Why don't men want relationships anymore? why are men content with just asking their female friends for sex only?

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I mean wtf I have had guy friends straight up ask me for sex as if I have casual sex like that which I do not.

I'm not desperate for a relationship but I love myself enough to know what I want and I'm not willing to be some guys fuck buddy just so I do not feel alone.

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Anonymous

there are many reasons why this is happening but mainly because women are not women any more

1) because there is no reason to get married now, what does a guy gain out of marriage that he cannot get out of marriage?, the only reason people got married was early on fear of enteral torture if they did not get married and no women would put out before marriage. for men there is only pain for marriage 2/3 end in divorce incited by 70% of women and then the guy get finically screwed and does not get to see the kids and also leads to higher chance of suicide.

2) the rise of hook up culture if I can gain sex cheaply or for free, why would he spent vast amounts to gain sex on taking you out to dinner. Cost benefit to reward.

3) the rise of the Femniza that basically want to be men and act like men, yuck they do not want true gender equity.

4) Men do not want to be your friend they are lying to you, waiting till you break up or become interested. its the male lizard brain they have a high sex drive otherwise we would not be here. They are all lying to you is biology accept it study it.

5) The rise of the world wide web and porn.

https://youtu.be/GDMwHC3H01k WATCH THIS VIDEO this explains a lot of what a guy is feeling either there willing to admit it. IT HARSH but simply the truth.

you need to study MGTOW and Feminist culture to see why this world is so messed up;

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Roostah

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That dude looks like Michael Phelps.

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Roostah

That dude looks like Michael Phelps.

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tyber1 | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

It's just not always worth it. A lot of women don't carry their weight in dating. Especially during the beginning.

You might find it distasteful but at least they were direct. They didn't mislead you into thinking they wanted a relationship. Men can't read minds and have no way of knowing if you are interested beyond going for it.

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Asker

+1 y
Well I do not force a relationship on guys
tyber1

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I don't understand what your point is?

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Asker

Well I do not force a relationship on guys

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tyber1

I don't understand what your point is?

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klee___x

Xper 5

Because there content to just get there dicks wet

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Calex

+1 y
No..
Dave20154

+1 y
Women are often the same way, yet get so wet, and don't want to do relationships, they just wanna fuck to take care of their horniness, its despicable

Answer 7

Dave20154

Women are often the same way, yet get so wet, and don't want to do relationships, they just wanna fuck to take care of their horniness, its despicable

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Anonymous

"Women are gatekeepers of sex. Men are gatekeepers of commitment"

Modern women today give out sex freely out like tick tacks.

BRB girl hanged out with a guy and had a good time with him. I'm going to blow him at the end of night.

BRB girl gets random message from tinder dude who is hot and says "want to fuck". BRB girl is driving to his place or invites him to her place to spread her ass cheeks open.

so many no longer feel the need to go through the whole relationship, date, paying, white knighting to get what they ultimately want which is sex.

Also factor in the modern woman today literally offers nothing outside of sex because of princess mentality and the delusion that they are the prize and only concern themselves with what men can do for them. Why would any man waste his time pursuing a relationship?

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Opinion Owner

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Modern women today is literally non-feminine, princess complex, entitled, stuck up most of time, looks at acts of kindness as some sort of manipulation, gold digging and hypergamous (no loyalty), factor in accelerating cheating and you literally just have a woman whose good for a quick fuck and chuck for next guy to enjoy.
Asker

+1 y
Well the guy I like he made no effort to ask me out or anything. He never asked me for sex but I'm not going to fuck him
Asker

+1 y
I gave him my number and he never contacted me then months later he apologized but I'm not going to make a guy like me if he is not going to make any effort
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Asker

+1 y
It's not my fault you can't find the right woman
Opinion Owner

+1 y
@Asker Finding the right woman is liking finding a needle in a haystack today. Most women today are exactly what I described.
Asker

+1 y
No they are not you are just bitter
Opinion Owner

+1 y
If you want to see the truth go to any male forum where male's talk among themselves and you'll see first hand that guys view most girls today as NOT relationship material. Also a question was posted her on "why do men not view women today as relationship material" Most men agreed and gave their opinion on it.

