Too much talk and not enough action to back it up. I don't want to offend you or hurt you, but I'm going to put it blunt how it likely looks to him:
Had you just left it alone when he ignored your text last week, I guarantee he'd try pursuing again after some time. And if you kept acting interested but allowing him to initiate, it probably would've led back to you liking him as well (considering he did have feelings for you after hooking up in the first place).
However, you followed it up by telling him you'd leave him alone, which showed that it really bothered you he didn't answer and you were being a bit emotionally manipulative to get him to answer you. It would've been best to say nothing. HOWEVER, if you'd backed it up by actually leaving him alone, it still would've been better than reaching out again a few days later saying you're still "DTF." Now you look desperate and low-value in his eyes. He doesn't believe anything you say and he thinks you're hooked on him even though he's done hardly anything for you.
Again, don't take it personal, we have ALL been there, but this is likely what he's thinking. What you should do now is completely let it go. Do not initiate with him again after all these ignored messages. And if he does initiate with you, if all you want is a hookup, then go for it. If you want him as a boyfriend (or more than a hookup situation), don't let it go to sex. Continue to show interest, but don't sleep with him, and stop initiating with him until you find out if he's more interested in you again.
That's my best advice! Good luck :)
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Sex before the relationship never a good start, but hey do you.
No amount of workload can stop you from sending simple texts. I think you probably gave it up too soon and he doesn't value you as much. Let him be on the receiving end of the cold shoulder and if he persists, he was genuine, but if not he wasn't worth the fuk.
You could try CALLING and talking to him. But that aside, you shot him down. Guys are never "just friends" with girls. He was waiting for you and the opportunity, and you told him no. So now he's turned his attention to another girl.
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