Should I wear a revealing outfit on a date with my new boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I have always liked wearing bare midriff tops, I just haven't done it much. A few months ago I bought some cute crop tops and started wearing them a little more. I work hard to keep in shape and I'm blessed with a body that I've been told looks good. I bought two extremely tiny string micro bikinis recently, and I've worn them to sunbathe in my backyard and more recently at a park to let more people see me in them. I love how it feels so much to wear them.

I have a new boyfriend. We've been dating for about 4 months and I've never worn a revealing outfit when I'm out with him. He is so hot and I really like his personality, his big heart, and the ways he treats me. I saw the picture I've attached to this post, and I bought the skirt and I put together a top that's just like the one in the photo, it doesn't have the printing on it. My belly button is pierced and I bought a waist chain just like the one in the picture. I have a pair of sandals that are high heels with clear straps and I also have a little ankle chain and a toe ring.

He's picking me up later today to hang out, go to a shopping center, and get something to eat together. I've never worn anything this revealing on a date with a guy, but I've decided to surprise him and wear this outfit today. I'm actually nervous about wearing it and excited at the same time. I'm taking a big chance, but it's something I want to do. I hope my boyfriend likes it!

I'm interested to see what you think about it and to see what happens during my date.

[caring__1]

If you want him to continue to be your boyfriend, find out his taste before you shock him. If you're going to a shopping center, ask him to go into a clothing store with you and play with the different styles. Let him know up front you're looking to discover what he likes on you, not expecting him to buy anything for you. If he tends to choose more conservative wear, based on what you've worn so far, pull an item from the rack and ask him how he thinks you'd look in that. If he seems open, or at least not repulsed, suggest you try it on for him. By modeling different styles, you can gain a better idea of what he likes. You will also want to learn the types of settings he'd like to see you wear these outfits. He might be comfortable in certain settings and prefer to pass in other settings.

[caring__1]

Also, whatever you show is usually an invitation to touch when you're on a date. Make sure any guidelines are established in advance and respected afterward.

[Asker]

You offer sound advice and I appreciate it. He was shocked by my outfit and fortunately for me, he said he liked it. He complimented the way I looked many times during the course of the day and night... told me I'm hot, sexy, pretty, beautiful, amazing... all the right things that gave me even more confidence, and made the experience so much better for me... and him, I hope. We did play with different styles at the clothing stores, and I tried on many outfits that we both selected. He bought me a lot of clothes yesterday and all of them are what I would consider extremely revealing and super sexy. He said I should wear whatever I want anytime we're together.

[Asker]

You are right about my outfit being an invitation to touch me. I was comfortable with him touching anything I showed... and anything I didn't show. One of the things that I enjoyed most about dressing in such a revealing outfit was how publicly I showed him, and anyone who looked at me, how much I wanted him to enjoy my body. It was sexual and very exhilarating. I was very aware of how bare I was, and how my boyfriend and everyone else was also aware.

[caring__1]

The key to a healthy relationship is clear, open, honest communication. You're lucky he liked your outfit, as unexpected surprises can close doors. If there is anything you can't openly discuss with your partner, you're either talking about holding onto personal hangups you haven't sought help to eliminate or the relationship is incompatible. Incompatible doesn't necessarily mean either person is wrong or bad... it means the two are just different in key areas. When we truly care about someone, we want them to feel happy and fulfilled, even if that means they find a different partner.

[caring__1]

Just be sure he knows you are dressing for him and not to be noticed by strangers. If you appear to be playing to the audience, he's likely to lose interest. Would you be comfortable accompanying him to the beach if he wears this bathing suit? www.google.com/imgres

[Asker]

While we were walking in the mall, he commented about how guys were checking me out. I got close to him and whispered in his ear that I dressed this way because I wanted him to enjoy checking me out, that it made me feel so sexy and pretty when he looked at me. I told him no one else mattered. Then I asked him if I could dress this way more for him. He gave me a nice deep kiss and took me clothes shopping.

The bathing suit is funny... I've never seen that before. Yes, of course, I would accompany him to the beach if he wore that. I would be wearing one of my micro string bikinis. I might bite the eyes off of his bathing suit, though.

[caring__1]

As long as both of you are comfortable with your choices, all is fine. Never expect others to change for you, but also never worry about how outsiders judge you when the two of you are doing what works well for each of you (as long as no outsider is being harmed). It sounds like both of you are open-minded and enjoy doing what pleases your partner. Life is to be enjoyed.

