Why do I love Asian guys so much?

[Anonymous]

I FEEL NO ATTRACTION TO ANYONE ELSE... I'm not Asian but damn they r fine.
I used to not find Asian men attractive but now I am only attracted to them. There are no Asians at my school so I literally have no crush or attraction to anyone I feel sad.

[amarahorrorstory]

I don't really like guys based on race but I've never really had a thing for Asian guys, mostly because I don't know any. Out of the ones you showed there, their faces are just a bit to feminine for me. I love a good rugged, robust type of guy, with just a touch of top model. However, attraction and preference of race usually stems from your society or the things around you. If you see a lot of Asians or interact with Asian culture online, you're probably going to gravitate towards it.

[Blackjack_]

Kpop idols? Seriously? Thats the least attractive group of Asian men I know. And domt be disappointed when you visit korea, or asia, because nobody looks like this, unless you go to the rich districts where dudes actually get plastic surgery and put make up on. Ugh.

I am married to a korean guy by the way. And i like Asian men the best as well. But these examples are a joke. They look like girls

[Sailormoonprincess]

Sister!! We are so the same! My boyfriend isn't Japanese but I'd be so ecstatic if he was!! Kris from exo is soooo handsome, and jaejoong from tvxq and changmin... really its partly because they're good humoured, very organized, got the hottest style and and are a lot more charming than all these dodgy other guys

[Genie23]

The 4th pic... woah, I'm confused, lolThat looks like a girl, not a guy O__O

[Xelebrum]

The guys in the second and fourth pic look like lesbians :|

[Genie23]

@Xelebrum You're right. They look.. even though they're wearing guys clothes but they still look like a girl.. I think they're really girls, not guys 😳

[Genie23]

I just looked again at the person who's smiling... Looks like a transgender now. O_o I'm really very confused now..

[Asker]

The guys names are zico and jungkook

[Princessofpersia]

girl I get you

[Aizou]

We are oh so adorable. ^.~
https://oi59.tinypic.com/wu4chx.jpg

But seriously now.. are you watching
a lot of korean pop music (k-pop)?

A person's feelings are often influenced
by what's happening around them.

[Applefan1]

In my opinion Asian men are more like gentlemen and Asian women are more like ladies than western world people are. Maybe this is why you are becoming attracted to them.

[Xelebrum]

Manners, modesty, and courtesy are taken very seriously in Asian culture, especially places like China, Korea, and Japan.

[Applefan1]

@Xelebrum I was not aware how seriously China and Korea took manners but I know Japan takes it very seriously. They must find us western world people rude at times.

[Xelebrum]

China and Korea may not take manners as seriously as the Japanese, but it's still a big thing in those countries.

[Xelebrum]

And yeah, I would not blame them if they saw Westerners in that way lol I'm an American and even I think a large chunk of us are obnoxious :P

[Applefan1]

@Xelebrum yes it is amazing what it seems like it is like in Japan. It is considered rude to walk while eating or walk while smoking in Japan so the Japanese just don't do it. The smoking one I can see as you are not continuously puffing smoke at someone walking behind you if you are standing in one spot. They have very little number of things stolen in Japan to from what I understand because it is wrong so they just don't do it. This is what I understand Japan is like.

[Xelebrum]

The biggest reason why Asians, particularly East Asians, take manners and modesty so seriously is because they reflect upon one's honor. The family is considered the main source of your honor and if you do anything to dishonor yourself (being a slob, failing academically, committing crimes, etc.), you would also be dishonoring your family. And in Japan, you do NOT dishonor your family.

[Xelebrum]

Same thing applies to the Indians, Chinese, Koreans, etc., but the Japanese are known for valuing honor more than anything. Hell, centuries ago, it was considered more honorable for samurais to either die in battle or kill themselves instead of being captured or dying of old age.

[Applefan1]

@Xelebrum yes if many western world parents taught their kids only half of what Japanese parents do we would still have polite people. I mean look at this video, even the cops when they are in a hurry don't forget their manners and to be polite.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3aAywhC82bY

[Xelebrum]

If American cops were at least half as polite as the Japanese cops, police brutality wouldn't be an issue here. :/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etiquette_in_Japan

In case you wanted to know the do's and don't's of Japanese etiquette :P Just letting you know, it's quite the read lol

[Applefan1]

@Xelebrum thank you so much I will read that. I am really interested in the Japanese and their culture.

Here is an example of how honest the Japanese are

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlkC8GzTH0Y

[Blackjack_]

Koreans dont have manners. Thats what i used to think before i actually ever visited korea. They spit on streets, in subways, they swear, the new generation is all tfull of tattoos and smoking on the streets etc. Old guys get drunk every night. there's really not a good culture left. Prostitution is also a big deal here. I am living in korea since 2yrs by the way.

