In the first photo, you see that this man posed with confidence. He is flexing his biceps but not pushing too hard; he is also showing his strength in a subtle way. He is not showing himself off with six-pack abs or a speedo like your run-of-the-mill douchebag.
In the second photo, you see that the very same man posed in a way that seems 'childish' (at least by today's standards). This might have looked cool in the 1980s-'90s or even the early-half-end of 2000s. But gentlemen, we are in 2022, PLEASE stop acting like a malformed DJ.
Your body language is EVERYTHING to a girl, especially when it comes to dating photos. Whatever style is out of fashion, stop wearing or posing as that thing.
This third photo is actually even better than the first one because while it is technically a selfie, it also reveals how mature, prepared, and business-oriented that he is. Sure, he could do better and strap on a nice suit and tie for the Cheesecake Factory or a religious center. He looks like he is ready to go to school (or possibly, work). He shows himself off as very casual, but not lazy; sweatpants and most shorts are not very attractive in a man's dating photo, especially for a man that is looking for a woman.
Hope that makes it all clear for you gentlemen!
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