I wonder what my neighbors think. Been here two years only ever brought one girl up to my place, somehow the nosey neighbors were on it like flies on shit, so I'm sure they wonder why I don't ever bring anymore around.
Ha well then what am I classified as? Clearly I ain't worth anyone's time so the fuck do I do about that? I could put all my effort to try and be a fun guy and be me and no it's not enough or I'm just rather unlucky, If I dropped dead one day outta nowhere I wouldn't even care. eh I'm just dead inside so I kinda don't care how dark my words are I just type what pops up
Yeah I agree. Personally, all the girls I've felt are fun, outgoing, initiating intimacy (whether through flirting, laughing at my jokes, or just actively creating an atmosphere of intimacy) never stayed single for long. There are obviously a lot of factors that play out in someone being single, but thought I'd mention some more.
I've never had a relationship or sex, I crave the sex way more. I wanna lose it to a prostitute In Nevada and maybe move there and see a hooker every few months then at least I would have sex because a relationship doesn’t really interest me and i wouldn’t know how to go about finding a girlfriend or casual sex.
Very good take and well said! I am and have always been single; I pity the fools and the judgmental about it.
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Actually, very few people make any of those assumptions. Turns out, most people don't even notice you're single. Because they spend very little time focusing on you at all. Probably because, like you, they're all concerned about what people are thinking or assuming about THEM. So yeah--not really a real problem.
I'm single because my standards are high and I'm not willing to settle for less. I honestly don't care about being "unapproachable". Why should I change myself/cater to you so that you would approach me? I don't kiss the feet of nobody and I really don't care about her life stories and her experiences. This isn't a crime. Just being honest 🤷♂️.
@Briananderson it's the truth I just like Astrology, Art, photography, drawing... Traveling but it's like that will be no more... ever.. 😷🦠🧼🧽 an I have one guy I like that I actually have a lot in common with but he lives in Sweden.. we both like Astrology an other things.
I don't really care about what people think of me about me being single. I know who I am and I know what I want in life, and I don't mind waiting for what I want and what I deserve in life.
i have been happily single for a while now and this is a great mytake... all i would add is people assume im looking or that im not happy
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If you are a man if can be a combination of those things but if you are over 30 it can also mean you are creepy, weird or gay. None of which are true for me.
Yes, I have gotten hints from family and friends that they will accept me if I'm a lesbian, but it's not that. I just really don't feel like dating or being in a relationship!
Something that someone said to me a few years ago was "If you haven't found someone by 27/28 clearly there's something wrong with you." It stuck with me for quite some time.
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Ikrrrrrrrrr, it's not like we're single and there' something wrong with us
I wonder what my neighbors think. Been here two years only ever brought one girl up to my place, somehow the nosey neighbors were on it like flies on shit, so I'm sure they wonder why I don't ever bring anymore around.
Ha well then what am I classified as? Clearly I ain't worth anyone's time so the fuck do I do about that? I could put all my effort to try and be a fun guy and be me and no it's not enough or I'm just rather unlucky, If I dropped dead one day outta nowhere I wouldn't even care. eh I'm just dead inside so I kinda don't care how dark my words are I just type what pops up
Yeah I agree. Personally, all the girls I've felt are fun, outgoing, initiating intimacy (whether through flirting, laughing at my jokes, or just actively creating an atmosphere of intimacy) never stayed single for long. There are obviously a lot of factors that play out in someone being single, but thought I'd mention some more.
I've never had a relationship or sex, I crave the sex way more. I wanna lose it to a prostitute In Nevada and maybe move there and see a hooker every few months then at least I would have sex because a relationship doesn’t really interest me and i wouldn’t know how to go about finding a girlfriend or casual sex.
Very good take and well said! I am and have always been single; I pity the fools and the judgmental about it.
Actually, very few people make any of those assumptions. Turns out, most people don't even notice you're single. Because they spend very little time focusing on you at all. Probably because, like you, they're all concerned about what people are thinking or assuming about THEM. So yeah--not really a real problem.
Also, "you're way too attractive to seem to settle."
Lol @ young teens who believe in the last thing you mentioned.
I'm single because my standards are high and I'm not willing to settle for less. I honestly don't care about being "unapproachable". Why should I change myself/cater to you so that you would approach me?
I don't kiss the feet of nobody and I really don't care about her life stories and her experiences. This isn't a crime. Just being honest 🤷♂️.
I'm single cause I have nothing in common with any one. An I scare people easily.
Lol😂😂😂
@Briananderson it's the truth I just like Astrology, Art, photography, drawing... Traveling but it's like that will be no more... ever.. 😷🦠🧼🧽 an I have one guy I like that I actually have a lot in common with but he lives in Sweden.. we both like Astrology an other things.
How about too picky? Lower your standards, I’ve heard these also
True in my case; I've been called too picky and my standards too high
@Dchrls78104 Yeah we all have our preferences
I don't really care about what people think of me about me being single. I know who I am and I know what I want in life, and I don't mind waiting for what I want and what I deserve in life.
i have been happily single for a while now and this is a great mytake... all i would add is people assume im looking or that im not happy
If you are a man if can be a combination of those things but if you are over 30 it can also mean you are creepy, weird or gay. None of which are true for me.
You have a lot of money to burn when you have a good job bc you're single, so they want you to be their first kid's godfather. 🙄
So you'll spoil them rotten.
The most annoying is when they assume that you're single on purpose. They ask "why", like I made the call.
Good take!
They're actually very ridiculous thoughts.
Some people assume that you are gay. Kind of outdated for people to think that, but there are people out there who still think that!
Yes, I have gotten hints from family and friends that they will accept me if I'm a lesbian, but it's not that. I just really don't feel like dating or being in a relationship!
@aWes0MeNeSs Right... There are times in our lives when we don't feel like dating!
Exactly!
Something that someone said to me a few years ago was "If you haven't found someone by 27/28 clearly there's something wrong with you." It stuck with me for quite some time.
Definitely that person isn't lieing😂😂😂
Whoever transcribed Niall Horan's quote doesn't know the difference between "your" and "you're."