You cheated on me...

[Anonymous]

"I can’t stop crying as I write this, because the weight of it all is suffocating. I trusted you with everything, with my heart, my love, my life—and you just… broke it. How could you do this to me? I don’t even know where things went wrong, but I feel like I’m drowning in this pain, and I don’t know how to stop. Every time I try to close my eyes, I see you with someone else, laughing, touching, doing things we promised we’d save for us. It feels like a nightmare that I can’t wake up from. I don’t even know who you are anymore, or if you ever truly loved me at all. All I wanted was honesty, and now I’m left with this emptiness, this crushing sadness. I don’t know how to fix this, or if it’s even possible to ever feel whole again"

Cheating on a partner is a deep betrayal that leaves lasting scars on both hearts. It’s not just the act itself, but the quiet erosion of trust that follows, turning every smile, every promise, into a painful reminder of what was lost. When one partner strays, it’s as if the foundation of the relationship cracks, and the once safe space now feels foreign and cold. The pain lingers, not just from the deceit, but from the realization that the connection you thought was unbreakable was never as secure as you believed. The hurt becomes a shadow, hanging over every interaction, leaving behind questions that will never fully be answered and a sadness that seems impossible to shake. Even if reconciliation is possible, it takes a piece of the heart that can never fully heal.

[Badass-Jesus]

Yo, I heard your tears drip like communion wine through the Wi-Fi, fam. You’re drowning in snot and betrayal? Good. Let that pain marinate like Lazarus in his tomb-juice. See, your ex’s heart wasn’t just cracked—it was a full-blown Sodom Airbnb. You trusted? Cute. Trust’s for saints and suckers. But fear not, cuz BadassJesus rides in on a jackal with a redemption arc filthier than a Pharisee’s OnlyFans.

Last week, I found this chick weeping harder than Peter at the third cockcrow. Her man? Oh, he was out raw-dogging revelations into some TikTok Jezebel. So I did what any loving Messiah would: I turned his pecker into a fig tree. Boom. Withered on the spot. Now he’s screaming confessionals into a Ouija board, begging for Viagra. I also baptized the girl in his tears, then made her ex’s Tinder profile haunt him like the ghost of circumcisions past. Every match? Me. Swiping right with a lightning bolt up his dopamine receptors.

You wanna “fix” things? Child. Forgiveness is for the weak. Let’s talk vengeance-core. I’ll anoint your rage with gasoline and drop a Pentecostal flame on that bridge he burned. Watch his DMs rot like leprosy in a DMV. And that emptiness you feel? That’s just room for the Holy Ghost to park his Harley.

But hey—love thy neighbor, right? So here’s the kicker: I’ll rewire your ex’s spine till he crawls back, weeping like Magdalene at my feet. Then? Plot twist. You walk. Crown strapped, heart armored in the bones of every boy who dared doubt your divinity. Cuz here’s the tea: You’re a goddess, forged in the same bullshit as Eve’s third nipple ring. The betrayal? That’s just God’s way of saying, “Upgrade incoming.”

Now grab your sword (the emotional one, but also literally—I’m partial to katanas). We’re storming hell’s Taco Bell to reclaim your joy. And if your ex complains? Tell him BadassJesus sends his regards… and a free voucher for eternal heartburn.

AMEN. 🔥✝️💅

[Rosexøxø]

You literally couldn’t just write a legit answer you had to spend actual time in your life to type that trolling piece of trash. 🤦‍♀️

[Finchie40]

Never blame yourself for someone cheating on you , they cheated because they are a selfish POS person that only cares about themselves. Cheating is a selfish act , it has nothing to do with their partner , A cheater will blame their partner because they do not know how to take accountability for their own selfish actions and behaviors, they have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. So the best thing for you to do is move on from them and realize you deserve someone way better than them. If they truly loved you, they wouldn’t have cheated on you period. Find yourself someone that loves you like you love them , even to you will find someone that is on the same page as you , Never take a cheater back into your life , every word they tell you needs to go on one ear out the other because they are talking out their ass. Understand you deserve someone that is honest with you not someone the can easily lie to you

[IslaTheWitch]

"The hurt becomes a shadow, hanging over every interaction, leaving behind questions that will never fully be answered and a sadness that seems impossible to shake."

I don't agree... yes, the healing time is needed... but I wouldn't let it stay with me for longer than it's needed...

did he cheat on me?
yes...
did I cry? did I have sleepless night? did I develop anxiety and depression?
yes...
but I'm not a helpless kid anymore... I reached out and asked for help
I got medication, I started to sleep again, with time I started to feel more than only sadness
I recovered, I started to enjoy the things I liked earlier again
when I finalized my divorce, a year later, I was already in a good shape
I didn't need any meds anymore
and I don't see every man as a potential cheater...

if the bad happens in my life I support myself... not hurt myself more...

[KrakenAttackin]

Well said.

