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Playing Hard to Get vs Wasting Your Time (Page 2)

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  • Introvert94
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    Nice take. I can't really tell the difference sometimes, but if I feel they are wasting my time or I can't tell if they are interested or not, I just move on. And I do it quick.

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    • JMghow
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      Best thing to do. Disinterested behavior leads to #metoo allegations, just look at Aziz Ansari...

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  • A_Bell
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    I have girlfriends who do this. I think it is cruel and disrespectful.

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  • Anonymous
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    Any girl playing hard to get is not worth your time.

    High value guys do not play that shit.

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    • Tdieseler
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      Says a high value guy.

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  • ATuairiscean
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    Good Take - I am terrible at reading this games - I just prefer the plain "Say it as it is" approach

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  • legalboxers
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    relationships are a crap shoot. "Hard To Get" works up to 20. When you get past 20, you put on your grown up underwear and be adult. Games aren't for adults

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  • Anonymous
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    Some like doing it just for attention but others to see if person likes them.

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    • Salty-Walrus
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      You convince someone you like them JUST to find out if they liked You?
      Literally who has time for that?

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  • art84
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    673 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Playing hard to get is for children. It really goes nowhere.

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  • OpenWine
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    662 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    tbh relationships is like going backstage and throwing out the DJ to me. it won't happen

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  • Lance1965
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    Playing hard to get IS wasting my time. That is when I give up and look for someone else.

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  • clampfan101
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    I’ve always found playing hard to get a stupid method.

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  • HereIbe
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    Hard to get means "bitch who is not worth my time". It's that simple. I don't have time to play stupid head games just to feed her childish ego trip.

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  • Daniel3035
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    798 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Glad someone said it and educated the virgin males.

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  • Anonymous
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    That's currently happening to me. But I'm pretty sure she is just wasting my time, since she has a boyfriend. I really thought I was doing pretty good.

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  • John75
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    It s the first time i can't think anything. Really.
    Sorry

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  • Butternuts
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    A person that appears to play hard to get usually isn't interested.

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  • littlepig2002
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    Time wasters need not apply when it comes to dating me.

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  • SwoleCook
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    It’s simple. If she’s interested. She’ll show it. If she isn’t. Later.

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  • Anonymous
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    Anyone who plays hard to get and wastes your time is clearly insecure. There are better people you could be talking to.

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  • BurgerKing99
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    Xper 4 Age: 35
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    It's a real turn off for me. I don't like being tested, think they're wasting my time.

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    • PetrovaFire92
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      Same here!

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  • Anonymous
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    I think I'm just really hard to get. No wannabe lol

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