What's the worst/biggest lie you've told your BF/GF?

Question

I told my BF I'd had a boyfriend before when I hadn't... I just didn't want to seem lame. I cleared it up later and thankfully he didn't judge me for lying!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I didn't want him to know I was a virgin, so I lied and said I was experienced. I was embarrassed because I was 26 years old, and I didn't think he'd want me if he knew the truth. Everyone always told me that a guy would never guess and to just fake it. So I tried that, but it was an extremely painful experience and he KNEW. He didn't say anything about it until the next day and when he found out the truth, he dumped me. He said I should have been honest with him so he could have tried to be more gentle, and he didn't appreciate being lied to. He said he couldn't be in a relationship where he was lied to from the start. The problem is, he was in his 30s and I figured a man in his 30s wouldn't want to be with a 26 year old virgin. If a guy his age wanted to be with a virgin, he'd go for an 18 year or something. Not a 26 year old virgin. I've always regretted it, but I honestly thought that being a virgin at 26 was a bad thing.

snowangle · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend and I broke up for about 7 months before getting back together. I told him I wasn't interested in any other guys during that time, but in reality I went on a date with a guy I met online. He was honestly a great guy and somewhat perfect for me, but he only reminded me that I truly belonged with my ex. So there was no second date, my ex and I eventually got back together and we're now planning a future. :)

SensualScribe · Accepted Answer

I have not lied to my boyfriend. I don't tell him everything. If he asks, though I will not lie about it. We don't see each other much, our situation is complicated and he has health problems. It causes me a lot of stress and is emotionally exhausting. He knows it is hard on me and I worry a lot, but he does not know how much I cry or how emotionally exhausted I am.

Hexxus · Accepted Answer

Worst lie I ever told a partner... Im an atheist and I was dating a Christian. When we first became serious we talked about our different belief systems and agreed to continue the relationship. After a while about 5 months it started to bother her to the point where we almost broke up...

In order to save the relationship I lied and said I started to believe in god. Worst lie I ever told a partner. Not only did I lie to her, but I betrayed myself as well.

Xonen · Accepted Answer

Our relationship had gone sour so I broke up with her, but a few days afterwards I couldn't bear the fact that I had caused her so much distress so I lied to her and pretended that I regretted breaking up with her and we got together for another 2 months before I broke up with her again permanently.

Anonymous · Answer

-Yes you have a big dick. Well, I love his dick and for me it is perfect, but his dick is not big. It is on the smaller side, but if I would tell it to him he would feel so self conscious about it!

Kalinda · Answer

Id like to think that lying isn't going to be a default form of communication in my relationship. If I have to lie to get by I should probably get out.

I also do not want to be lied to. Truth is important to me.

TechieMatera · Answer

"I'm fine," "Yeah, (his obnoxious female friend) is pretty cool," and possibly "I have no idea where you left your Xbox controller." Stupid stuff like that lol. Nothing heavy or detrimental.

bama_girl89 · Answer

None, I hate lying. I'm a very open person and not afraid to tell a person what's up. I can't even lie to my own mom.

existing_not_living · Answer

I told my boyfriend that I was going to school on Monday and that I had a finished a paper I was supposed to write. I didn't go to school and I didn't finish the paper. He's really huge on going to school everyday so he scolded me when I told him I was thinking of not going in.

