My style is alternative and more dark, I could say. And my boyfriend absolutely hates it... Yesterday we went out and I was wearing a dress and a suit alongside my heels. Should I dress up to please him? I'm in love with him and I can't loose him again...
Most Helpful Guy
Why can't you loose him again? Seriously? You sound like complete opposites and you'll likely always be fighting or disagreeing about something. If you've already separated before, then it will probably happen again. Don't be sad about it though, you two just aren't right for each other that's all. You need to be with someone that will let you be YOU, not who they want you to be or you'll never be happy, not truly happy.3
Most Helpful Girl
These days with Pinterest and Instagram it can be really easy to put together outfits that look great but are still comfortable. There's idea for pretty much every style. A lot of people are going to be saying "who does he think he is? He has to like all of you or hit the road!" and, while there's some truth in that, the thing is *you're* the one wearing the clothes but he should appreciate *you* more than what you wear.
I understand what you're saying about really wanting to be with him, you sort of get to a stage of numb obsession with someone you need to chase all the time. I'm not saying 'break up with him' but, I am saying, think about it. If you're this far into the relationship, having known each other for as long as you have, do you think you should be terrified about losing him over an outfit? Is this way you want to be feeling? *You're* in this relationship too, it's not just him. It's supposed to be about learning to share who you are with someone you care about. It's terrifying and heartbreaking to think about not being with that special someone, but sometimes, it's the best thing. Because it's not til later where we can stand back and think "Wow, this person was so wrong for me!"
Whatever you decide, (as long as they're not too... skimpy) remember, you wear the clothes for you and it *is* okay to not be a dress/heels wearing girl.0
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