I'm just curious, usually when people say "bad boys" I imagine that they'd be quite manly, tough etc. Then I notice that when women post takes here they're always these almost gay looking men.
Since im a girl, i can say i agree that im attracted to those kind of guy but i might be considering not to date them. I always date the typical good guy, who's usually shy, nerd (because im nerd too, we share same interest)... just saying
Opposites don't attract that is just bullshit because we don't see bad girls with good buys , other than that yeah it's true and these traits aren't "bad " it's just how people should be more fun
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I disagree, but then I'm not teen to early 20s age. Half of those I find off putting, and true other half I can find in a good guy who is badass but ha his shit together. Trumps a silly bad boy every time!!
I think the reason you fall in love with "Bad boys" is because you're so boring and undesirable that they are probably you're only outlet to feeling good about yourself.
Like I have said many times before, please read before you make your accusations. I disagree almost entirely with your opinion. I'm helping a dear friend of mine, she honestly as good and kind-hearted as someone can get. She doesn't know why she likes this "bad boy", because to me, he doesn't have any redeeming qualities at all. I wrote this to put myself in her shoes to try and understand her feelings more, in order to help her. I don't expect not getting different views, and she is definitely not easily manipulative.
I said you as an "in general" statement, don't worry. My observation is that people's definition of bad boy is attractivr, confident, exciting, and are a challenge. People tend to think I'm a bad boy for some reason, but it's because I physically look like one.
My point about liking bad boys is that they are either very confident in their ability to be some sort of guide to them, or they are so bored that they think bringing someone who doesn't follow the rules and is rude to everyone is exciting.
Emphasis on "girls", not grown-ass women. Its immature naïve teen girls that are. Luckily once they get their heart broken by a bad-boy, they will hopefully learn their lesson.
@SportsFan78 You are still a teenager, so it may seem like it. Wait till your 20's when these girls grow up a bit more. Eventually most will realize that they are idiots for continuously falling for "bad boys".
Not sure I can speak for the girls, but in my experience girls love attractive assholes, not ugly ones. If you are ugly and an asshole, that's a double negative and unfortunately that isn't a positive in social interactions.
Honey your 15, write this again when your 17 or 18. Your opinion might drastically change. Basically what your saying is girls expect all the attention.
I call bullshit. Bad boys are not hot, or they are not more handsome than any other human being. I don't care if women date "bad boys" but then they should not complain if their boyfriend is violent to them or is playboy
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I'm cringing so hard at those pics, if you have to dress and act like a pretentious knob to be considered a 'bad boy' then count me out lol
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Sweetheart wake up this is not a high school movie, there are no such things as bad boys and good girls chill your tits damn
Never seen before. All I see is very good boys fall madly in love with extreme bad girls. And they exist a lot and those good boys hate good girls.
Lol the excitement use to intrigue me now I walk away caz it's not worth the stress
I can read a book or watch t. v. for excitement as well as ride a roller coaster
I'll give you something to ride...
I have a moped!
@HotDogg I don't get it
I was making a lewd joke about "riding" lol
@HotDogg oh I got that but not the moped part
Making fun of myself since mopeds aren't "cool" or for "bad boys"... but I find them exciting and fun.
@HotDogg mopeds are cute
These scrawny, wimpy looking, overly well groomed men are "bad boys"?
Your statement is ending with a question mark.
It was a question.
Either way, why are you picking on some images?
I'm just curious, usually when people say "bad boys" I imagine that they'd be quite manly, tough etc. Then I notice that when women post takes here they're always these almost gay looking men.
"Gay looking"? Forget I asked, still it doesn't really matter. Colton Haynes is gay, so what.
Not masculine duh?
Since im a girl, i can say i agree that im attracted to those kind of guy but i might be considering not to date them.
I always date the typical good guy, who's usually shy, nerd (because im nerd too, we share same interest)... just saying
Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, I wish my friend was like that.
If your friend date those kind of guy, maybe she had same certain interest like him too. Dont worry about her too much. :)
Opposites don't attract that is just bullshit because we don't see bad girls with good buys , other than that yeah it's true and these traits aren't "bad " it's just how people should be more fun
I disagree, but then I'm not teen to early 20s age. Half of those I find off putting, and true other half I can find in a good guy who is badass but ha his shit together. Trumps a silly bad boy every time!!
I think the reason you fall in love with "Bad boys" is because you're so boring and undesirable that they are probably you're only outlet to feeling good about yourself.
Like I have said many times before, please read before you make your accusations. I disagree almost entirely with your opinion. I'm helping a dear friend of mine, she honestly as good and kind-hearted as someone can get. She doesn't know why she likes this "bad boy", because to me, he doesn't have any redeeming qualities at all. I wrote this to put myself in her shoes to try and understand her feelings more, in order to help her. I don't expect not getting different views, and she is definitely not easily manipulative.
I said you as an "in general" statement, don't worry. My observation is that people's definition of bad boy is attractivr, confident, exciting, and are a challenge. People tend to think I'm a bad boy for some reason, but it's because I physically look like one.
My point about liking bad boys is that they are either very confident in their ability to be some sort of guide to them, or they are so bored that they think bringing someone who doesn't follow the rules and is rude to everyone is exciting.
Ok, I see your point now, I'm just tired of replying to everyone who thinks this is about me. Sorry.
I really hope people on G@G don't think I look like one anyway...
Does it really matter what anyone else thinks?
Nope, but assuming is a pet peeve of mine.
Emphasis on "girls", not grown-ass women. Its immature naïve teen girls that are. Luckily once they get their heart broken by a bad-boy, they will hopefully learn their lesson.
But those same guys will always get the girl. At least in my experience.
@SportsFan78 You are still a teenager, so it may seem like it. Wait till your 20's when these girls grow up a bit more. Eventually most will realize that they are idiots for continuously falling for "bad boys".
Even so I still probably won’t get anywhere.
@SportsFan78 Just wait. Seriously. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 24.
I’m so impatient and I want to know how to be attractive? I know I won’t get anywhere without changing something now.
Because good girls are stupid. They think, they can change everything with their goodness. It rarely happens... most of the time they are left hurt.
And bad boys don't give a damn about it.
Everyone's guilty of this sort of thing.
Dammit you beat me to it!
And there ya have it... hypergamy on full unabashed display.
I must have never been a good girl, because I've never thought bad boys were irresistible.
This is so true
Finally another girl on this site that gets it and doesn't deny it
They do it in the park, they do it in the dark
But most freaks are known for breaking hearts
See, I always hear this and yet I have never been a "catch" with the ladies. Does that mean I'm too bad?
Might just mean you are both ugly and an asshole.
@Alessus I don't know, you girls seem to love assholes.
Not sure I can speak for the girls, but in my experience girls love attractive assholes, not ugly ones. If you are ugly and an asshole, that's a double negative and unfortunately that isn't a positive in social interactions.
Honey your 15, write this again when your 17 or 18. Your opinion might drastically change. Basically what your saying is girls expect all the attention.
I call bullshit. Bad boys are not hot, or they are not more handsome than any other human being.
I don't care if women date "bad boys" but then they should not complain if their boyfriend is violent to them or is playboy
I'm cringing so hard at those pics, if you have to dress and act like a pretentious knob to be considered a 'bad boy' then count me out lol
Lol knob.
Haven't heard that one in a while.
Nice take. Thanks for sharing.
Question: why do most girls deny they prefer bad boys when it's so clear they do?
Because they want to feel like they actually have control and aren't easily manipulated
That's a really good question, I want to know the answer for that as well.
@Slarenx Decent point.