The Truth About Why Men Won't Date Single Mothers (Page 3)
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Being a stepdad is the single most thankless and difficult job on earth. I won't date women with small children, not anymore. It's all liability and loss. I can deal with grown kids, I don't have to raise them.
Considering the rate of paternity fraud in the US, why would any man want to knowingly take on the task of raising another man's children when that another man may not even know he has a child in first place?
Obviously single moms have undesirable baggage. However, men will date single moms for sex. Also, men will marry single moms that are sexier and prettier than (available to them) single girls. Even though their ages and complexions are similar, giving the choice, most men would choose to marry the single mom on the left over the possible virgin on the right.
Bro, don't shame that girl. She's obviously trying! She's out there on the trail making an effort to run and shed the pounds.
@Jamie05rhs The purpose of the photo was not to shame only to visually show why men might choose a single mom over a less attractive single girl. There is no shame in not being more desirable. It is just a fact of life. There is no shame in not being a great athletic, beautiful. young, or highly intelligent, but they are desirable characteristic that make the few lucky ones more more desirable.
@DWornock Ok; I agree with you on that. It was a bad choice of photo, though.
@Jamie05rhs I can see your point.
Thanks, man.
For me, it's probably weird on my part. I do not want kids. But hard to say it's a deal breaker with a single mom with 1 child. If we connect, I dont want to lose that chance. But I'd feel weird if I'd have to care for another man's kid in away. And then I'd be thinking maybe I should make a kid myself with her. Hard to make sense of it.
You know you had me with the title I thought this was actually going to be about men having opinions on something but nope just another post to shit on women.
Two thumbs down this assumes like NO RESPONSIBILITY of the man. She drove him away?
She either chose a shitty man or drove away a good one. Unless he's dead. What other options are there?
@bamesjond0069 BINGO!
She tried to trap an alpha with pregnancy and he bounced (predictably), she chose to get pregnant by a loser thug, or she chased away a good man. Women control the tiempo of the relationship, 95% of the time it's on the woman.
@KrakenAttackin my dad died so your point is wrong. My mom chooses to stay single.
@bamesjond0069 a shitty man can look like a good one for years and then run from responsibility these comments just prove that both of you are POS and there are bad men out there hahahahah
@bamesjond0069 what the fuck?
Men who are
1) drug addicts, gamblers, +
2) cheaters
3) abusive assholes
4) just assholes
etc
Or they didn't get along.
@bamesjond0069
+ you can't just call a man "shitty" and say it's HER fault she chose someone shitty. It's HIS fault he was shitty, what do you think women are? They have to know everything and take responsibility for everything? But the guy is responsibility free?
"It's her fault, she chose a shitty guy. It's not his fault that she chose her. It's not his fault he cheated. It's not his fault he told her he wants a life with her but changed his mind. It's not his fault he started doing drugs. It's not his fault he doesn't love her anymore. It's not his fault he started beating her!
It's all HER fault! Because she's a woman!"
@likelyOK. "A man can look like a good one for years and than run from responsibility"... BULLSHIT. You are describing women not men.
@KrakenAttackin lol if you didn't know he was a drug addict you're a retard
@Iliketea Here is a idea for you:
DON'T HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO ARE:
1) drug addicts, gamblers, +
2) cheaters
3) abusive assholes
4) just assholes
etc
Or they didn't get along
Fuck, women have to be protected from their own stupidity, just like a baby.
Only the last reason is valid for me. Even tho the third is debatable.
But the idea that I get in a relationship with someone who will never have time, or will have to leave all the time, or that I could lose because the kid doesn't get along with me...
That's something I have no control on, and that's an issue.
The guy could have died. The guy could end up with an addiction be ot alcohol, drugs, gambling etc right after the baby is born or years afterwards.
very rare
@Apope16
You try to come across as if you lniw how all women are on many of your posts including this one.
I'll keep it short and simple.
I don't want to raise a kid that's not mine.
Everyone knows you are just looking for excuses to hate on women. We have seen enough of your nasty attitude towards women on here.
Look at the number of female like and the number of male dislikes. I post articles that exposes faultlines of controversy in society between men and women. The battle of the sexes here shows the point. You are triggered. Its okay. But you know much of what i said is true. You never argued against a single point.
I have interacted with you on multiple comment sections. You have a secret disdain for women and sadistic tendencies
I will never be triggered by anything that is produced by you. because you’re a anti woman extremist. Nothing you say is ever objective nor will it ever have any validity
This is why women should refuse to date or have sex with single fathers.
They are free to think the same way about single fathers. I think no child-less person (whether male or female) should get with a parent and take up responsibility which is not theirs, but rather start their own fresh family.