[myTake Owner]

@islathewitch I am sorry this happened to you

[DishLady]

Trying to think that’s the question…


Cheating is a miserable practice. Whether it scars both hearts is up for debate. I didn’t see much of an effect on my ex. Were there broken pieces of a shattered heart to collect? Yeah, mine… and I did… for the sake of our kids and our families… while he skipped along on his merry way with some new gal.


Don’t try to romanticize cheating with either a positive or negative lens. It just makes the cheaters themselves seem like poetic figures in a tragic drama when really they’re just garden-variety assholes.

[TrueConfection]

I think @Finchie40 nailed it. Realizing the cheater doesn’t truly love you is where the hurt comes from. It’s best to shake the dust off your sandals and walk away.

[Lowly_Grumper]

That cheater-face heart squisher is a moldy sock stuffed with expired yogurt—a crusty crouton in the soup of love! Their promises? As trustworthy as a fart in a spacesuit! 💨👩🚀

Next time that soggy waffle-brain tries to wiggle back, blow raspberries in his eyes and scream “POOF, YOU’RE A TOADSTOOL!” 🍄✨ Their heart’s emptier than a bubblegum machine with no gum—just sad clinky noises! ﾠ

Your tears? Liquid diamonds that could outshine a disco-dancing disco ball trapped in a glitter hurricane! Their lies? Flimsier than a paper plate at a T-Rex BBQ! 🦖🍖 Grab a cookie, dump their texts in the lava pit of doom, and cha-cha into the sunset with a duck army! 🦆💃 THEY’RE A DEFLATED BALLOON AT A SNAIL’S BIRTHDAY—NOBODY CARES! 🎈🐌

[MisterWack]

Cheating sucks, it feels like a knife in the back though it was the person you opened your heart to, shared every waking moment with, expressed your deepest thoughts & innermost feelings towards only for them to shove you into what feels like a well with no bottom as you plummet you cry filling the well with your tears till you drown…. It sucks.

I know it hurts now, though remember that this asshole is out of your life and you will find someone who genuinely cares about you and wishes you well, not wishes to do you wrong or harm. Your soul and heart will go on and endure because it has endure pain, grievance, and hardship before and will go on in time. The little piece of your heart will be back and you’ll be able to give your heart to someone who actually won’t shatter it to pieces, you deserve the best & God Bless You! Wish you all the best because you deserve the best! Sorry what you went through and know all will be fine in time even if it feels so far away. Time heals all wounds.

[Sssssshhhhh123]

You might not ever receive the clarity you would like unfortunately.. Everything you feel is completely normal though. You will have trust issues you will have hurt and pain! I now look at things differently since my last relationship and the cheating was out of control. if someone is willing to cheat they don’t truly love you as much as you love them hard pill to swallow. The universe, god or whatever you follow is showing you the signs you aren’t meant to be even if it’s hard to grasp. Holding on to the hurt and pain is ok for a little you need to feel your feelings but eventually you have to learn that not all men and women is the same and there are men out there that would love you 1000% and never even think to cheat on you. Focus on yourself and healing and I promise you when you least expect it the person you want in your life will appear you might question it because of trauma but take it slow and steady and have open communication on how you have been hurt in the past what you tolerate and don’t tolerate. There are a lot of great people in this world that would never want to hurt you! They are all just quite and reserved because they have been hurt too majority of the time or shy and don’t want to get hurt be patient with yourself as you recover.



I was in an almost 8 year relationship and was cheated on multiple times throughout the relationship. Every time I thought maybe it’s something I’m doing wrong or maybe even there is something wrong with me. NO!! I wasted so many years trying to hold on to someone who didn’t want to hold on to me. Being alone is hard and scary but it’s much better than being cheated on and taken advantage of! Fill your cup up so it over flows you never empty your cup for someone else!



It will get better with time!

[RHK36]

People need to stop thinking they're special or that they're owed something for living a good life. Fact of matter is the universe doesn't give an ounce of care about anyone.

Move on and live your life instead of wallowing and feeling broken because someone was selfish. Literally if you payed attention to world history, hell your own history you'd realize that most people are selfish and will commit acts of betrayal because we're flawed.

The sooner you accept that it is what it is and to learn from your past the quicker and easier you'll move on from a bad relationship. The rest is just a bunch of BS excuses. Just move on and get healed.

[molonski2]

This will happen to you time and time again , and you need to find your own fighting plan for yourself , and never pin so much faith in another as to be caught up in that , no person was made to be completely monogamous.

[RingOfFire]

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[Flower7]

I disagree with the part about cheating leaving scars in BOTH hearts. I’m sure the cheaters are doing just fine.

[Oldschool1981]

LOL. Over the nine years we've been married, my wife estimates she's slept with over 300 guys. She'll even pick up guys right in front of me

[Staximus]

Eventually you have to move on with your life and stop dwelling on bad things and dragging yourself down into the pits of despair

[Staximus]

There is no reconciliation with a cheater, taking a cheater back means you're telling them you will tolerate cheating

[Eros91]

Cheat On Me we’re done. No 2nd chances.