Ok, so we both know how we've all heard that nice guys finish last etc . This is mostly true and I'm going to tell you why. I have a friend who's in a situation where he got told by a girl that he's "too nice" which is why they can't have a relationship. He messed it up from the first words he said to her and I know it for a fact. This is due to the fact that his intent was to be friend and then develop that into something else, ie a relationship. Women want to know your intentions as soon as you meet them. I learnt this the hard way as I have been friend zoned by girls I liked. Being nice is great and all if you want to get comfortable in the friend zone but being flirtatious as soon as you meet, ie smiling, touching and poking fun a little will make your intentions known to her. This is exactly what a 'bad boy' does and in addition to this, women are genetically predisposed to being attracted to men who are aggressive and show what they want. This is due to the fact that these type of men, in early humans, would've been able to protect women, hunt for food and be able to take care of offspring. There are exceptions as not all women love a bad boy but they can't resist him because he's pushing all the right buttons. Any of you ladies agree ? ;)
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I can't speak for all women, but I don't think I've ever found "bad boys" to be attractive. I feel that they use aggressive behavior to compensate for a lack of intelligence. Just say some big words and they get scared off lmao. That isn't fun, nor is it attractive. I'd rather take a polite, intelligent dude over an aggressive bad boy anyday. Being direct doesn't mean you have to be aggressive. Just by verbally communicating something directly, you can indicate strong interest, an intention to take things further. Sometimes that's all you need to engage someone.
How about an aggressive intelligent person?
@Jmarx aggressive about... what? i'm not fan of aggressive people in general.
Not aggressive per say but notbshy about asking you outn well a little shy but they'll still come up to you and ask you out. Not quite on the polite side nor on the asshole side
@Jmarx well, asking someone out isn't impolite or aggressive. not being shy is fine.