What makes a girl 'stand out for the rest' and be a 'keeper' to you?


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  • Having just run into a girl like that by pure chance I can tell you what makes her so different than every other girl I've been with:
    1). It's effortless; I'm just me and don't feel like I have to act differently to get her interest.
    2). We're friends. We bonded right away over similar interests, experiences, values, and personality traits. We've just met but I feel like I know her so well and that she has the real potential to be my best friend.
    3). She feels the same way. I don't have to wonder if she's interested or not, I know she is simply from her behaviour and what she tells me.
    4). There's mutual strong sexual attraction. Before anything happened there was so much sexual tension that you could cut it with a butterfknife.
    5). I'm super excited to see her and can't wait to do so.

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  • For my girlfriend it was the fact that she didn't take any shit for me and for the fact that could stand up for herself. I've always weeded out weak personalities this way. That was a huge turn on for me considering most girls I've been with just say or agree with whatever I say.

    Takes her education seriously and is intelligent. We both have the same weird sense of humor. Sort could just connect on a real level. Best friend who I also fuck and flirt with all day sort of thing. We were also having some of the best sex I've ever had aha.

    My point of all this is that everyone is different. What attract one person might turn off another. Just be yourself instead of trying to adhere to what you think guys find attractive.

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  • Sweet, modest, doesn't drink or do drugs, doesn't have one night stands or fuckbuddies, smart, has a broad sense of humor ( can laugh at silly or dark/offensive things) and if she does any of the following (plays video games, basketball, skateboards, does martial arts, skiis/snowboards, cooks)

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  • Having a compatible personality, similar interests and a sense of humour.

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  • Years ago I discovered there were keepers and throwaways. A keeper is someone I could trust and would like to spend some number of months or years with.

    Because of my financial status, I realized I needed to make that decision as to which she is no later than about five minutes of meeting, because my full name is unique enough that I can be tracked down by typing in a google search, and that could cause all kind of trouble for someone I don't trust.

    I haven't given up throwaways entirely, but these days, I try to look for keepers.

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  • She has the appearance an demeanour of a shield maiden and, when asked if she prefers magazine or clip, she responds by saying 'belt fed'.

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  • If she initiates conversation and can stimulate my mind.

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  • Nothing in particular. She just needs to be able to make me give a shit. a rare trait, that is.

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  • Instagramming everything about her life and completely mimmicing their friends is a big turn off

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  • Kindness, a good personality, agreeable with, isn't a slut, hopeful, likes me for who I am, and pretty

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  • Understanding, respect, her kindness, her words, Her hair, smile, goofiness, loyalty, all that stuff ☺

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  • don't be a whore, be clingy, submissive, independent in public. personal opinion.

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  • If she loves you.

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  • If she's really hot and not a total b**** about it.

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  • When she initiates.

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  • dark hair, tan, really big ass and she's really sweet and funny. that's marriage material lol

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  • She does things that are from the heart, not just sex

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  • Nothing. I think love is purely an animalistic emotion and I prefer to stay single.

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  • If she generally cares about your feelings.

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  • Loves me how i am and got a kind warm vibe. and likes crazy stuff

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  • I personally prefer it when a girl is attached to me.

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  • Compassion, Sympathy.

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  • Anything that feminism does not suggest or support...

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  • When she's a unicorn

    ( they don't exist tho )

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  • If she's gorgeous, attractive, not fat, tan, good figured, not a feminist, not going to be a bitch, still prefers the 1950s view of what a home is supposed to, enjoys sex

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  • If she actually like talking to me, because I'm really quiet so it can be a bit of a surprise😂😂

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  • A submissive woman

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  • When she's not weak and knows that she is worth it.

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