My boyfriend is the sweetest, he always wants to get me anything i want and i like that but i tell him im NOT just with him so he can get me things. Sometimes i wanna pay for my own things and he doesn't let me. He says its his job to pay, what should i do?
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Sounds like he may be spoiling you too much. This can have a negative ripple effect in various ways. One of them being if you ever piss him off, he may inadvertently accuse you of using or manipulating him and taking advantage of his generosity. Two, despite how much money makes, your presence in his life as a girlfriend and not a wife is the source of numerous withdrawals from his income. If you really care about his wellbeing and him having a solid savings account, then you won't allow him to do something like that to himself even if it is with good intent and his heart is in the right place. Lastly, it's just not a very good dynamic to have in a relationship unless you are spoiling him right back. That's really the only exception otherwise his habit is likely to make things unhealthy. I speak from experience. :/1
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