Guys, here's how you get girls to take you more seriously on dating apps and social media

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This is a decent photo.
This is a decent photo.
This is a garbage photo.
This is a garbage photo.

In the first photo, you see that this man posed with confidence. He is flexing his biceps but not pushing too hard; he is also showing his strength in a subtle way. He is not showing himself off with six-pack abs or a speedo like your run-of-the-mill douchebag.

In the second photo, you see that the very same man posed in a way that seems 'childish' (at least by today's standards). This might have looked cool in the 1980s-'90s or even the early-half-end of 2000s. But gentlemen, we are in 2022, PLEASE stop acting like a malformed DJ.

Your body language is EVERYTHING to a girl, especially when it comes to dating photos. Whatever style is out of fashion, stop wearing or posing as that thing.

Flexing biceps with a backpack
Flexing biceps with a backpack

This third photo is actually even better than the first one because while it is technically a selfie, it also reveals how mature, prepared, and business-oriented that he is. Sure, he could do better and strap on a nice suit and tie for the Cheesecake Factory or a religious center. He looks like he is ready to go to school (or possibly, work). He shows himself off as very casual, but not lazy; sweatpants and most shorts are not very attractive in a man's dating photo, especially for a man that is looking for a woman.

Hope that makes it all clear for you gentlemen!

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Guys, here's how you get girls to take you more seriously on dating apps and social media
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