1. It sounds like white people get all the luck in dating and (sometimes) making female friends.
Middle school - Girls ignored me a LOT. Being shy did not help either and was bullied a lot (by Indians AND non Indians)
High School - Bullying stopped and I talked more, but had very few friends due to cliques. Most girls just saw me as an aquaintance.
College - Made a lot of friends, started working out, and even joined a co ed frat. girls smile at me when we cross paths and sometimes even approach me / hug me / invite me to hangouts.
yet, I do not have a girlfriend yet. just a friend (i do make weak attempts to flirt or joke). I mostly laugh at others' jokes.
My parents raised me to focus more on grades than social life, but that put me in a HUGE depression in high school. I got low grades, had few friends, cannot hold conversations for long, and am not too physically strong. I also lack muscle and weigh 160 lbs (I have seen uglier guys get gfs).
Indian girls aren't an option, as my campus is mostly black/latino/white/asian, and the Indian girls that do exist are either Grad students or they Speak Hindi, which I cannot understand.
It is only 4th week of college, but what do I do? i feel the stereotypes are hurting my ability to date. and I do NOT want to settle down. I want experience from dating Chinese/Korean/Japanese/White chicks.
I work out, study, play video games, watch movies, and hang with friends.
Being Indian is a curse, especiialy if you don't fit in with other Indians.
Middle school - Girls ignored me a LOT. Being shy did not help either and was bullied a lot (by Indians AND non Indians)
High School - Bullying stopped and I talked more, but had very few friends due to cliques. Most girls just saw me as an aquaintance.
College - Made a lot of friends, started working out, and even joined a co ed frat. girls smile at me when we cross paths and sometimes even approach me / hug me / invite me to hangouts.
yet, I do not have a girlfriend yet. just a friend (i do make weak attempts to flirt or joke). I mostly laugh at others' jokes.
My parents raised me to focus more on grades than social life, but that put me in a HUGE depression in high school. I got low grades, had few friends, cannot hold conversations for long, and am not too physically strong. I also lack muscle and weigh 160 lbs (I have seen uglier guys get gfs).
Indian girls aren't an option, as my campus is mostly black/latino/white/asian, and the Indian girls that do exist are either Grad students or they Speak Hindi, which I cannot understand.
It is only 4th week of college, but what do I do? i feel the stereotypes are hurting my ability to date. and I do NOT want to settle down. I want experience from dating Chinese/Korean/Japanese/White chicks.
I work out, study, play video games, watch movies, and hang with friends.
Being Indian is a curse, especiialy if you don't fit in with other Indians.
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