I've been talking to this guy for a little bit and then we hooked up and he kind of ghosted me but then he reached out again and we hooked up again. Then we didn’t talk for a few weeks and I reached out and we hooked up again.
Except this most recent time he was kind of rude. Like kept making unnecessary comments and saying out of line things to me and so I called him out on it and asked why he was being so rude and he just said, “oh I’m just messing with you don’t be stupid.” He keeps going, keeps making these weird rude comments so I asked him if he was okay, did he have a bad day? And he just dodged the questions.
Then he starts asking me more personally questions (like why my ex and I broke up, have I been fucking other guys, wanting to see pictures of other guys I’m talking too) and I kind of dodge them also because it’s supposed to be casual sex and nothing more. So I asked him why are asking me? He said, “I just care about you.” At this point I’m ready to go and feel really uncomfortable and he just said, “bye text me whenever.”
Fast forward a few days, he’s matched with me on dating sites (why? We already hooked up) but we haven’t talked since.
My issue is, I’m not looking for anything more and I don’t think he is either but I wanted to text him and ask what was up with all the rude comments he was making towards me.
Is that out of the scope of casual sex? Was he being rude to me in hopes I’ll leave him alone?
