We love each other very much and are truly each others best friends, but we just can't seem to make it to the alter. Yes we argue like most couples do I'm not saying we're perfect. We both agreed that we don't even want a big wedding, as long as we're married that's all that matters. We were looking at ring last month and seriously talking about setting a date and then I guess life got in the way again and it was forgotten about. We also have 2 kids together and we've been living with each other since I was 16 and he was 19. I'm starting to feel like our relationship isn't really going anywhere, and I'm starting to feel like we may never get married.
Most Helpful Guy
They say there's no such thing as a stupid question, but I'm sure we can make an exception here. Because he isn't proposing right after you went looking at rings you should start talking to other guys? What about your kids having possibly separated parents? "He didn't propose fast enough, so my children get to see their dad every other weekend. They can deal with it." Really?
It hasn't been forgotten about. You simply don't forget about that. If he's like the majority of men out there, he probably is waiting for the right time to propose. It should be special and meaningful.1
Most Helpful Girl
dont u dare leave. my cousin was with his gf for 8 years and they finally ended up getting married:)
u really need to be patient, dont give up so easy. it's not like he doesn't love u enough. if he didn't, dont u think it would have ended by now? give the guy a chance! maybe he wants to set up something big for u by surprise? you dont know=] u know... sometimes it just doesn't have to go anywhere. love ends up settling down. it's not always gonna be that 'butterflies in ur stomach' thing.
dont give up on him. or ur children...1