How to play the dating game - a woman's guide (Page 2)

[Nazgol]

This may all be well & true, but I think you're essentially telling girls to be something they're not. To turn off their heart & emotions, to be somebody else that they're not. You're telling them not to be a human and not feel things? Does that sound reasonable to u?

[Nazgol]

If you ever feel things, I'm sure you understand how hard it can be to stop, right?

[myTake Owner]

It’s absolutely fine to feel things but you need to distinguish between your emotions and your logical thoughts. Before the 3 month period comes to an end, you need to make sure that you’re led by your logic when making decisions around this person. Like I said, as women, we’re usually guided by our emotions but that can lead to a broken heart. We need to protect ourselves, take care of ourselves and only reveal our emotions to a man who’s earned it.

[Rose_84]

Yes but I totally transformed from zero to 100. Beinhg too emotional only opens you for more cruel manipulations, especially if you're beautiful, virgin, loyal, successful. You gotta save yourself from getting USED! Mytake owner never said to be a robot, she's telling us to be realistic.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with #2 and #3.

#4 is a Catch-22.

Also, "Men only put in as much effort as you teach them too.". I also agree with this; but you have to tell them verbally (or in written form). Don't assume that they know what you want without telling them.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oops- I forgot to correct your spelling. Lol

[SleepyUnicorn]

Any woman who follows this kind of advice is an idiot and deserves to die alone. A woman is supposed to complete a man, not compete against him. "Don't get emotions or you lose control" lmao, if relationships are some kind of control battle to you, please go to therapy.

Also, no sex for 3 months, yeah good luck with that. I would personally maybe consider doing that if she was a virgin when we met, but I'm not waiting 3 months for some hoe who's been railed by an entire football team before (average woman loses her virginity at like 15yo, so chances are she's not a virgin)

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Don't you think that keeping control over your emotions is good? Makes sure you are not played and don't get attached to fast.

[KirbyFan246]

"Men only put in as much effort as you teach them too."
I agree, this is the part of the team effort women are responsible for, they allow for the relationship to continue. Women need to know what they want so that the man can work with their wants and needs.

Also, Bravo, this entire guide is valuable.

[VanillaSalt]

i didn't like the 3 month thing but otherwise all the points were spot on. Im not waiting 3 months to sex it up and im not dating multiple people dont i won't get it somewhere else... Sorry but 3 months without putting outs asking a lot. Ide wait a month maybe 2. If she ain't put out by then she's not interested... And im pretty sure im patient.

[bamesjond0069]

If a girl really waits 3 months with men there's no way she's had sex with more than 1 or 2 guys. So i mean got to be patient, maybe she's even a virgin. Seems reasonable. But im with you if she's got some numbers i wouldn't even wait past the 2nd date tbh.

[VanillaSalt]

Even as a virgin Ide expect something if she’s serious within a month or 2. I understand her dilemma but I have my own needs and I’m devoting myself to her while seeing her so yeah.

[bamesjond0069]

I mean im a huge man ho but id wait even longer personally and have no issues about it. I don't know what the big deal is.

[Reaper1985]

for number 2 this is exactly why I don't engage in hookup culture or one night stands. typically won't have sex with someone until we've been steadily dating for 90 days and/or in a exclusive committed relationship.

[Zenit93]

Hmm. No emotion? Too busy for him? Sounds as if you’re robbing yourself of some of the best moments involved in love which takes vulnerability. What’s the point if you’re going to repress all those butterflies? Honestly, men my age who have experience don’t want a woman who’s not willing to emotionally invest or have enough time for them. Your dating values sound toxic.

[Anonymous]

I disagree
... at the end it’s all about luck and good timing.
Listen to grandma just do say and act accordingly to how you feel trust your intuition / yourself. That’s all.
You have to be a good girl and a hoe. Well Sherlock that’s nothing new here … welcome to the jungle.

[Kaamraj]

The problem is that women make rules for alphas and break them for betas.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

The problem is that people still take that alpha beta platypus whatever bs seriously.

[Lookingforthetruth]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 And this is why your wife/girlfriend will be fucking another guy behind your back. Some people never learn.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@Lookingforthetruth some people never learn I agree. Because people like you make zero logic.
No really tell me what is your logic to randomly believe that my wife will cheat on me. What concrete evidence you have of that? Aside from baseless speculation?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@Lookingforthetruth you are delusional. You and all the guys who believe this crap. You actually see the world in an extremely narrow view. Your world is incredibly small and so is your though process.

[dragoblack]

I agree with most of this except 3. Closing off your emotions in a relationship can raise flags that you are quickly becoming uninterested. Honestly, just treat a relationship like best friends with romantic benefits. Spend intimate time together doing things you both enjoy and try things you both individually enjoy. Show your dedication and interests in each other.

