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People say I'm nice. I don't know why I don't get dates maybe to shy.
Insecurity , while the opposite reason of 'Nice guy syndrome' is also a reason to not get dates.
Bring nice and claiming to be a nice guy. Two different things.
If girls don't like a guy, it's cause he's ugly, broke, stupid, boring, fat, short. It's got nothing to do with being nice or mean
Edgy, stupid, Ill advised, generalized post.
Aren't you cute, child?
I wish I was like you to stoop so low, but I'm not.
Soooooo True! women like the loudest guy in the room. The blowhard is king in our society.
Once young guys master the art of being a jerk they can have any girl they want
Yes. Because the girls you'll end up with will be sheep which there are plenty of. If you get married, this happiness about "getting the badass girl" will go down quite quick, as if children come, guess who will NOT work and who WILL? If you want to go around fucking shallow women like crazy, fine, but once that's over, everyone ages. Then you are stuck. I wouldn't say "being a jerk" is necessary, as then you get the girls who may LOOK good, but could be shit in bed, cause drama, are needy, etc. I would say it's important to be a decent human being without expecting any reward. Plenty of shallow dumbass women who want jerk boyfriends that they can steal money from after pregnancy. Go for it. I post this vid and I never will stop. Fuckin love Hopsin.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlb-HWpDDx0
It's because most "nice" guys are boring
I agree with this. The key for a guy to get girls is to be FUN!
As the classic saying goes, "girls just wanna have fun" :)
well l am not boring l am a nice guy l can show a girl a very good time? every time from the loving scottish guy?
Why do you think so many of us deliberately act like punks?
@villageidiot well maybe we think that we know it all but we dont not even at my age but l have a very young out look and l do look a lot younger for my age and girls do like that
A lot of guys make the mistake of acting like they have no personality of their own and agreeing with everything she says and everything she wants to do. That's what's boring about them
so very true
Maybe overgeneralizing a bit. I'm not trying to be a pain, I'm just trying to understand. I alraedy have one strike against me cuz i'm shy, now strike two if I behave the way I was taught. That's why so many guys try to deliberately be jerks. You're not leaving us a lot of room.
@villageidiot You don't have to deliberately be a dick. It's possible to have a personality and your own opinions and not treat her like she's a princess without being a dick
I tend to treat everyone well because I was taught "do unto others..." But what's the point if it's going to be interpreted as phony or exploitive? I wasn't being sarcastic when I said "act like a punk" because the guys who do seem to have a lot of success.
@pooper89 ... Exactly... a boring , brown tongued supplicant will never be a turn on !! I always did better with the ladies , in my 20's especially , when I simply went out and focused on having a laugh , groups of women often ended up joining our group , and being teased like hell !!
@FatherJack There are just so many attitudes these days. I know everyone says be yourself, but if it's going to be interpreted as phony then why even try?
@villageidiot I really feel sorry for you younger guys , in this toxic " all males are wannabe rapists " social climate. The rot started about 20 years ago , and faster downhill ever since. Is your username a Monty Python reference? Decent comedy died back in the 90's , with a few rare exceptions !!
They do that because girls are much more easily offended than men and don't like engaging in the sort of verbal 'horseplay' men often enjoy with each other, so a well-adjusted guy is going to tone it down a bit until he sees the girl is comfortable enough with him to not feel threatened by his intensity and occasional crudeness. Though I will say, SOME girls are able to reveal such levity right away. All you have to do is signal that permission to him. Why not try opening a conversation with a dirty joke? It's the perfect Trojan horse for guys who respect others' boundaries, and isn't that the kind of guy you want in the first place?
Everyone is different so this is not true
Do you have any idea how stupid you sound?
This article is bullcrap.
society for most of human history has been based around buying it
I'm not just a nice guy I'm the supreme gentleman.
I'm a nice guy and girls like me
That's because you're actually nice and not the kind of passive-aggressive bitch I was writing to.
You're good looking that's why
@TheUglyMan I don't think I am. Out of all my friends I'm usually the least successful with women.
You're least successful because you nice
@TheUglyMan maybe. But I still manage to attract girls somehow
@TheUglyMan he is good looking 😍 I totally agree
@TuMeManques I know but he claims he gets chicks by being nice
@TheUglyMan but he does.
@TuMeManques no it's cause he's good looking
Great take! I love this. Well said!
very cool
I don't know why some girls dislike me
Bullshit I’m a douche and I’m single 😂
Whoops didn’t read the take. Although I don’t really qualify as the “nice guy” you refer to either so
Hmmm maybe I’ll take a look
to be fair the PUA stuff does work to some degree.
Excellent Take.
I know this.
I'm a nice guy. You've hut my feelings 😔
I Agree with this Mytake.