My parents won't let me cuddle with my girlfriend?

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i'll be 18 in 8 months and my girlfriend is 15. My parents won't let my girlfriend and I cuddle downstairs under a SECURITY CAMERA while watching a movie. This includes spooning, lap sitting, touching legs and others. The only accepted physical contact is holding hands. 

So this led us to watching movies in my room with the door shut. You can imagine my parents horror when they walked in to find her with her head on my shoulder and one leg over me. Is this extreme? What do I tell my parents?

Rufus335 · Accepted Answer

i dont think what your doing is wrong i think it is completely normal. i think your parents are like mine but are certainly more extreme. make sure u go far far far away for college. my recommendations are do what your parents ask but stay out of the house as much as possible.

theyre prolly worried cuz your dating a minor, so as you are too its fine. but i think their concerns are warranted but i think theyre over doing it.

trust me you can't talk to them about it. hmm lets see have you ever heard this before "its final" yeah dont try its final. just try to be as independent as you possibly can be so they feel more natural giving you space then abuse that space but dont get caught.

hotstuffSRD · Accepted Answer

Parents are conscious sometimes but don't worry they'll be comfortable someday so just wait for awhile and you both are still young :P

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

Some parents are very strict about that kind of stuff, and they probably don't want one thing leading to another and her ending up pregnant. If she will still be 15 by the time you are 18, that could be considered statutory rape.

justagirl5 · Accepted Answer

I'm an adult and I'm sure my parents would still freak out if I cuddled with a guy... it's a parent thing I think. But yeah it's kinda unreasonable especially if you're in a public area of the house like the living room

ashleighrollins2 · Accepted Answer

I think the girl is a little young though to be with a 18 year old just try to explain to your parents. Your grown up now your an adult

Checkers82 · Accepted Answer

When does she turn 16? I'd say the age difference is a little weird.

Anpu23 · Answer

My concern would be the legal ramifications. Age of consent laws can be pretty dramatic. I would do my best to separate the two of you until the both of you are over that age. The camera, though extreme, is probably smart as they can prove that nothing happened between the two of you, because if she claimed that anything did, you would be hard pressed to prove your innocence.

thorthorley · Answer

They might be concerned about the legality of it. I'm not sure what the law is in your country but in mine if you have sex under 16 the over 18 guy could get severely punished and even jailed for it.

xxChristina · Answer

I get not letting you spoon, but her having her legs on you? That's just unfair.

serious · Answer

I don't know what to say but watching over you like that is certainly not a good thing.

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

If you've been to first base and she's 15, they may fear you'll round second which may likely break a law. And don't rule out the possibility that they aren't monitoring the camera and not knowing what is going on between you two.

Prof_Don · Answer

Your parents are probably worried about the legal issues that may occur. Your girlfriend's parents are worried about you getting her pregnant.

akanetuk · Answer

Since you are still in your parent's house, you have to respect and keep the rules.

ScruffynateAK · Answer

Probably just don't want you written up for a stat rape charge.

Anonymous · Answer

She's young so they probably just don't want you two going all the way, assuming the legal age of consent where you live is 18. 10 minutes ain't worth 10 years

sjoes006 · Answer

Sounds like they are religious.

justbanANNAz · Answer

i think ur younger than u think u r.

blondfrog · Answer

I hope you go to jail for trolling.

apple24 · Answer

Yes. Cuddling is immoral! hahaha

IsabellaCarlos · Answer

just go to her house hahahah or somewhere else

TheOldMan59 · Answer

Leave that underage gilr alone you pervert.

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