Frost_Byte · Answer

I told my ex gf that i would committ suicide if she broke up with me, in order to get her to stay with me. We only stayed together for about a week after that. I never actually intended to kill myself. I hav had a guilty conscience ever since. Hopefully this made u feel better about whatever lie u told your bf

Anonymous · Answer

"baby I love the perfume you got me, I actually used it yesterday!"
"No I'm not mad at you at all"
"I forgot my netflix password... let's just chat!"
"your abs are much better than his. I don't like men so muscular like that " (when he saw me checking out a picture of a super hot guy friend
" I can't download battlefield bc I need a newer software, sorry!"
I guess they're not awful but they kinda accumulate

exoticval · Answer

probably the fact that I didn't mind his best female friend. When I really couldn't stand her. She was really annoying and clingy to him. I ended up telling him how much I didn't like her, he completely understood.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably my biggest lie to my bf was telling him I was older than what I really was, see I was underaged but I told him I was 18, I eventually told him before we started dating, he freaked out a bit, but three years later we are still together :D and I did the same to some of my exes lol, I've always liked older guys, but I've always come clean with all of them about my age before getting to date

DaveyYourFavey · Answer

I told her I didn't love her.  Only lasted 2 seconds though until she gave me that adorable look :)

code3 · Answer

"No, I'm not mad at you, I just had a bad day at work."

Anonymous · Answer

That I came during sexting
Best sex I ever had
Im tired, going to sleep
When he wanted to hang out sometimes I would lie and say I wasn't home
Lied about being pregnant because I wanted to cause him stress and make him freak out for all he's done to me
Lies to another ex about being pregnant and got money from him for my 'abortion' then told him to never speak to me again. He didn't.

jjazmin · Answer

" Im fine " . "No im not jealous" . & "you werent my first kiss "

Anonymous · Answer

I was dating this guy that I loved a lot. We broke up and he was going back to his ex I lied and told him I was pregos. He didn't beleive me anyway. But he eventually came back. Not because of the lie but because we loved eachother. I told him I lied about being pregos and buying a oneway ticket to go home ( jamaica.) He said he knew I lied already.

Anonymous · Answer

That I've slept with a handful of people where in actual fact the number is 203. How I know the actual number is a long story (lets just say I had a mate who liked to keep track of numbers -.-) but suffice to say I was shocked when I found out -.- It's like a bad stigma, thank god I wasn't a dick and only told a really close friend (the one thats good with numbers) about it. Didn't tell him to keep bloody count but I guess it's good to know

Anonymous · Answer

"Don't worry, babe--it happens to everyone. We can try again later." Or, "Of course I love your mother!"

Xylem · Answer

I didn't have orgasm while we sexting but i said "i came". lol.

Anonymous · Answer

While I was still with one of my exes four years back, I told him I was sexually harassed to keep it from looking like I was a easy. Thing is though, we ended on bad terms anyways, and I learned how extremely bad that was. Now, I tell my current boyfriend (of two years) anything AND everything! Because I know if he really loves me, he won't care what I did. And he doesn't care :) he only cares about who I am, and what I do in the present.

Anonymous · Answer

I told her I rapped in the studio with my home boys.

soccerchick4eva · Answer

"im fine" is pree much the only one that I've lied about 😔

anonasaurus · Answer

"I would break my Xbox if it meant spending more time with you". I still feel bad for lying to her.

GoldenSunshine · Answer

I don't think I've ever lied to my boyfriend to be honest. You shouldn't be afraid of seeming lame, it's definitely not lame that he's your first boyfriend. I'd feel special and happy if I was him :)

Anonymous · Answer

I told my ldr that my Internet cut out for a day while I was really in the hospital after slipping on ice and knocking myself out

technician27 · Answer

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GeoffreyCrayon · Answer

The biggest lie I ever told my girlfriend was before we were in a relationship and I said the girl she was interested in wasn't interested in her. I came clean and she laughed and said I was stupid in a cute way.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Um... I don't really lie to him. I told him once I wasn't getting him anything for his birthday... and then I did :p

rosedream · Answer

My biggest lie to mh bf is that I told him I've never been kissed by a guy before. As soon as he knew I've kissed a guy before, he got angry a bit for lying him. But now, I have no secret to him.

Robbey · Answer

It's your baby (j/k) (actually, it was "yes I baked these myself")

FlyingTurtle · Answer

I can't think of anything. I make it a policy to never do anything I would want to lie about to him. Sorry for the boring answer :P

Blondiee2014 · Answer

That I was a Virgin, I wasn't. SHe was extremely jealous/insecure so it was easier to lie than have her hold it against me.

