Why is she following me like this now?

[Anonymous]

This girl at work has been like following me out to the parking lot like every time I leave for lunch and leave for home in the afternoon. She also sometimes times arriving to work at the same time as me and we'll walk in together talking. She has a boyfriend and I have a girl friend so it's weird. She used to walk and talk with my buddy all the time, I thought she liked him because she was always talking with him and nobody else really. Now I never see them talking anymore and she is like all up on me. She will leave down the stairs like one minute after me all the time no matter when I leave now. Like she comes out right as I'm getting in my car to leave. It's so weird what is she trying to do?

[Anonymous]

I think she like you, but she see's that you're in a relationship so she would rather not get too close. So its either she likes you, she wants to be friends, or she's just on some stalker like shit.

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[Asker]

That's the thing though. She didn't do this for like 5 months, she was always talking to my buddy. Now they're not talking and she's looking for attention from me? What's with that? Why did it take so long then?

[DoubleDown20]

I think its all coincidence here.

[Asker]

I feel like it happened wayyy to often to be a coincidence...

[ldrccarter]

You asked this some months ago...

[Asker]

I did? What was your answer?

[ldrccarter]

I think I said she likes you but wants you to chase her

[Asker]

But why all of a sudden is what I don't get? Her and I never really talked or did this for like 5 months and she was always with my buddy. Now I don't see them anymore and she's doing this to me. Isn't that a little strange?

[ldrccarter]

do you show her a little attention? and I would just say approach her but you don't want to start anything negative with a co worker

[Asker]

I feel like yes but maybe not. I thought maybe my buddy was ignoring her so she was coming to me for attention?

[ldrccarter]

that sound about right. is your buddy single? or is me quiet? or bothered by her or something? You should also talk to him

[Asker]

I told him recently that she was doing this to me and that it was creeping me out. He seemed a little pissed. He said she used to do this to him too and that she must want attention. ?

[ldrccarter]

wow um test her, and ignore her for a while and see if she goes back to him. Maybe she just need to have a guy friend

[Asker]

Wow what? Lol

The funny thing was that after I told him that, almost literally the next day I saw then talking again and she stopped following me. Isn't that weird? What do you think that was?

[ldrccarter]

maybe he got jealous of you. I have no idea. but im thinking about it... trust me this is a mystery

[Asker]

Oh I am also sure he got jealous. The weird part is how after I told him they are talking again and she backs off me. ?

[ldrccarter]

Wow, I think she wants you both.