[jessicauwa]

I feel this way about the whole dating thing

[ImJustSomeGuyLol]

I came in thinking "oh no, here we go again", but I actually agree!
Well done on this 🙌
This is a good list, ladies if you are truly looking for a quality man this guide is one to remember.

[myTake Owner]

Thanks

[Pohjolan]

So dating with no emotions and no sex for 3 months?

You know most men would manage to figure out at least by month 2 that she isn't really that much into them.

[Squaresquirrel]

These are not games. This is how any self-respecting woman should be.

[SleepyUnicorn]

Any woman who follows this kind of advice is an idiot and deserves to die alone. A woman is supposed to complete a man, not compete against him. "Don't get emotions or you lose control" lmao, if relationships are some kind of control battle to you, please go to therapy.

Also, no sex for 3 months, yeah good luck with that. I would personally maybe consider doing that if she was a virgin when we met, but I'm not waiting 3 months for some hoe who's been railed by an entire football team before (average woman loses her virginity at like 15yo, so chances are she's not a virgin)

[Squaresquirrel]

@SleepyUnicorn " I'm not waiting 3 months for some hoe who's been railed by an entire football team before "
I wonder if you meet a girl you like, you think she is a hoe? Just asking because this sounds like you just want to get laid. Nothing wrong with that but if you start every encounter thinking like this... you also need some help.
And you should try to learn to comprehend written texts. She says no relationship-no emotion. Meaning, if you don't want to take things further and make it a relationship, she shouldn't invest emotions. I fail to understand why it is a problem.
Okay, actually I do understand. If a woman acts like this, it lowers the chance she would have nsa sex with you.

[Star_88]

@SleepyUnicorn you deserve to die alone and you will because you sound so much like a covert narcissist. I'm sure yourself abusive, controlling and manipulative. Why the fuck would you not want a woman to be independent and self respecting? Do you want her to be weak so that you can control and micromanage her according to your agendas? Even if you find such a woman, you'll never be happy either because it won't be love, but all agenda. You'll get bored of them and you'll NEVER be able to convert a hot, intelligent, caring and all in one package into you slave EVER! She'll drop you like you never existed.

[Star_88]

@SleepyUnicorn also looks like you're incompetent so a woman who got her own life and career is so threatening for you! Real men are never threatened by women. We are not here to serve your useless bum.

[Intothevoid666]

@Star_88 literally no man on earth with a shred of self respect will wait 3 months for a girl who gave it up quickly to other guys.

[Star_88]

@Intothevoid666 where did sex came from?

[Intothevoid666]

@Star_88 the op

[Squaresquirrel]

@Intothevoid666 How would he know she gave it up quickly for other guys?
What if that girl didn't give it up quickly to any guys?
Oh yeah, you guys are just convinced that every girl is a hoe who just needs to be banged.
You don't deserve a nice girl!

[Intothevoid666]

Women always think guys can’t tell if they’re thotty or not but let me tell u guys can smell it from a mile away.

[Intothevoid666]

And honestly the girl I’m talking to rn is pretty thotty and I actually don’t have a problem with it cuz of certain specifics. She wanted to fuck 2 hours into knowing me I want to wait a few weeks. I would consider it a red flag if she didn’t wanna fuck quickly upon meeting me just tbh. It’s poor practice at best and total manipulation at worst.

[Lookingforthetruth]

So many male simps and betas in the comment section thinking treating men like dogs is the best advice. Oh wow men have fallen.

[Anonymous]

Any woman plays these kind of games with me, she'll be out on the curb. 3 months rules for her boyfriend but not a one night fuck, nope

[malwins]

So you would drop everybody that’s not putting out immediately?

[Guffrus]

Right?

It turned out that the football team that gang fucked her didn't give her a free season pass after all.

You should expect to jump through hoops now though.

[Intothevoid666]

If a girl has fucked multiple guys quickly into knowing them no way any guy with any self respect is gonna wait 3 months. Just saying. U can’t have been a hoe ur whole life and magically decide the next guy is gonna wait that’s bs.

[OldWorldOrder]

Sounds like a big waste of my time & energy. No thanks.

I'll be in the woods doing something that actually adds value to my life. 🙋‍♂️

[Crankor]

You can't say your commuted to anyone if you keep playing games. Those "rules" may work with the majority but they are also a reason why people don't last in a relationship after they have dated for a while.

[dolemite89]

and it’s awful advice like this that creates even more of a whirlwind of misinformation in girls heads 🤦‍♂️

[bean2k21]

An emotionless workaholic who puts everything on her own terms and establishes "rules" as if men are all three-year olds. Yep, she's British.