Often I find that people here, especially people of my own age, typically misunderstand the meaning of love and how people demonstrate it in there lives. I myself have delt with many guys who has interpreted my actions to mean more than they really do. And I’m pretty sure there are some girls and guys here who do the same thing. So let me clear the confusion, I will list some actions that someone would take that truly mean love or at least care.
Time is a valuable thing, some if someone has chosen to spend plenty of their time would you, then they must really love you. Although it has to be time that is well spent, and the event must be very pleasing to both parties. If you leave knowing more about your partner then when you met, thin that was time well spent together.
Not just the typical romantic gifts like flowers and chocolates(although there are people who like those too), what I really mean is a gift that is special to the person in mind, a gift that means something to your date or even better, one that resembles your relationship itself
Does the person in question care about you. No I mean really care about you. Does he or she ask about your day or recent events that has happened in your life. Honestly do they care! If they love you then they should.
does the person in question listen to the stories that you tell. Not just sitting there waiting for you to finish or interrupt to say something that they find more important. Does this person look at you when you’re talking or is he/she looking at some portable device.
Don’t always assume that if someone is staring at you then that means they like you. There are many reasons why people stare. People often stare at things that are weird or out of place to, keep that in mind. Also they may be staring at something behind you.
A shy person is always just shy because they have a crush on you. But maybe there just shy, being around new people is always awkward for them. Don’t make it about you.
Again some people are just really obnoxious. They like to be the center of attention. Again it most likely has nothing to do with you. They like making a name for themselves, want to be talked about.
Some people are very self conscious. You know, the people who are worried about their looks too much. They would tend to pet their hair or adjust their clothes.
Thanks for reading
I hope this take helps you better understand how to tell if someone truly loves you. Next time you’ think someone is in love with you, think of this list and see how many of these apply to the person in question.