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Plenty of Fish in the Cesspool: Online Dating (Page 3)

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  • passinby
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    702 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I met a psycho online once, she was chubbier than her pic, more wrinkles, but since I am not fussy like some people I know I took her home and had some fun. Don't be so damn fussy. You are not going to live forever.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Lol I'm much happier being fussy than sleeping around. I may indeed live forever as women in my family live into their 90s, and that's aboutg as forever as a no human being can get. I am perfectly happy being single until I find the right man

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    • passinby
      passinby
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      You do like to counter argue every point and I think if the most ideal perfect man appears you will find things to reject him. You must live a highly ordered life?

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      No, I correct people when they make incorrect assumptions. I wrote this as an informational resource for people interested in dating, not to ask random people who don't know me why I'm single

      I know why I'm single--I find romance seldom, but it hits me like a freight train when it does. I am single because I refuse to be with my cheating bastard of an ex-boyfriend, and I haven't met another man since who inspires romance in me the way I need it to. No I will not reject the "most ideal perfect man" because I'm not seeking perfection. My ex was far from perfect when I met him yet I wholeheartedly loved--and always will because you can turn love off if you genuinely love someone--him despite his flaws

      I do in fact live a highly-ordered life. I have worked hard for the life I have because I want my future (children) needs to be provided for and I set myself up for success in everything I can

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    • bethshepherd
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      Obviously you are a man. If a young, sexy, beautiful woman wants to meet up with a guy just to have sex she can work for an agency and charge a lot of money for it. You were lucky you got a freebie off the chubby wrinkly one. Maybe if she had not been chubby and wrinkly she would have charged you. The lady who wrote this is looking for a serious relationship, not a bunk up or a low life she has nothing in common with.

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    • passinby
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      @bethshepherd I don't care, period. I get plenty without trying anytime. Who the hell needs a date site anyways? Good luck with all your morals, LTRs fantasies, judgements and fem bllsht. Just don't care.

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  • wingattebaby16
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    Queenofcups got me to get on POF.

    A buttload of questions to answer before you can sign up.

    Most the guys Matching me are losers or thugs.

    i turned my profile off for a while...

    BUT it is a free site...

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  • englisc
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    Yeah, I met my girlfriend on there but there are a lot of weirdos on there too.

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      It's nice to see someone had some success

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  • TayTay21
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    446 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    You have to be ruthless in online dating. When I'm looking I get about 300 messages a week and respond to maybe 5 of them. Too many weirdos and losers out there.

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    • bethshepherd
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      Yes they think you must reply or you are rude. They forget you are snowed under with mails and life is too short. The ones who only say hi or something similar do not deserve a reply anyway.

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    • TayTay21
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      @bethshepherd Seriously. I can't tell you how many messages I get that are just "Hey" or "How's it going?" like there's no substantial attempt to communicate at all.

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  • LovingZombi
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    Xper 5 Age: 24
    +1 y

    i love the attached picture for this XD...
    and it sounds like not all online dating is bad.. just 1/3 are... XD

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  • Anon-ymous1
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    +1 y

    Yeah it's tough. It's tough for girls and guys-- but it's tougher for guys. Trust me.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      I believe guys probably have similar issues, but I wouldn't know exactly since I'm not interested in girls

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    • Anon-ymous1
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      Our issues are different but harder in other ways. As in, it's basically impossible to get any attention from girls at all. With a girl, even if you're not very attractive and you're kinda overweight, somehow you'll still get plenty of messages from guys. The other way around doesn't exist-- if you're a somewhat homely guy, no girl, attractive or unattractive, pays the slightest attention to you. I'm a pretty attractive guy and even I would only get like three or four messages a week from girls who made the first move.

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  • Blonde401
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    +1 y
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    Online dating is depressing and never seems to amount to anything for me. I’ve given up with it.

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    • Darknut123
      Darknut123
      +1 y

      I'm telling you, you've given up too soon..

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    • bethshepherd
      bethshepherd
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      Do not blame you , can imagine you being snowed under by creeps, bores, losers and liars who are not worth meeting, some of them robbing you of time and others trying to persuade you to meet them because it suits them.

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  • Daniel3035
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    Yoda Age: 30
    +1 y
    798 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    If your looking for free no strings sex...
    There are two websites
    http://bdsmdate.co.uk
    http://spanknet.co.uk

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  • CandacePerry
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    Yoda Age: 28
    +1 y

    Very good and I met my boyfriend on facebook since. Dating apps was out.

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  • Landshrk0068
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    Yoda Age: 30
    +1 y

    Sure there are plenty of fish in the sea, but unfortunately it doesn't matter when you are in the middle of the sahara desert.

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  • GuyWannaHelp
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLBwem4oGZo
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  • JackalOfNar
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    Xper 6 Age: 42
    +1 y

    Those people must be all noobs or catfish. Anyone can make an account, like here. Just go instagram/twitter then facetime.

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  • BOUNTYGUY9
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    Yoda Age: 65
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    l would never do on line dating full of dirty filthy tramps all sleep around together full of germs l would rather stay single l want a nice hot girl

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    • BOUNTYGUY9
      BOUNTYGUY9
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      l am an honest loving guy dirty dating sites the ones that use them are some site for sore eyes

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  • IconAura
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
    +1 y

    that is the worst cite, okcupid or even tinder work better for free

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    • bethshepherd
      bethshepherd
      +1 y

      Love it when a man keeps getting rejected or has to make do with a wrinkly chubby psycho and then makes out it is us women who are fantasising. Not sure how they are fantasies. Got a wonderful partner who - like - me - owns and runs his own businesses and has a brain. If he was a tosser who was only wanting to use women for sex he would not have lasted one day let alone five years. Why not get a proper job and pay for sex, you are not wanting to date you are just wanting sex, so you should not be on there in first place. iF you do want to date then pick women in the same league as you. No rich woman or woman who works hard and does well or one who is gorgeous and sexy is going to make do.

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  • SuperEunuch
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    What are "losers who don't believe in government"? In what way don't they believe in government and how does it make them losers?

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Losers because they're losing out on me for not believing in the government when it comes to marriage. People say they want to act married, but don't want a "piece of paper from the government". Marriage should be about proving to the government you love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together, not feeling oppressed by the government who in no way forces people to marry each other

      "Losers" is a subjective term. In this case, they are losers in my point of view. You don't have to view them that way for them to still be losers in my book

      Basically I want to end up married, so I don't want to date someone who doesn't want to officially get married according to the government because one of us would end up unhappy and it would be a waste of our time

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  • tobeornottobe777
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    Xper 2 Age: 41
    +1 y

    Funny the picture you shared about the overweight guy
    In the video I think 9/10 or even 10/10 stayed for the entire date and several setup second dates with him.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      What video?

      Reply
  • ENTP_EMO
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    Yoda Age: 32
    +1 y
    379 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    what the f?
    I didn't lie... am I disadvantaged? lol

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  • Anonymous
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    Thanks for the insight into the female perspective.

    I think it’s difficult for me to comprehend why regular guys look so revolting to many women. Doesn’t make any sense.

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  • John_Doesnt
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    Master Age: 35
    +1 y
    1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    You're the hottest chick, who replied back.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Haha... maybe

      Reply
  • TheUglyMan
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    Xper 7 Age: 36
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    Online dating is a preselection tool for women. Men should stop wasting their time.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      The website I used here is for both men and women

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