I try not to judge it because I know I tend to take my time as I think out the spelling and grammar of my texting responses. I make others wait a lot, so waiting for a while isn't bad for me. I dont think most girls do this behavious, but some girls wait to respond in order to make you chase them.
Because just like anybody else, we have other things to do as well. Maybe I'm in the middle of working or another conversation, or I just don't want to talk right now. If she really likes/wants to impress somebody she likes she may reply quicker, or she might even think that she's coming on too strong and wait to reply so she doesn't seem desperate
Generally girls text back fairly quick, like within seconds. If she's texting you back real slow, she's either with her friends trying to get their 12 opinions on what to say to you, she's not that interested or maybe she's really busy but don't count on that last one
It really depends on how much they like you or if they find you fun or attractive. In any case I stopped playing their game and do the same thing. If they never text back at all I just take it for what it is. I don't even care to ask questions like this one that you are asking to myself, Because I already know the answer deep down. People go absolutely crazy over this type of situation and the truth in the matter is this.. If a conversation is getting shorter between you two its starting to get longer with someone else. Personally ever since the digital era took the world by storm I don't take people, Frienships nor relationships seriously anymore.
It seems like your the type of guy at the party that is just there to hook up with girls. If I was a girl and hooked up with you and then you texted me the next day something flirty there's a could chance I wouldn't reply because most girls aren't just looking to mess around, sure they had fun the night before but maybe they want a real relationship and you come off as not being good material for that or they are a girl who hooks up with guys nightly and want a different guy the next night
There's a small chance that she may be receiving a load of messages during the time you are texting her (i. e: group chat msgs)... As this happens to me a lot from my co-workers or cousins and I tend to put my phone down and never check again when I do hear a notification came through OR stay preoccupied with my other technological junk (facebook/ig/driving)...
But if that is your official girlfriend, I would only be concerned when she DOES NOT respond at all, and leaves you hanging. Be happy that she's not blowing up your phone as well... as that can be quite a nuisance.
I do this sometimes, actually most of the time. Just so I don't look to eager however they are not my boyfriend however sometimes I'll be busy or think I've sent the message or just genuinely don't want to talk at the time. So it could be any of those. Sorry it's not much help
a well I think ...your girlfriend might be busy or bored(means not interested in you ) or having interested in other guys too ..please don't mind ...but some girls don't text or call early Cos they are not actually attracted according to them...their mentality... but they still like the guy cos of his nature or because the girl thinks it's good to talk with him..but yet cos their something that is what they want personally is not in the guy .so they at first ignore & after sometime they text back...
That's rubbish I work, go to school, practice guitar, draw assignments, and play video games on a daily basis my texts are never more than 20 min late unless I don't want to reply because I'm pissed or pretending to be distant... Who is busy for 5 hours?
Personally, when I'm at home I sometimes leave my phone lying around and don't get the text for a long time. When I'm out and about I usually have it on vibrate in my pocket and usually don't feel it. So that's why it may take some girls a long time to text back.
Probably because they think about our text too much. or if they're playing hard to get. I'm a guy and it takes me forever to text back cause my phone is old and slow at texting, so the phone a girl has and how much she texts everyone else matters.
But I agree, I hate when girls are trying to play games with guys and take slow on purpose. And when you read girls saying it's only because they're phones not with them, that just means their the type of women that DONT treat their phone like their liver, always attached to it.
if it texts forever to text back, she probably hasn't looked at it, but if it happens a lot she's either uninterested, scared, or thinks too much about what to write back, in my opinion
depends on the girl I personally don't take long to text back in fact the guys usually take forever to reply back well only one guy and he likes me which I don't understand y he takes so long to respond if he really does like me but yea it could always be that she's busy at the time or her phone ran outta batteries or she didn't hear her phone...the only thing that matters is that she eventually responds.
women crave attention, its the same with personal ads in the internet.
they place an ad, lotta pics, but seldom respond when men take the time to answer the ad,women just want to know men are paying attention to em, but they really don't care if the guy gets ignored for his efforts.