[Anonymous]

I’m still waiting for a woman to notice my “big heart.” Somehow going to war, being a nurse, and caring for dying people just isn’t enough.

Wear whatever the hell you want to wear. You’ve already got him.

[Asker]

I notice your big heart and the sacrifice you make to save people's lives. That is so great in my mind and I think you are amazing for doing it. It's certainly something I haven't done. I try to help people when I can, but I've never saved anyone's life. Thank you for commenting on my post.

[mandyfire98]

You're wearing that on a date? I mean it's not my style but if you like it then go for it. I'm pretty sure he's not going to complain if he gets to see some skin lol.

[Asker]

Yes, I wore that on a date. I'm lucky that my boyfriend liked it... he kept telling me how good I looked to him. I loved it so much that I have a new style... I'm going to be showing a lot of skin all of the time now.

[soe11]

Your absolutely right

[DryGermanGuy]

Personally, I would never go out in public with a woman dressed like this (unless it’s some rock concert on the beach etc). I would hate to get all the extra „attention“. 🫣

[Asker]

There was definitely some extra attention directed my way. Lucky for me, my boyfriend didn't seem to mind it. He mentioned to me a couple of times how he kind of liked the idea that all of the guys who saw me were allowed to look, but he's allowed to do more with me than just look. I will say the vulnerability and self-conscious feelings I had about being dressed so provocatively combined with the exhilaration I felt made the experience amazing.

[RichardoStyle]

It can be like this

[Asker]

Yes, it could be. I dressed more like that up until just a few months ago. But I've discovered that I like how I look and how it feels to wear the little bare-belly outfits I've been wearing almost all of the time lately.

[soe11]

No doubt you looking attractive, of you have a conference why not. my first date with my girlfriend she on micro tube and micro skirt.

[Asker]

After the way my date went while dressed in such a revealing outfit, I wish I would've gone out like that on my first date with him. Your girlfriend must be so hot and sexy.

[soe11]

Yes she's hot and because is she inherited from the her mum how to be sexy and hot.

[Wise4myage]

Although I love the idea, I think it sends the wrong message. And why be in a hurry anyway?

[Asker]

You're right about the message. He touched me much more while we were together than he has in the past. And he took me to his place and took his time stripping me out of my little outfit. I'm 22 and not that experienced but it was by far the best sex I've had... including with my boyfriend.

[Wise4myage]

Awesome, glad you had a great time. :)

[Shy_Steve]

Your better off asking him what he thinks you should wear.

[Kelly6]

Depends if he likes it or not.

[Kelly6]

I personally like revealing clothes

[Asker]

Lucky for me, he liked it.

[soe11]

icmy girlfriend as well l same as you

[abc--123]

Easy access to all the key areas so yes wear it

[Asker]

I did wear it. In my mind one of the reasons I wanted to wear it was for the reason you just mentioned, I wanted him to know my body is available to him... I wore it for him and no one else. I wanted him to be able to show everyone what he could touch, when they could only look. It turns out, he liked that a lot. So much so that he bought me all kinds of revealing clothing, and belly and foot jewelry since then... and all of it bares my tummy. The last two times we went out I wore a super short mini skirt without panties. I experienced getting fingered to orgasm in public for the first time.

[abc--123]

It sounds like you both have an exhibitionist kink which is awesome

[Anonymous]

Hot outfit! What size are your boobs?

[Asker]

Thank you. It was the first time I dressed like that to go out with a guy. I loved wearing it all day everywhere we went. I'm 34C.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice! A top like that looks GREAT with on C cups! How was the date?

[Asker]

My boyfriend was surprised when I opened the door, and I was so nervous. I didn't know if he would take one look at how I was dressed and decide he didn't want to be with me anymore. Quite the opposite. His eyes got wide, he said, "Wow! You look amazing!" He gave me one of those long, lingering kisses and I was relieved. He told me I looked sexy. We went to a coffee shop, he took me shopping and bought me a few cute little crop tops in different styles and, some short skirts and long skirts slit really high, and some high heel sandals. Then he took me to a nice restaurant for an early dinner. We went downtown and walked around and then he took me to a dance club. He couldn't take his eyes off of me the whole day. I love how it feels so much. I had a great time. He's picking me up again early this afternoon. I'm going to dress in a skimpy bare belly outfit again.

[RuthlessAggression]

No, please don't

[jimmy2]

It's up to you