My Crush is Rich - Does He Want a Rich Girl?

[Alyssa1111]

So i'm kinda crushing on a guy who seems to show interest in me too.

Yes, I stalked his social media and found that he went to a top notch private school... So I guess his family is rich.
I'm middle class and I live in the suburbs, as oppose to him, upper class and living in the city.

Do you think this will put him off me? Or am I just feeling insecure?

[Cosytoasty]

Lol many middle class families actually remortgage to send their kids to good private schools. I wouldn't assume anything from his social media. If he likes you and you like him, just give it a shot and see what happens.

Either way, the main thing upper class people do care about is that you come from a good stable family rather than the actual amount of money you have. If you can act like a lady and have good values/morals they won't care.

[Alyssa1111]

True that! Especially considering that both him and I come from Middle Eastern backgrounds; family and morals/values are seen as important.
Thank you

[Cosytoasty]

Thanks for MH.

[Alyssa1111]

no problem, thanks for your help :)

[Usersame]

If that puts him off then you're better off without him. Money is trivial in dating.

[Alyssa1111]

true that!

[Emojis201]

Honestly I've had the exact same kind of crush. And I too felt this way until I realized when I looked back at my best friend, I mean she was rich since her mom was a type of Doctor.. But if she only like people for money, why was I her best friend? Haha I guess even if your rich, you still search for personality and heart. So he should like you for you and not what you have :)

[Alyssa1111]

ayyye thanks. This sounds perfect

[urgonnahateme]

He probably doesn't care, but his parents might be weary of you.

[Alyssa1111]

thanks but lol, whats with your dp?

[lumberman9]

I grew up in an upper class family, and my first girlfriend was middle class

[Alyssa1111]

good to know lol

[lumberman9]

Yeah exactly so if you feel strongly about him then pursue him

[lumberman9]

that's my point

[Alyssa1111]

i will then, thankssss

[skeptic002]

what does he believe?

[Alyssa1111]

He hasn't said anything.. I'm just insecure that this might put him off me? Like should I just get over him?

[swampfawkes]

Probably not... most guys like to marry down.