I think that’s likely in most cases. However, I had a stepdad who couldn’t have kids own kids biologically. We were his kids, essentially. He’s a good man and I’m thankful to have had him growing up.
There is always some exception to the rule. However, I'm pretty sure most people here are fertile and that the statement is for the general public which are not the exception to the rule
That’s true. I wish more women would be more selective with who they sleep with in the first place so they’ll be less likely to become single mothers. It’s always been very difficult to get in my pants. My first serious boyfriend waited two years. It’s always been my worst nightmare to get knocked up by a guy who later revealed himself to be a shit partner/father and then leaving me high and dry. And there’s no way I’d be one of those women who willfully takes the kid and splits. I’d never let him get off that easy.
This is why I always give props to cultures and religions who promote waiting till marriage before having sex. I mean as much as that's a taboo here in the west, there are so many problems they don't have to deal with that our societies ARE dealing with. at least not on the same scale
@MzAsh. Yeah... those legions of single father's out there. by the way, single father's usually focus on their kids and forego dating, unlike single mothers who are eternally cock hungry.
@KrakenAttackin Damn that's actually very true hahah
How do you figure that?
I’d say that the few single fathers with primary custody that I’ve known have been pretty responsible and dedicated to their children. However I don’t share a man nor do I want kids so I’ve turned down plenty of otherwise good men simply because he had a kid. It’s just not my preference.
@MzAsh. You are absolutely entitled to have your preferences and if you don't want to date a single Dad , that's cool.
@MzAsh. You were happy to have him writing checks.
What? I write my own checks.
@MzAsh And no one has the right to shame you for not wanting to date single fathers if you yourself have no kids or don't want them at all. Unfortunately, that's what many people seem to do with men who choose not to date single mothers. While the same rule actually applies to both
Women are actually turned on by fathers
Sucks to suck, I guess.
I’m not. If I’m going to be around kids, I’d rather them be my own.
okay dude I'm blocking you, the shit that spews out your mouth blows my mind. Sick and tired of seeing it.
My ultimate goal is to marry a single mom and serve her faithfully, without ever being allowed to fuck her, while she enjoys the freedom to date other guys whenever she wants.
I'm pretty sure men don't wanna date single mother as many single mothers are working their asses off for their children's best, instead of enjoying their time out and putting themselves out in the dating game.
Dude I don’t know what you’re talking about single mothers are taking all the good news at this point everybody is ready to step up and be a stepdad versus someone that doesn’t have kids. Trust me.
Says who? There's a lot of single mother's out there past age 30 on these dating apps. Desperate and lonely and bitter. Just ask the fellas out there. As a matter of fact. I can't wait to here the fellas replying to this piece. You will hear the truth. I will even make a poll. I bet 75% of men on GAG will say they will never date a single mother. haha
and I bet most of that 75% of men on GaG are the bitter, lonely and desperate that just can't wait till someone says all the BS they want to hear about women... lol.
And, the so call men on these have children they are not fathering. You may not have children, so you speak from your reality.
@NathanDavis "RIGHT!"
Honestly there is a lot of guys out there I mean even around me that are.
You missed one argument; granted it isn't as common in this day and age. However, I don't want to date someone who has more sexual experience than me. So as a virgin, a single mother says that she isn't a virgin anymore; and has more experience than me.
No, he didn't miss it. Double standard. It's okay for man to be whorish, promiscuous, have multiple partners, non-virgin... Yet, still thinks "he's" suppose to have a virgin or a woman with 1 experience before meeting him. Yet, wonders why a woman doesn't want to have sex with him on the first date or before marriage (oh, he thinks she's gaming him, so she's withholding) .
Men who think this why are not men. They're stuck in a Peter Pan Syndrome. And, females who deal with them or fall are prey to them are they same. Girls and boys in adult bodies being silly minded.
It's cool to have a preference or standard for a relationship.
I agree. I'm conscious of men who have had a promiscuous lifestyle along with children.
It says a lot abouts man if he did not live life of self-control sexually.
It isn't a double standard; I hold myself to the same standard. Or did you not read the part where I say that I am a virgin?
And, yes, I read it (virgin part).
I was agreeing with you and noting he did not miss it because he has a double standard mindset when it comes to relationships with men and women.
Most men and "women" do about women.
I won't date a single mother because after dating for 6 months the man becomes legally responsible for the children, that includes paying child support or face prison.
I've dated single women and got discarded I feel, they didn't seem very interested in a relationship after all,,,
So I am reluctant to risk being hurt like that again, happy to be friends though, but only on a platonic basis,,,
I wouldn't date a single mother, because I do not like children.
because taking car of someone else's kid is an expensive pain in the ass that never ends. but I'll still fool around if she wants to