I'm 20 and never have had a girlfriend. I'm very successful in other areas of my life. I'm very smart and go to an excellent college. I am on track to have a great career. I'm not the most social person in the world, but I do have plenty of close friends. I'd like to think I'm reasonably good looking and fashionable. I'm 5' 8" and 145 lbs.
Unfortunately, I've never kissed a girl or even gone on a date, let alone ever had a girlfriend. This really gets me down sometimes. Sometimes I feel like the world's left me behind.
I guess I'm just curious if anyone has any advice to offer.
Most Helpful Girl
I think being social doesn't always equal to getting a girlfriend.
However I do think it would be a good idea to show an interest
in social settings and maybe go out once in a while. I didn't
have my first boyfriend until I was 20, and we're still together
and he is not a very social person, while I on the other hand
really enjoy talking to just about anyone I can, but do not like
partying. It all depends on what kind of socializing you want
to involve yourself in. Exposing yourself to it would be a good
idea, remember the fact that you're 20 doesn't mean you've
missed the train or are never going to get a girlfriend, the right
girl might just show up one day in a class and talk to you.
Just be yourself and expose yourself more to the social
world and have fun and I am sure a girl will notice all that
you have to offer.1