I think it depends. I knew a girl who just started smacking her boyfriend, and even when he blocked and tried to stop her, she tried kicking him. It took a bunch of us to restrain her. I think in a situation like that he could slap her back. I think that would be self defense. Her boyfriend didn't slap her, but that's one example I can think of. If it's one slap, I don't think so. I think with anyone guy or girl, they should just walk away.
I once had a good friend of mine slap me when we were drunk, and all I did was walk away and grab another drink. I didn't speak to her for a long time. She slapped me just because I said her boyfriend (who was cheating on her, and she knew it) was a jerk. I know we're both girls, but still. I don't think one slap means anything. Now if she had gone crazy on me, chances are I would have hit her back.
In a relationship, I honestly think if one person hits the other then the relationship shouldn't even continue. If the person capable of doing it once, chances are it will happen again. I think it would also lead to a lot of resentment. I don't see why anyone needs to hit anyone anyway. I've never agreed with girls think it's okay to slap a guy whenever, even if she thinks he deserves it.
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I think he has the right to, whether he should or not is up to him, it might be the end of the relationship if he does though. Physical violence has no place in a relationship and women should learn to keep their hands to themselves if they don't want to get hit. My dad always told me "If you're going to act like a man you're going to get hit like a man" basically stating that no matter how upset I am, I shouldn't hit a guy because more than likely he's stronger than me and can hurt me more than I can hurt him (if weapons aren't involved). And if a guy ever physically hurts me my dad's going to have to hurt him so it's best to just avoid the situation at all costs haha.
No, simply because I think physical violence is wrong. I'm not saying this just because she's a woman. It could just as well be your dad, your brother, your male cousin, your male friend etc, and I would still say "don't hit back". Unless they're seriously threatening your life and you HAVE to defend yourself, slapping/hitting them back would be 100% pointless. It won't do anything but make you look just as dumb as them. So do you want to be the bigger person or not? I say, be the bigger person. Physical violence is always wrong and should not be used for anything but self-defense. Hitting her back would not be self-defense, it would be revenge.
This is when things get iffy sure if she hits him then by all accounts he's got rights to hit her back but problem with that is the guy always outweighs the girl in the situation and also by strength he's prob stronger so that little B slaps she hits you with sure can anger you but won't really injure you but when you retaliate you can seriously do psychical damage I just say you bitch her out and warn her that the next time she does that you'll do the same but just don't forget your strength outweighs hers and I'm not saying girl are weak just the truth a 120 pound girl can't hold her own against a 180 pound guy
Morally yes legally no. with women's lib many good things happened but somehow hitting men and it being socially acceptable is one of the bad side effects. Funny that these days you can easily find a girl to suck your ding dong but there is also a good chance it could be bit or cut off. Now obviously no one has the right to harm another but it happens and justice and equality are still far from the horizon. Hopefully all the playing fields will be fair someday and hopefully violence to both sexes will be at a minimum or even non existent.
You have a legal right do defend yourself if she keeps hitting you, but you don't have a right to slap her back for the sake of revenge, any more than she had a right to slap you. Just dump her crazy ass, and don't ever consider working things out with someone that hits you. That has never worked out well for anyone.
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Hell yeah. If you're going to attack someone, you better be prepared for them to try to knock you the fuck out. No one with common sense is going to sit there and be a punching bag, no matter what's between their legs.
Depends... what did he do? Or was he an innocent bystander? I think everyone has the right to defend themselves... personally, I'm a pretty hands-on person... i would hate for a playful gesture from me to land myself in a coma because the dude couldn't handle his strength or completely misunderstood.
No one should hit anyone. The guy would technically have a right to defend himself, but he probably shouldn't just because he is likely stronger than her and can cause a lot more harm to her than she could cause him.
In the case of the girl hitting the guy it would be best If the guy didn't hit her back and they just talked about it. Because violence begets violence.
