No. the world is not black and white, and nobody should be an extreme variant of any type of personality - that is never good. Be a well rounded person instead.
That's what I thought... I hope nobody thought that I said that in a sarcastic, holier than thou, tone. I was seriously wondering... If that's how it came off as, that's too bad I guess. I guess we have different definitions of nice guy. Maybe it is an objective term. Maybe it isn't. I consider a nice guy someone who is anything but a douchebag. And maybe that is the definition you were going for. Maybe it isn't. I just don't see how anyone can appreciate someone who is arrogant; It doesn't matter if it is a guy or a girl. Arrogance, in my opinion, is a huge turn off. We all have our preferences, however.
He's not talking about genuinely nice guys. He's talking about guys who are nice on purpose and expect things in return and when things don't go their way, they start complaining that women are bitches.
It was the same way for me to once I stopped being the “nice guy” the thing is that it’s really not that big of a deal then because your have other things you are into.
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So is the opposite side of the spectrum--the total douchebag, good?
No. the world is not black and white, and nobody should be an extreme variant of any type of personality - that is never good. Be a well rounded person instead.
That's what I thought... I hope nobody thought that I said that in a sarcastic, holier than thou, tone. I was seriously wondering... If that's how it came off as, that's too bad I guess. I guess we have different definitions of nice guy. Maybe it is an objective term. Maybe it isn't. I consider a nice guy someone who is anything but a douchebag. And maybe that is the definition you were going for. Maybe it isn't. I just don't see how anyone can appreciate someone who is arrogant; It doesn't matter if it is a guy or a girl. Arrogance, in my opinion, is a huge turn off. We all have our preferences, however.
This is such bullshit, what about the nice genuine girls that want a nice guy and not an asshole?
He's not talking about genuinely nice guys. He's talking about guys who are nice on purpose and expect things in return and when things don't go their way, they start complaining that women are bitches.
Exactly! Finally someone who gets it right, this is amazing.
I stopped caring about meeting and women and shockingly women started taking more notice to me.
It was the same way for me to once I stopped being the “nice guy” the thing is that it’s really not that big of a deal then because your have other things you are into.
So many people need to read this.
Yes sir they do. I wish I didn’t have to learn the hard way and had someone to tell me this when I was young and dumb
Lessons never stick that way, though.
Maybe that's just in my case, though.
I am a stubborn bastard.
Aahahahahahahaha im screwed
LMAAAAOOO
OK but they would have more sucess if they do it or not?
My nigga, 5-star post
Amen, brother.
myTakes are getting worse with every day.
Or maybe you're just the kind of pussy of a guy, this dude is talking about ;)
@ShaeNielson no, I am a legit asshole and always knew I was, because people - not only girls - deserve it to be treated like shit by me.
High five, mister.
THANK. YOU !