-Does it affect my opinion of her as a person?
ONLY if they fit the stereotype of the drug dealer or gang member then yes I would lose respect for her.
-Would I lose attraction towards her in general?
Yeah, but like your friends I wouldn't admit it in real life. I know how that conversation plays out and I have no interest in it🙈
I will be honest and admit that it is partly because of porn. If I learned that a girl had slept with a black guy I would have the image of a black guy with an 8 inch dick having agressive porn style sex with her and that would make me lose attraction towards her. Now before I get petty insults about how I have a microdick, Im actually slightly above average based on statistics. Still I don't like the idea of a girl having been with a guy in the 7-8 inch range and would rather her just settle down with someone else in that range if thats what she likes. The way I see it is we would both be happier that way.
Also, I don't like the imagery of a girl sleeping with a guy who looks vastly different from me. I want to feel like I have the physical features of her "type". And as a plale white guy, a black guy is pretty much on the opposite end of the spectrum from what I look like.
"My white friends who acted like this were not racist or open about their opinions on it with anyone outside of their close white friends. And would act like nothing bothered them about when anyone else was around?"
Well... no shit. They know how people would react if they were to admit that it makes them lose interest. They smartly realize that there is a "correct answer" to that question and that they are better off biting their tongues and keeping it to themselves.
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Yeah this is true and still happens. Personally the majority of people in my area are white so when a white girl does end up dating a black guy it's usually because she's that type of a white girl who's just obsessed with black guys. So that's why I tend to avoid girls like that completely. On top of that I'm a white guy who likes white girls so I'd rather just date a white girl who likes white guys, it doesn't have to be more complicated than that.
That being said I know there are plenty of other reasons why many white guys do this too. Maybe they're insecure and buy too much into all the black stereotypes, maybe they're straight up racist or white supremacist, maybe they've had bad experiences with girls like that, or maybe girls like that just don't tend to be their type.
No they are absolutely racist -lol. they know how they feel is wrong which is why they'd ask like it didn't bother them when other people were around. It's pathetic but I agree, I also know a lot of guys like that (atleast I did in high school... I am sure they still are I'm just not friends with them anymore)... I am white and have only ever dated a few guys that were all white but I'd never date a guy who I thought for a second could be like that. I am in Philly, PA by the way... also not in the South.
I think as opposed to being solely racism, it goes to guys insecurities and if they see a woman has or had an attraction to a black man, he may feel she wouldn't be interested in him (the white guy) so he reverses the sentiment so as to not get hurt and just proclaims he's not interested.
I have a mixed race son. I think a lot of white guys are just intimidated because of stereotypes they feel like they won't measure up. Complete BS
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Maybe their feelings are related to them associating a girl attracted to a person with much different physical features as a person that isn't as attracted to them if that makes sense. Like how if a guy or girl is not attracted to a person that is bi sexual because that bi sexual person is also attracted to people that look dramatically different than them. There could be some kind of underlining psychological reason given how common this is.
It doesn't change my opinion of her in any way. I'd be a hypocrite if it did because I've been very attracted to women outside of my race and/or ethnicity. What kind of person would I be for faulting someone else for having a similar attraction? It all amounts to insecurity in the end anyway.
No problem here mate. It's 2017 white girls date black guys. Either you are giving in to peer pressure or you have reservations about it yourself. If you like the girl ask her out and forget about her past partners. Would you date a black girl who as had white boyfriends. There is no difference
The real question is isn't how other men feel towards sleeping with whoever they want.
The real question is whether guys share the same feelings towards the subject as you do...
and by the looks of all the answers on here so far, I'm guessing no.I hope we come to an era where people can be with whoever they want without being judged because of their partners race
I couldn't care less. I'm not racist and I'm not insecure.
This is an odd theory.
I've banged awhite dude with an 8 incher and had better sex with the next guyIndeed: it positively affects my opinion about her: she's less likely to be a prude bigot.
doesn't bother me as long as she's honest and doesn't cheat
Wouldn't bother me but I wonder if white girls will want to have sex with me since I've been with black girls
And why would I care about false sterotypes?
If someone thinks like that, that's very ignorant.
I don't understand how that could be a problem
i don't think that it matters
Well that's racist.
Not a tiny bit
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