SuperNurse42 · Answer

Gf: "Do you think she's hot?" Me: "Meh she's okay I guess"

Creole_Flavor · Answer

I lied to my ex about my income but I really should have told him that it was none of his business.

crazyincalifornia · Answer

I scratched his car with my FJ and denied it. I love this car but it's a bitch to back up.

Jack-Shepard · Answer

Ohh boy this is embarrassing, i told her i had a car, but its at maintenance cause i had an accident !!

Anonymous · Answer

By now I'm okay with the fact that you're not virgin.

This had always been an issue in our relationship. It disturbs me sometimes. I really love her but if I find someone who's as good as her but virgin, I'll leave her.

Anonymous · Answer

I lived a lie my first ex gf really loved me , i never lied to her my first ex gf
now my second ex gf, i pretended to be another guy on the phone
and caught her in the act of planning to break up with me so i broke
up with her

BellePepper · Answer

I love you too.  The worst part is I've done it twice. I felt awful about telling them but I didn't want to hurt their feelings either. It turns out there's just no way to win.

T-shirtsandkneehighs · Answer

When I had a boyfriend I told him that I was in huge debt. I didn't want him being with me for my money.

Anonymous · Answer

I lied to my at the time boyfriend and told him I wanted to take a break so he could focus on his work with his therapist. In reality I was just tired of feeling like the crazy one.

ccp16 · Answer

She pushed me to say 'I lover you', I didn't really mean it until like 6 months later.

hotshotgirl · Answer

my bf always tries to make me orgasm but even if i tell him he can't do it so most of the time i fake one and i know when he comes he doesn't fake and it makes me feel really guilty

Anonymous · Answer

I told my Ex that "I love you", but actually I just wanted to have some funs with her.

Anonymous · Answer

I only told him about one lie and that's this-I fell off my roof. Lol though typing this I was cracking up. But it's a weird story I'd rather not share.

Anonymous · Answer

i sent a photo to him on the inthernet, it is not me, then i told i am 22 years old, i will be an industrial engineer i love you so so much.. but i was 17, i was at high school.

although my lies, he believed me and loved me so much. then i told the truth, he wanted to meet with me and now we are partners.. he has forgotten my lies, we are so happy now..

Bellibooo · Answer

I never lied to my ex once, when we were together. I don't usually lie.

ladieslady50 · Answer

I told my first bf that he was my first... technically, he was but I told a half-truth... ;-)

Anonymous · Answer

He asked me if I had fun during our make out sesh, I said "yes". Biggest. Lie. Ever.

Anonymous · Answer

"Yes you were great in bed" or "no your dick isn't small at all"

Anonymous · Answer

"You're so big"  When his penis' size is 3 3/4. Lmao

KleinTeef · Answer

I don't think I've lied to my GF about something serious... they're usually white lies.

queen-b · Answer

I told him that i ate 3 times today but i ate nothing at all, I dont lie if its something serious though

G_Stranger · Answer

I never lie to chicks. Ever. <>

Pmnm-325 · Answer

I told her that she was my first girlfriend and then she told me she loved me and cheated on me so yeah

Eugene · Answer

I lied to one of my ex GFs that I loved her just to finally have some pussy.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, you're the best sex I've ever had. I knew it would hurt his self confidence otherwise.

Deandra18 · Answer

I lied to him that I was a Christian when I'm an atheist

PineappleBreath · Answer

I told a girl she was my girlfriend and she wasn't, so I pretended to have a relationship with her.

Perf4her · Answer

Told my girlfriend that I didn't get her a Christmas gift :P lol I'm pretty honest

kittykatg · Answer

"I'm fine" is the only one I'm coming up with.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

stayed silent when asked if i was a virgin. let him assume.

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