No more Mr. Nice guy! (Page 4)
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FYI bad boys may get girls attention but that's all they get. they don't get relationships because they are generally assholes. just saying
In my experience, guys who proclaim they are so nice really aren't.
This is what happens when you go after looks... just saying. There are good girls out there, but most guys wouldn't even give a below average or even an average girl the time of day.
So you're saying nice guys should settle for the second best?
That since they're so nice and perfect they'll be okay taking the spoils after the bad boys and the players?
Is that it? Because it's crap like that which makes any nice guy with self respect loose interest on the spot.
Bitter nice guy much? Nope, just a realist honest guy seeing right through the hypocrisy.
@dartmaul15 you have the wrong idea of what I mean. The whole nice guy thing is a joke. You guys choose to be bitter. Let's be honest, most men are after looks. They're picky about the type of girl who'd they'd consider even asking out to begin with. Most men are attracted to hot girls. These girls know their advantages already being hot and they can get away with a lot more because of it. Then, he'll end up getting his heart broken and continue to chase after these "kind". He'll just end up bitter to all women and assume we're all this way.
@dartmaul15
Err, anon said that these self-proclaimed nice guys are always going after the super hawt ladies and never give anyone else a chance. Where exactly did she say to go after the girls that have been with "bad boys" and "players"?
And an average girl is suddenly "spoils" just because she's average? Average to below average girls are usually untouched, if "sloppy seconds" is such a huge problem for you.
@ᗰIᑎᑕᕼᗩᑎ didn't say that, I put her logic to the extreme to "prove" how claiming all guys just go by looks is wrong.
It was also meant as statements intended to make her think a little more.
Because by indirectly telling him to go for the not so good looking girls she is in fact telling him to go for the girls nobody else wants. And that is not right, because everyone should be entitled to their standards. And bo hoo if you don't fit that.
Looks matter, both for girls and guys, we all know that.
And anon, stop talking like you don't care about looks. Sexual attraction IS a thing. So it is just fair if he expects sexual attraction to be a part of the package. Hell, without it, it's hard to make things last!
Not all hot girls are playing guys. But apparently the take writer can't manage to find the ones who are not playing.
So both of you; can we just accept both men and women do care about looks (sexual attraction) and move on? It's a part of life, deal with it!
@maskedsanity
Of course humans care about looks, nobody's disputing that. And if you seen me post before, you'd know that I don't support the idea of dating people you're not attracted to.
But your original comment is not addressing anon in the slightest. You just unloaded your bitterness about something unrelated that most nice guys complain about: that they don't want used up women after they had been with players.
Try actually addressing what is said rather than explode on this girl.
hmm I want to say I agree but I dont because I'm dating a nice guy. He's sensitive and sweet and thoughtful. So not all nice guys finish last. Just have to find a nice girl who wants a nice guy. Dont give up hope!
I'm just here to finish the lyrics " No more Mr. nice guy! No more Me. clean ean ean ean, your so sick so obscene"
That's not true. Thier are women who look for the nice guys. You just have to pay attention to the women you go after not all of them are good or looking for a nice guy and they show it.
I don't feel sorry for you at all. You say you don't expect them to do anything, other than being nice, but clearly your do.
* you
You can't "demand" girls to want you, just because you treat them good. I know plenty of (genuine) nice guys, whom I think would be great boyfriends, but I just don't personally find myself attracted to them. Does that make me wrong, or a bitch, or contributing too the "nice guys finnish last"? No it doesn't, I am not obligated to like someone. I always treat them nice, and surely there are girls out there who don't, just like there are guys who are assholes. You can't generalize like that.
There is the actual nice guys, the "nice guys" and the genuine assholes. All the variables of nice guys want it too be clear they are nothing like the assholes, that not all guys are the same, but still you judge our entire gender from a few bitches. That is hypocritical.
I guess Im just sick of nice guys whining. You "Nice guys" are exhausting..
I doubt you understand it fully.
An average guy aim is to reproduce. Thus is personality will match what he believes should be a standard in that quest. The guy has been nice for long and has no success and then gave up because being nice only cause him to be used as a toy and treated like shot.
The topic isn't Wether or not girls can refuse guys. Obviously they can and there's nothing wrong with that. There are just less and less nice guys.
@pool4 That's just not how I read it.
I only expect niceness in return. I do not think that my kindness will get me anything with her or anyone else. To expect more than a thank you for bringing her sweater is silly.
I just take exception to the fact that my kindness is a mark against me in this example and other experiances I have had.
I do absolutely agree that she should have thanked you at least. People can be tremendously impolite.
This is completely wrong. I am living proof of that. The phrase "nice guys finish last" relates to cumming last. Nothing else
Was she actually walking out the door without her sweater?
Lol... bro I will be back here once I'm done with gym.
Well, try being 'not-a-nice-guy' if you can. Good luck.
I'm personally in love with a wonderfully nice guy but I'm not his type
What are you saying? You are drop dead gorgeous. He'd probably faint if you talked to him.
Lol I do talk to him! But like I said he's just not that into me.
@thetundrawolf
I respect that guy's choice, because he actually takes more things into account than just her looks.
What you did there is pretty much devalue AutumnBloom to her exterior. There's more to a person than being good looking.
@maskedsanity even then, physical attractiveness is not a globally universal quality.
@Mesonfielde
Exactly. What one guy finds attractive may not be so for another. And even if he did find her attractive, he may not like her personality.
Then again, if you've seen this guy post before, you'd know he's no shining beacon of intellect.
Gee @maskedsanity you really think there's more to do with who someone is than just looks?
Way to find the one time I try and pay someone a complement and twist it to hell.
Welcome to my ignore list, lady.
@MaskedSanity he's one of my closest friends but he likes boho type girls I am just not that but to be fair he is my Comic-Con/leaky con buddy even though he's Gryffindor and I am ravenclaw but I have told him & I knew then like I know now that those girls are his preference but it doesn't change my feelings
Just be yourself don't change yourself for the others. Nice guys finish last so what? I'd still choose to be a nice one
Awh its sad to hear that these women take advantage of you! That's totally wrong my advice to you would be to just be you don't change for no one some day you will find someone perfect for you that don't take advantage of you ! Keep smiling
There's a difference of being a "nice guy" and a doormat. While I'm only going to say that girls have their own likes and dislikes.
...
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KN6ngThqMEs...
You need to be nice and interesting and exciting at the same time.
Check my latest MyTake
be likedaniel craig's james bond... interesting, confident, courteous... not 'nice'.
Solution: stop being nice. Treat all girls equally no matter how hot.
I agree 110% fuck all these bitches who say they like/want a nice guy. That's clearly a bull crap. They only say they want a nice guy to hide their shallowness.