I don't like the human race

[BigJake]

People are incredibly jealous by nature, ESPECIALLY when it comes to mating. I've seen people hate on even well-matched couples, because they were jealous of one of the two. Lots and lots of self-involved losers out there who can't fathom why other people are more successful at dating than they are.

[pervertedjester]

My first thought was the George Carlin quote. My second thought was all the Women I date are out of my league, in one way or another.

[Anonymous]

Happened to me all the time past it seems
Hardest part is being in the spotlight everywhere he goes
with thoughts competitors are hoping for my missteps broadcast so they might move in on her
The rest is quite easy
b/c a "10" has just as many flaws as commoners
+ the baggage and scars from being on stage & pursued by others, many are takers & not nice people

[CubsterShura]

The secret of a strong relationship: he treats her like a queen, she treats him like a king. Know it from my observation ✌

[SomeStrangeGirl]

I think looks matter only a little bit, but personality is what makes it last. You can be the best-looking person on earth, but if you have a bad attitude and are always mean or rude, you won't get very far in any good relationship.

[DanishSaint]

I´d rather date a 10 in terms of intellect and personality but a 3 judged by appearance ! Never the other way around, so I really don´t give much for that superficial way of thinking and acting many people live by today... :-)

[myTake Owner]

Two things with this that always bother me.
1. Not everyone who is a 10 has a terrible ego driven personality. People assume they must be full of themselves, but that isn't always the case.
2. How do you judge ones personality from across the room? A want to want to talk to someone and eventually find out who they are and what their personality is comes from actually first being physically attracted to them because we do not see personality. Also if there is no physical attraction, in terms of being in the bedroom, as someone said, you can't f--k a personality. This is hardly superficial, this is hardwired into our DNA to want someone who is attractive to us, and I agree, long term you absolutely do want someone with a good personality, but wanting someone attractive as well is part of being on this planet and having eyes in your head.

[Red-Blaze]

I think ranking over all is pretty dumb, honestly i am sure someone will like what others will call a 1 when others hate what some call a 10
The your too hot for X is dumb

[myTake Owner]

End of the day, if you're strong enough to withstand the perils of societal judgment, ultimately the only voice that matters is the one you are with.

[Red-Blaze]

And your own

[dandee55]

I'm surprised I didn't see anyone say that he must have a big ___. Seriously though, on the other hand, someone may LOOK like a "10" but they could treat you like dirt.

[Anonymous]

I’m average looking but I attract really pretty women (but I definitely don’t look like the guy in that picture). I act sincere and nice, but have a knack for bringing out women’s feminine intimate side.

The only time I get disapproval is from ugly people. My current girlfriend’s cute female friends think I’m “funny and nice”. Her fat ugly friends don’t think I’m good enough. But honestly, I couldn’t care less what fat ugly women think of me.

[Anonymous]

Money its just as simple as that. And this is a reality show where people get PAID, its not like this was some random pick up. And people go for personality as long as the person looks are tolerating enough , sure a guy doesn't have to be a 10 to date a woman that's a 10 , but I'll tell that 9 times out of 10, that guy will have money and money will always help a guy that may not be perfect or far from perfect in looks.

[Warmapplecrumble]

They are both equal in terms of beauty... who says she's more prettier than him.