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Opinion Owner

Modern women today is literally non-feminine, princess complex, entitled, stuck up most of time, looks at acts of kindness as some sort of manipulation, gold digging and hypergamous (no loyalty), factor in accelerating cheating and you literally just have a woman whose good for a quick fuck and chuck for next guy to enjoy.

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Asker

Well the guy I like he made no effort to ask me out or anything. He never asked me for sex but I'm not going to fuck him

Answer 11

Asker

I gave him my number and he never contacted me then months later he apologized but I'm not going to make a guy like me if he is not going to make any effort

Answer 12

Asker

It's not my fault you can't find the right woman

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Opinion Owner

@Asker Finding the right woman is liking finding a needle in a haystack today. Most women today are exactly what I described.

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Asker

No they are not you are just bitter

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Opinion Owner

If you want to see the truth go to any male forum where male's talk among themselves and you'll see first hand that guys view most girls today as NOT relationship material. Also a question was posted her on "why do men not view women today as relationship material" Most men agreed and gave their opinion on it.

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TheGuyFromMiddleEast | 511 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Because they don't have to. Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free.
It's free market, you women decreased your, well this term is not nice but fits the analogy, price so much that now you're complaining you're so cheap.

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Asker

+1 y
Ha ha you just are bitter and sexist
Asker

+1 y
I do not sleep around
TheGuyFromMiddleEast

+1 y
I am bitter, i'm not gonna lie. But, seriously consider what i said, you'll see the point. If you don't know the general free market principles, watch a few videos and get acquianted, it should get you far enough.

You yourself may not sleep around, but there are enough women who do.

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Asker

Ha ha you just are bitter and sexist

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Asker

I do not sleep around

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TheGuyFromMiddleEast

I am bitter, i'm not gonna lie. But, seriously consider what i said, you'll see the point. If you don't know the general free market principles, watch a few videos and get acquianted, it should get you far enough.

You yourself may not sleep around, but there are enough women who do.

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JRICHARDS1996

Yoda

Hey, I'm waiting until I get married and most females would say that that's too long and traditional. Make up your mind!

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pervertedjester | 411 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Even if they get rejected 99% of the time it's that 1% that keeps them going.

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ThisDudeHere | 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Because the environment permits them to be this way. Women now want casual sex as well and the men, of course, oblige.

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Roostah

+1 y
Got to love the #StopSlutShaming movement.
Asker

+1 y
I do not want casual sex
ThisDudeHere

+1 y
@asker perhaps you don't but other women do. And so younger men, who more often than not care more about sex than relationships, flock to them. Eventually they grow to expect sex.
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Asker

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@Roostah wtf does his opinion have to so with that, go away roach

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Roostah

Got to love the #StopSlutShaming movement.

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Asker

I do not want casual sex

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ThisDudeHere

@asker perhaps you don't but other women do. And so younger men, who more often than not care more about sex than relationships, flock to them. Eventually they grow to expect sex.

Answer 26

Asker

@Roostah wtf does his opinion have to so with that, go away roach

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croxy

Yoda

Because sex feels good, and it's something most people do regardless of relationship status.

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Sam89

Xper 5

Plenty do. I would love to be in a relationship with the right woman, but I don't know if I'm relationship material.

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Jager66

Guru

I think a lot of guys just do a cost benefit analysis and that's the end of it.

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Tdieseler | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Some male friends you have then... can't believe you still call em friends

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Asker

+1 y
They are not my friends anymore
Tdieseler

+1 y
good to know...

Answer 31

Asker

They are not my friends anymore

Answer 32

Tdieseler

good to know...

Answer 33

Anonymous

I guess the rest of what women offer isn't worth it or we would want to.