There could be numerous reasons including she's genuinely busy. However, In today's day and age of instant communication if she's doing it for long time or the answers seem purposely short then it's done on purpose. flat out tell her that you expect her to put in the same effort and if she refuses then dump her.
For me, I'm either busy because I do a lot in a day or I really just don't like them enough yet to text them when I do get my little free time.
Sometimes I feel like I put in more effort to keep conversations going with men. I don't like carrying the convos like that, so if the person is kinda boring I'll respond less.
More than likely she just sees you as a friend and doesn't really want to pursue anything else. Also she might just be getting bored with her other guys so she'll hit you up until someone more interesting comes along. Don't waste your time with her seriously. But one thing you should always make you feelings for her clear, If you really like her and haven't let her know, you should try telling her, and her response will tell it all. Good luck :)
maybe they have a life outside of their phone? Unless it is an emergency I sometimes put it off. Also if I am doing something important I won't even look at my phone if it goes off. I'm not sure where it is written that you have to answer a text/message in a certain amount of time. I get it at the station we have to get the stuff out the door in a certain time frame, so after years of doing that I feel it is ok not to be tied to my phone.
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Are you talking about entirely different girls or the same girl who wants it both ways?
Different girls have different preferences for texting. If it's the same girl, maybe she just likes starting drama with you over not texting to make you prove how much you like her.
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Depends on who I'm talking to.
Some I don't really know, ehh... could be up to two hours.
Friend, mmm... half hour
Good friend uhhh...5 to 25 min
Girl friend... I try to make as quick as possible. I know patience is a virtue but I don't think anyone likes to wait. I know I dont. So I treat other like I'd like to be treated. Easy enough. Even if I was lazy I'm thoughful enough to know she wouldn't like me to loaf so I get it to anyway.
uhhh, as long as I've been alive it's been guys who take forever to reply. girls are more attached to their phones and we communicate more, so I don't know. when a guy doesn't respond it could mean nothing, but if a girl doesn't, I'd be careful and make sure everything is still cool between the two of you.
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I try not to judge it because I know I tend to take my time as I think out the spelling and grammar of my texting responses. I make others wait a lot, so waiting for a while isn't bad for me. I dont think most girls do this behavious, but some girls wait to respond in order to make you chase them.
Because just like anybody else, we have other things to do as well. Maybe I'm in the middle of working or another conversation, or I just don't want to talk right now. If she really likes/wants to impress somebody she likes she may reply quicker, or she might even think that she's coming on too strong and wait to reply so she doesn't seem desperate
Generally girls text back fairly quick, like within seconds. If she's texting you back real slow, she's either with her friends trying to get their 12 opinions on what to say to you, she's not that interested or maybe she's really busy but don't count on that last one
It really depends on how much they like you or if they find you fun or attractive. In any case I stopped playing their game and do the same thing. If they never text back at all I just take it for what it is. I don't even care to ask questions like this one that you are asking to myself, Because I already know the answer deep down. People go absolutely crazy over this type of situation and the truth in the matter is this.. If a conversation is getting shorter between you two its starting to get longer with someone else. Personally ever since the digital era took the world by storm I don't take people, Frienships nor relationships seriously anymore.
It seems like your the type of guy at the party that is just there to hook up with girls. If I was a girl and hooked up with you and then you texted me the next day something flirty there's a could chance I wouldn't reply because most girls aren't just looking to mess around, sure they had fun the night before but maybe they want a real relationship and you come off as not being good material for that or they are a girl who hooks up with guys nightly and want a different guy the next night
There's a small chance that she may be receiving a load of messages during the time you are texting her (i. e: group chat msgs)... As this happens to me a lot from my co-workers or cousins and I tend to put my phone down and never check again when I do hear a notification came through OR stay preoccupied with my other technological junk (facebook/ig/driving)...
But if that is your official girlfriend, I would only be concerned when she DOES NOT respond at all, and leaves you hanging. Be happy that she's not blowing up your phone as well... as that can be quite a nuisance.
