Guys always stare but don't approach?

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Everywhere I go if it's a night out or just doing shopping guys always stare at first I just ignored it but now its getting really annoying. I'm single so when me and my friends go out to a bar we just sit and chat. The guys that approach me are all drunk and well over 50. I will always get stared at but no guy approaches me. I guess my question is why do guys stare but never approach? If I guy stares at me I will smile but that still doesn't do anything.

MrOwens · Accepted Answer

Modern men have zero testicle fortitude. It is not your fault. Men today place so much assumption and personal emotion on rejection. It is a ego shattering experience for them. They have not learned that no is OK. They have not discovered that they have a lot of options. They are their worst enemy. Guys like me that get that their is unlimited possibility, which is only 3% of the entire population. It is not you or how you look so lets just throw that out the window. The reason the men in their 50's approach you is because they have a different generational confidence. It is really a cognitive dissonance that modern men tell themselves. They literally talk themselves out of opportunities and lie to themselves because of fear of rejection. It is a self imposed lie. Unfortunately it happens to a lot of women. The value of the conversations what drives me to talk to women such as yourself. All the other stuff falls in later. Me I am trying to get to know people. It is the self imposed stresses that are lies we tell ourselves that keep us from discovering new people and having friendships and relationships. It can also determine successes, financial, career, relationships. I am rambling and you get the just of what I am saying.

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

I understand you'd like the guy to approach u but as it obviously isn't working why can't you go over and say hi? ;)

taytay10133 · Accepted Answer

look at my questions i just asked similar ones

Kachatterjee · Answer

They are appreciating your look, but perhaps they are not single. And you never know, a guy who is single but is staring at you, might be nervous to talk to you.

serious · Answer

That means you are physically very attractive but guys only like to see you from a distance and so they don't really want to approach you.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

Try looking back and smiling at the guys you want to approach you.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

If that's you in your profile picture then I guess it's because they might be too scared to do so.

zagor · Answer

Where do you go out? Unless you want a drunk 50 year old, maybe you need to research where to hang out in your area.

head-pin · Answer

do more than smile, play with your hair, keep looking over. Things like that

Vostock · Answer

I'm the poster man for being rejected and I just don't bother anymore. women drop subtle cues and many men don't understand

hotstuffSRD · Answer

Maybe they're pussy? 😂 But seriously I think they are scared of rejection or something cause you look dope

Anonymous · Answer

Men find you attractive but are too scared to ask you out. Have you tried approaching guys? How did that work out?

GoodLuckCharlie · Answer

Are you sure they're staring at you? They could just be looking in your general direction. It would probably be a better idea to not assume that everyone is watching you.

Anonymous · Answer

My theory is true then, that all young guys became chicken because of social media.

Anonymous · Answer

Because we might get rejected, why don't you approach that would make things a lot easier.

GingerGuy · Answer

Fear of rejection. All the same reasons women don't. Approach guys you like back.

NajemEddine · Answer

either u have negative vibes or your friends look better than u

Lilmaninthewoods · Answer

If someone is really interested in you they will go out of their way to get your attention.

Decentguy · Answer

maybe when you smile at them, they get really nervous thats why they dont approach you

Yumix · Answer

maybe too pretty, intimidated and thinking someone like you is taken? I don't know

Raveen · Answer

unbelievable

HaveNoName · Answer

Why would a 50 yr old approach you?

iFarted · Answer

Hey, you're pretty. Can I have your number?

ShayanMortazavi1998 · Answer

Are you Iranian?

Adigelunar · Answer

he may be shy

Mazout · Answer

He's just thinking "Damn she has a big ass nose"

JohnMike999 · Answer

They check you out.

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