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Asker

+1 y
You are bitter because obviously you couldn't get into a healthy relationship before you hit your 30s :)
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Actually I was married for 16 years.
Asker

+1 y
So does not matter you still bitter
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Opinion Owner

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Your point being? My bitterness did not materialize from nothing. It took a lot of bullshit from women to reach this point. I used to think women were amazing. After a lot of years of experiance I no longer respect you as a gender. Not something I like, but here we are.
Asker

+1 y
Go away
ASmith43

+1 y
LOL! The asker can't handle reality. Guys are asking of women more and more these day, "What do you bring to a relationship besides pussy?"

The vast majority of women today do not have an answer. Just like the asker in this exchange they dismiss reality and are just blatantly unpleasant to be around. Just like the Asker here, women push the blame off to the men calling them bitter or other names.

My advice to the asker? Be a person that is nice to be around. That alone will set you far above the average woman.

Answer 34

Asker

You are bitter because obviously you couldn't get into a healthy relationship before you hit your 30s :)

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Opinion Owner

Actually I was married for 16 years.

Answer 36

Asker

So does not matter you still bitter

Answer 37

Opinion Owner

Your point being? My bitterness did not materialize from nothing. It took a lot of bullshit from women to reach this point. I used to think women were amazing. After a lot of years of experiance I no longer respect you as a gender. Not something I like, but here we are.

Answer 38

Asker

Go away

Answer 39

ASmith43

LOL! The asker can't handle reality. Guys are asking of women more and more these day, "What do you bring to a relationship besides pussy?"

The vast majority of women today do not have an answer. Just like the asker in this exchange they dismiss reality and are just blatantly unpleasant to be around. Just like the Asker here, women push the blame off to the men calling them bitter or other names.

My advice to the asker? Be a person that is nice to be around. That alone will set you far above the average woman.

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sethosaurus_rex | 51 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 4

Probably because all they've had are relationships. And relationships can get boring or staggered

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Calex | 139 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

What? I want a relationship. It feels lonely without having a significant other to share your life with. I guess I'm just a boyfriend material kind of guy :[

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Answer 42

Anonymous

Because what do guys get out a relationship? They give up a bunch of things for one but they don't seem to get much out of it other than sex which a lot can get without a relationship.

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Answer 43

Anonymous

We do. I know I do. But, the gals these days put way too much emphases on physical attraction. They go for more the best looking guys.

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Answer 44

Anonymous

Wow, you keep accusing guys of being bitter; about what? I had no interest in a relationship beyond sex until relatively recently.

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Asker

+1 y
Because they keep finding the wrong girl and get Pissed when they are single by age 30 because they blame women when in the reality the guy is an asshole
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Most people I know who are married got married after 30, or at least after 25. I don't/didn't know many 22 year olds out looking for their one and only. The only group I know that got married in their early 20's in large numbers are my grandparents generation.
Asker

+1 y
When I meet a guy the first thing I do not think about is marriage. The first thing I want is to get to know him because people are not always as they seem
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Opinion Owner

+1 y
And if he's 22 he's probably just interested in sex, and will say what he thinks he needs to say to get it

Answer 45

Asker

Because they keep finding the wrong girl and get Pissed when they are single by age 30 because they blame women when in the reality the guy is an asshole

Answer 46

Opinion Owner

Most people I know who are married got married after 30, or at least after 25. I don't/didn't know many 22 year olds out looking for their one and only. The only group I know that got married in their early 20's in large numbers are my grandparents generation.

Answer 47

Asker

When I meet a guy the first thing I do not think about is marriage. The first thing I want is to get to know him because people are not always as they seem

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Opinion Owner

And if he's 22 he's probably just interested in sex, and will say what he thinks he needs to say to get it

Answer 49

Anonymous

Actually this trend is reversing with the woman wanting nsa sex and the man wanting commitment.

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Answer 50

Anonymous

Because of the stressful life. But it is still wrong.

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TheSpartan | 948 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Because some of us live in a deluded fantasy.

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Dred1614

Yoda

I'm not a fan of casual sex.

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