[Applefan1]

Thank you for MHA

[Illusive_Man]

As an Asian even I find the gender of the people in the pictures confusing.

[Asker]

Come on really

[Illusive_Man]

A bit yeah lol
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...0-ac22-fcfe15ecbdbc.jpg

[Neko_Chan]

Those pictures aren't confusing, but this one is.
loveren.weebly.com/.../5932360_orig.jpg

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
Ah yes... Asia.
Traps.
Traps everywhere.
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[Neko_Chan]

That picture hurts my pride.

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
How so lol?

Also.. this!
THIS!
https://i.imgur.com/Obs7BI7.jpg
THIS IS A DUDDEEE!

[Neko_Chan]

I can actually tell that he's not a girl, though he does look feminine. I feel like most Southeast Asian guys just have ambiguous faces.

Also, why when you mention me is it showing up as a comment for one of my opinions?

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
:O
You be having brilliant TRAPS sensors.

Anyway yeah that I get. How does it hurt your pride tho I don't lol

[Neko_Chan]

It hurts my pride when I see a guy who's prettier than me.

Another confusing picture.
images4.fanpop.com/.../...f-x-21381290-400-573.jpg

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
HEEY IT'S Asian JUSTIN BIEBER!

Also , heyyyyy don't say that,

[Neko_Chan]

I thought the same thing when I first saw Amber (the girl from the previous photo).

No worries, I think Ren is prettier than a lot of girls.

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
Huh?

[Neko_Chan]

Are you referring to the Ren comment?

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
Yes.
No idea who those people you just quoted are.

[Neko_Chan]

Ren is the blonde guy in the first picture I posted, and Amber is the girl in the last one.

Why aren't Asian guys proud of their prettier features (when they have them)?

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
Whhaaaat?
How? What features?

[Neko_Chan]

You're confusing me!

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
no , YOU are confusing me.

[Neko_Chan]

This conversation as devolved into utter chaos.

[Illusive_Man]

@Neko_Chan
Yes.

[gapminder]

Haha, they all look like very feminine gay men.

[Illusive_Man]

@gapminder
Some of them like butch lesbians lol

[Aizou]

@Neko_Chan

Your last link, that's Ren from the k-pop band Nu'est
the managers of the group decided for this to be his image. ^.~

[Neko_Chan]

@Aizou My first link was a picture of Ren, but the last one was Amber from f (x).
images4. fanpop. com/.../... f-x-21381290-400-573. jpg

[Bards]

Its the kpop
Its ok your normal
You just have a phase or just a preference

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

I once brought a Middle Eastern girl and an East Asian guy together. The guy was the brother of the girl I dated. He was an unhappy single and I wanted to help him out. It worked just fine. They made a cute couple.

[springocelot]

i get the appeal

but that 3rd, 4th, and last picture is just... yeah. no make up and girly hairstyles please.
are all those the same guy?

[Ihav2fart]

Are you sure the second pic is of an Asian guy...

Anyways, it's cause I'm awesome

[Illusive_Man]

YEAH LOL
I am REALLY confused here.

[Asker]

He's a rapper named zico

[Ihav2fart]

@Illusive_Man this is embarrassing
@ Asker the most feminine looking male rapper I've ever seen

[Xelebrum]

@Princessofpersia, is that you? :P

[Asker]

No that is not me

[Xelebrum]

Well, that is a shock : lol

[Ihav2fart]

lmaooooo

[Riggers]

Why do most of them look like girls with girl hair too?

You may be bisexual.

[PrettyRican]

Okay lets confess there is only 1 Asian guy I think is good looking and he is not on here.. LOL!

[throwit]

Just as I suspected. Kpop boy bands.
Every girl goes through this phase.

[Anonymous]

you say you like Asians, but it seems that you just like korean singers. thats nt what all Asians look like just saying.

[Asker]

Lol I know but I find any real east Asian guys attractive

[Athena13]

Those Asian guys pictures which you posted is of Korean kpop group members. Not all Asian guys look like that.

[Asker]

Duh I knew that i like all but these r pics I kept

[Anonymous]

Girls like androgynous guys, like Justin Bieber early on.

[zorro8888]

"Asian guys"

You sure those are guys?

[VampireEmpress]

the 4th/5th pics are hot.

[Turtlerocks]

Thanks for the confidence boost.

Asian guy

[mooky06]

um, maybe you dig the pretty boy look?

[Kay211]

I mean.. Everyone has their preferences, y'know?

[IamNuts]

Simple your attracted to them.

[Tarvold]

I think you just have good taste.

[Anonymous]

Cuz you watch too much anime.

[Asker]

Lol I haven't watched an anime in 6 months