Reasons Why Playing Hard To Get Is The Dumbest Thing You Could Do (Page 3)

[NicolasMaxy]

I once played hard to get because it fed my ego. Ended up getting burn in the end while in college.

[Alemon]

I agree. Let's leave playing hard to get to the players, who live for the pre-relationship chase (and don't care to stick around)

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/BYhRsQaRqSo

[RasmusAiken]

Great take. Whenever people play games, I'm gone. "Ain't nobody got time fo' dat."

[ConvertedCondom-User]

Does it count as me playing hard to get if I wait until marriage to have sex?

If so, I guess I'm dumb for playing hard to get.

[OpenWine]

no but stupid for projecting nonsense into the question. this is not hard to get, this is just you being strict

[FriendlyGemini]

I think some people actually enjoy the chase/being chased. Not all cases of "hard to get" are so extreme. Sometimes it can spice things up. Has anyone here watched The Notebook? lol

[Ljd213]

Yeah, I dislike girls who play hard to get because then I just forget them.

Yet they want to always keep appearing in my social radar and I am like fuck off.

Annoying as hell

[Miristheiss]

Agree, good points.

What was your motivation for writing this to your fellow ladies?

[bloodmountain1990]

Agreed. The worst is people who do this in the long term. Their behavior is so inconsistent that it’s like they’re consistently inconsistent.

[genericname85]

Can this please be mandatory for women to read and internalize?

[myTake Owner]

Men too. This applies to anyone who plays games. And although there might be more women who do this, I think men who play games can gain just as much from this take. ☺️ It’s why I kept it gender neutral.

[genericname85]

well men are overall less likely to play those games naturally. they might because some idiot told them that's how it's done but usually men are more practical and straight to the point... also there's no slut shaming that makes men insecure on if they're acting slutty or not.

[myTake Owner]

In my personal experience, men who play hard to get tend to be the very manipulative type. They seek out insecure girls who will chase them hard, because these insecure girls thrive on validation and will crave it once there's a guy who plays mind games like that. They like having girls in the palm of their hand.

[genericname85]

Yeah similar with girls like that as well

[sally421]

Good take! I agree with you.

[Prof_Don]

I always found "hard to get", even as a youngster, to be absolute nonsense

[Anonymous]

Lumos - this is the first opinion of yours I've read here at GAG in several years that wasn't complete nonsense. Well done.

[myTake Owner]

Lmao

[Jealdo]

I've never understood why people play games it just plain stupid and disrespectful to me if you are an adult don't play games

[Anonymous]

I do it naturally and it seems to work, if only I could apply it to guys I actually like instead of the ones I don't

[Menelin]

It will most likely only attract guys you won't actually want, like the mytake said.

[Opinion Owner]

@Menelin that's what happens but I don't mean to

[TomasLyy]

I can't handle girls who do that, completely disinterested in them

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Thanks for posting this. I can't stand when girls do that

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Guilty. I once played hard to get because it fed my ego. Ended up getting burn in the end while in college.

[ronaldo75]

All 38 year old manless, childless single womenwho are now desperately scouering pof and okcupid everynight have learned this lesson the hard way.

[HereIbe]

I think it's GREAT when a woman does that. It tells me that she's an evil, manipulative bitch and I am MUCH better off never seeing her again.