My opinion would be the same if the guy hit the girl as well. She would be best off not hitting him back and talking out the issue.Hit her back ten times harder. Yeah you'll do more damage than she did but it's a consequence. My dad used to tell me and my siblings to do that so we did. Just because she has a pussy it doesn't make it okay. I'm sure if the tables were turned everyone would agree that she should slap you back so why the fuck not. Equality n all that
If she slapped you for no reason or if she slapped you for a good reason... I don't think you should slap back.
If you don't like the way she's behaving dump her. The only moral thing you can do.
Be better than her.
Why would she use physical abuse at all is beyond me. Especially in a relationship. Be better. If she's having some sort of metal problems and you can't handle it (maybe no one can or should have to) move on.Honestly, while I'm against physical violence, if you open the can of worms, you deserve to be shown that your sex does not give you a free pass immunity card. If they haven't learned previously that violence is bad, maybe they'll learn from the pain, if they're incapable of doing so from logic or empathy.
I don't necessarily think that a man or a woman should be hitting anybody. There are other ways to resolve conflict. I don't believe a man should ever lay his hands on a woman violently but I also don't think a woman should be violent towards her man either. A lot of people don't realize that a lot of domestic violence cases involve a woman being violent towards the man!
As far as right is concerned yea man he has all the RIGHT in the world.
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If she's a GF I'd leave her forever end of the story "things are either right or wrong for me"
If she's wife, gimme 1 week I ain't gonna leave or slap her but she gonna slap herself 10 times wanna learn how? well its a secret :DI think no one should hit anyone in the first place. If she slaps him, she should be in trouble somehow. No one has the right to hit someone else. It's unfair as is how women can get away with this (most of the time). But no, he should not hit back. At that moment, he should just walk away and assess the situation as well as give things time to cool off.
No, you don't have a right to slap her back. If you have to deal with her slapping or hitting you can always restrain her arms by holding them down. You could overwhelm her at your whim. A girl shouldn't slap or hit a guy, or anyone else for that matter, but you can't hit her back. If she's out of control you restrain her.
A man physically and mentally can handle getting slapped by a lady. Not to mention that a guys slap can cause much more damage. No you can't hit back because no matter what a lady does, you're still lucky she lets you call her "your lady". I don't care if you think this is sexist. It's my opinion
Knock that bitch out. Then throw all her shit out of the house while she's unconscious.
MOst women don't want equality. This poll proves it.
But yes of course. Whereas feminists would disagree with me, I view a woman as just as much a person as a man is. She is responsible for her own actions. She has all the rights of a man. But she also has the same obligation that a man has: the obligation not to violate other people's rights. You can't have one without the other. It doesn't make sense.Technically he doe's have the right to hit back, but morally he shouldn't. I don't believe in hitting a woman, so if a woman tried to hit me I'd try and block the hit or if she did succeed in hitting me, I'd just be a gentleman about it and walk away.
No. And if the roles were reversed, I don't think she'd have the right to hit him back either.
What good could possibly come from letting a violent person drag you down to their level?You pussies. If someone hits you first, you have every damn right to retaliate. Fair is fair.
I wish we can go back to the old days where people just fought it out to eliminate steam. There was a lot less nonsense because people minded their p's and q's. My parent's generation was awesome. Now, people raise kids to be pussies.i dont think so. its not okay for the girl to slap the boy to begin with, and him doing it back makes it that much worse. he does have the right to defend himself, but if its just a simple slap, i dont think he needs to retaliate. be the bigger man (literally) and control yourself when she couldn't. you know?
don't know but if my boyfriend slapped me id fucking chop his mother fucking testicles off without hesitation.
but, if i was that guy, i'd get a restraining order on her... lol
no one should slap anyone. whether girl slap boy or boy slap girl.
the boy should get rid of her asap.If a woman ever hit my man her ass would be down for the count. I did it my self. I said hold on baby i got this. I wouldn't let it happen i took kick boxing.
I had a girl once who slipped me by surprise as hard as she could. It didn't even hurt stood there like a rock. Her face was like OMG I looked at her and was like what was that for. I couldn't hit her back and I did think about it. I would have knocked her out if I would have slapped her back. If she would have spit at me... than SMACK...
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