I do this sometimes, actually most of the time. Just so I don't look to eager however they are not my boyfriend however sometimes I'll be busy or think I've sent the message or just genuinely don't want to talk at the time. So it could be any of those. Sorry it's not much help
a well I think ...your girlfriend might be busy or bored(means not interested in you ) or having interested in other guys too ..please don't mind ...but some girls don't text or call early Cos they are not actually attracted according to them...their mentality... but they still like the guy cos of his nature or because the girl thinks it's good to talk with him..but yet cos their something that is what they want personally is not in the guy .so they at first ignore & after sometime they text back...
maybe still can be other reasons too
That's rubbish I work, go to school, practice guitar, draw assignments, and play video games on a daily basis my texts are never more than 20 min late unless I don't want to reply because I'm pissed or pretending to be distant... Who is busy for 5 hours?
Personally, when I'm at home I sometimes leave my phone lying around and don't get the text for a long time. When I'm out and about I usually have it on vibrate in my pocket and usually don't feel it. So that's why it may take some girls a long time to text back.
Thats stupid
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! get it??
Probably because they think about our text too much. or if they're playing hard to get. I'm a guy and it takes me forever to text back cause my phone is old and slow at texting, so the phone a girl has and how much she texts everyone else matters.
But I agree, I hate when girls are trying to play games with guys and take slow on purpose. And when you read girls saying it's only because they're phones not with them, that just means their the type of women that DONT treat their phone like their liver, always attached to it.
if it texts forever to text back, she probably hasn't looked at it, but if it happens a lot she's either uninterested, scared, or thinks too much about what to write back, in my opinion
depends on the girl I personally don't take long to text back in fact the guys usually take forever to reply back well only one guy and he likes me which I don't understand y he takes so long to respond if he really does like me but yea it could always be that she's busy at the time or her phone ran outta batteries or she didn't hear her phone...the only thing that matters is that she eventually responds.
women crave attention, its the same with personal ads in the internet.
they place an ad, lotta pics, but seldom respond when men take the time to answer the ad,women just want to know men are paying attention to em, but they really don't care if the guy gets ignored for his efforts.
There could be numerous reasons including she's genuinely busy. However, In today's day and age of instant communication if she's doing it for long time or the answers seem purposely short then it's done on purpose. flat out tell her that you expect her to put in the same effort and if she refuses then dump her.
For me, I'm either busy because I do a lot in a day or I really just don't like them enough yet to text them when I do get my little free time.
Sometimes I feel like I put in more effort to keep conversations going with men. I don't like carrying the convos like that, so if the person is kinda boring I'll respond less.
More than likely she just sees you as a friend and doesn't really want to pursue anything else. Also she might just be getting bored with her other guys so she'll hit you up until someone more interesting comes along. Don't waste your time with her seriously. But one thing you should always make you feelings for her clear, If you really like her and haven't let her know, you should try telling her, and her response will tell it all. Good luck :)
maybe they have a life outside of their phone?
Unless it is an emergency I sometimes put it off.
Also if I am doing something important I won't even look at my phone if it goes off.
I'm not sure where it is written that you have to answer a text/message in a certain amount of time.
I get it at the station we have to get the stuff out the door in a certain time frame, so after years of doing that I feel it is ok not to be tied to my phone.
Are you talking about entirely different girls or the same girl who wants it both ways?
Different girls have different preferences for texting. If it's the same girl, maybe she just likes starting drama with you over not texting to make you prove how much you like her.
Depends on who I'm talking to.
Some I don't really know, ehh... could be up to two hours.
Friend, mmm... half hour
Good friend uhhh...5 to 25 min
Girl friend... I try to make as quick as possible. I know patience is a virtue but I don't think anyone likes to wait. I know I dont. So I treat other like I'd like to be treated. Easy enough. Even if I was lazy I'm thoughful enough to know she wouldn't like me to loaf so I get it to anyway.
uhhh, as long as I've been alive it's been guys who take forever to reply. girls are more attached to their phones and we communicate more, so I don't know. when a guy doesn't respond it could mean nothing, but if a girl doesn't, I'd be careful and make sure everything is still cool between the two of you.