I had met this guy online and we had been talking for about a week before we had first met, after the first date he had wanted to be exclusive already and was telling me how he knew i was the one and that he had really wanted to further our relationship. Being taken back by this I had told him i wanted to take things slow and after he found out that there were a ton of other guys i had been talking to he seemed to want to rush things even more. We've been dating for three weeks now and we had both opened up to each other and gained each other's trust with everything, he's been coming to see me every other day and we both enjoy each others company. he assures me and tells me each time how much he is into me but i'm afraid he only wants me because he might just be desperate to be in a relationship? he's told all his friends and family about me already and his friends are calling him whipped but how do i know that i'm truly the one he wants when he's never really had a girlfriend?
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Like me, some guys have parental issues. We attach to what we lacked most in our childhood. Affection is one of the top priorities in human nature. We want, what we see society has. A healthy relationship that we can tend to and improve. If he has never really had a girlfriend in the past. This is all new to him. When a child sees another kid playing with a toy. What does that child want? The toy the other kid has. We want, what others seem to have, and also what we've never experienced. If he attached so quickly, then he has no idea what a relationship really is. You can't jump into deep water without testing your limits. What the person has or doesn't, may not interest you in the future. My advice? Sit and talk to him. About what he wants in life. What he wants in a relationship. Sometimes you need to be an adult. You can't expect an answer, without first questioning.1
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