Everywhere I go if it's a night out or just doing shopping guys always stare at first I just ignored it but now its getting really annoying. I'm single so when me and my friends go out to a bar we just sit and chat. The guys that approach me are all drunk and well over 50. I will always get stared at but no guy approaches me. I guess my question is why do guys stare but never approach? If I guy stares at me I will smile but that still doesn't do anything.