Last night I went out with a coworker and some of his friends. At the end of the night, he leaned in and surprised kissed me. I didn't kiss back or want it. My question is, should I tell my bf this even thought it's a one time thing and won't ever happen again?
My coworker knows I have a bf. we've all hung out before too, they've met one another. I don't want to lie to my bf but I don't want to cause any problems because I know my bf is going to overreact and get pissed off and blame me.
What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, you should tell him. And tell him that he kissed you, that you didn't kiss back and that you didn't want it.
You can't base your own actions on how you think your BF will act. If he tries to act like a dick and blame you for the kiss, then you'll need to call him on that BS and tell him that that shit won't fly with you. You're not to blame here, and you're just doing the right thing by being honest about it.1
Most Helpful Girl
You didn't kiss back, then there's nothing to feel bad about and therefore you don't really have to tell anyone about it. Just make sure it doesn't happen again, tell your coworker to back off if it should happen again.. :p And if you tell him, he probably won't get pissed on you, but he'll get pissed on your coworker and perhaps beat his ass. Would you want that to happen just for a kiss?0