Been played a fool. Wow...

[legalboxers]

So here is the last update on the update..

She said "She got rid of trash and found something better without even looking". So here is my question. Was someone there as she was dating me? All the money I spent on hotel rooms, fixing her lights/fuses and property.

So much for your promises
They died the day you let me go
Caught up in a web of lies
But it was just too late to know
I thought it was you
Who would stand by my side
And now you've given me, given me
Nothing but shattered dreams, shattered dreams
Feel like I could run away, run away
From this empty heart
You said you'd die for me
Woke up to reality

[pizzalovershouse]

Hang in there lifs gets vetter when your able to look t the positives from a bad situation think of it this way it hurt worsd if yoj were married then you thought things werd good an a yr later im devorceing you she said

[pizzalovershouse]

Mho thanks 👍

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for sharing your MyTake, very well written and sorry for all she did to you

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for most helpful guy :)

[sassy777]

You played your part in her life. Especially if her mom died and most possible she is not from the greatest upbringing, she will always be great ful for your kindness and generosity. Especially when nobody else did anything. I'm telling you her head is all messed up. Let her go give her space. God put you there for the moment. Turn the page. Just imagine what your going to find when you weren't even looking. 😊 Have a drunk night with music go to bed and wake up and dust your shoulder off. You can't change or force anything. Sad but true.

[legalboxers]

@sassy777 Its not that. I was there when her mom died. I helped her. Because I wasn't there when her mom was being cremated (my mom is 85, she needs me home, the day of this persons mothers cremation, was suppose to be the day I was to have gotten married, back in 2004, my ex texted me and I told her Im with someone to please dont bother me). She also was still married and getting mad at me. I did everything I could. I talked to people about her actions, supposedly they say she borderline personality disorder.

[Dongtai]

Dating is a journey. The people you meet serve as guides and lessons. You can use this experience as an opportunity to grow. What led to the breakup? Were there red flags that you ignored? Was there something you did or were you simply unappreciated? What did you like and dislike about her?


Don’t let these experiences fool you into believing that there aren’t decent people out there and that they aren’t worth the journey. All of us get hurt at some point. What you do with pain determines the next chapter of your story. You can repeat the same chapter, throw the book away or turn the page.

[cth96190]

When a woman blows you out of an airlock, she has been fucking your replacement for at least three months.

[legalboxers]

@cth96190 I think longer.. because no one just falls out of the sky just like that

[Unit1]

"All the money I spent on hotel rooms, fixing her lights/fuses and property."

And you quite literally allowed it. This is why we have gold diggers and sometimes get insults if we dare to suggest to split the bill.

Better die single than that.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Thats the game... just remember that "good girl's" dont exist and you'll be ok

[legalboxers]

@skeetskeetskeet I shouldn't go above and beyond anymore

[skeetskeetskeet]

For sure not. . the nicer you are to a girl the less she will respect you... its fucked up sounding but so true... I've made that mistake many times so I'm guilty of it to

[Romi93]

That it's not true. I am a nice girl and have gotten hurt badly by guys pretending to be nice guys.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Right... im not saying its a good system... just the way it is... people always want what they can't have

[sassy777]

I'm a dying breed. I'm a good girl. I'm going to be honest I wasn't in my twenties. My husband died of a brain aneurysm 8 years ago and I can't figure dating out, men, fuck Bois , men literally get pissed of you espect yourself. This last relationship did it for me. He slowly had me captive in my bedroom. He caused me to loose my job, isolated me from my family, wrecked my sports car, banned my daughter from my home was working on my son. He said if my son wasn't here he would tie me up in the closet till he got home. 18 months of this and he came home 4days ago took his shirt off was eating Icecream kicked his feet up. I noticed scratches all over his back. He said yes I fucked the shit out of they bitch. We got in a huge fight he packed his shit, took my 8 week old puppy blocked me on everything even email. And I have not heard from him at all. I'll tell you what I want to shake her hand. Welcome to my nightmare sweetie. Careful what you wish for. Sry can't really talk to my Catholic mother about this B's. Do men ever grow up? He's 40. Ridiculous

[skeetskeetskeet]

Well thats a whole new kind of over grown kid you had there... it never shocks me how some people act anymore... an actual good girl are few and far between from what I've seen

[legalboxers]

@Romi93 good people do exist... I think...

[skeetskeetskeet]

There's a few... key word few

[jshm2]

Seems more a case of you saw something that wasn't there and she made the best of it.

Both of you learned that the world doesn't revolve around what you see.

[legalboxers]

@jshm2 When you put x amount of money in something THAT IS THERE. $5000 plus on jewelry, $1000 plus in hotel stays, plus maintenance on the house and property, and you claim "I saw something that was not there" Where is your proof on this statement? Did you see ANYTHING I posted in regards to this? Sorry mate.. your wrong

[hahahmm]

Women can get attention from lots of guys with little to no effort. There’s always someone else even if they aren’t screwing.

[navyrobin]

Whatever you are going through, you are amazing and deserve so much better. I'm not sure what's going on so if you want dm me and we can talk about it.

[navyrobin]

Wtf this was 10 days ago. Didn’t see the date

[legalboxers]

@navyrobin?

[legalboxers]

@navyrobin tried inboxing you

[msc545]

She is a woman - did you really expect something different? They all lie, cheat, and steal.