this is the wrong mindeset if you wanna become one. be as happy as you can with your life. be yourself. know what you want in a partner, have your standards and don´t settle for less. this way you´re most likely to find a guy that sees you as a keeper. not if you desparately try being a keeper for most guys. that will just get you hookups.
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The one that makes you wake up everyday feeling excited and with a desire to meet her. Also, someone who knows their future, is caring and has a great personality. Someone you would die for. Also women who is not like all the other girls, who is unique, which makes her stand out. A girl that you see yourself having a great life with.
Make sure you are keeping his sexual urges in check. If you can't, then hope he can resort to porn until you are ready
Don't kick him!
Don't ask him for his money! Guys hate that!
Speak your mind! Don't have him guess your mind!
Hugs!
NEVER betray him!
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If she can stay in the damn kitchen
one that you can emotionally connect with,, to mutually stimulate one anothers' mind without verbally colliding but instead discover compromises.
To learn to embrace similar goals and interests'
To look into the future and share the same vision,, not a spontaneous one,, not living from one day to the next.She isn't a self-abuser, and also isn't a radical feminist.
That means no obesity, drugs, or alcohol abuse, and no cutting or purging.
Also, don't be a "victim" all the time. Some guy flirts with a woman, and he gets called a pervert either by her or another woman standing nearby. It's BS and it starts to be a drain on the male psyche.
Maybe she should have some talent for music or dance too. I seem to be completely enamored with women who can dance.When you're together the problems of the world don't seem so big, when you feel that both of you are team, and you both can handle anything together. When the relationship is not work, when she kisses the way you like. When the Sexual is pure bliss and you feel like you can't get enough of her.. that's your woman your love
Better question is, What makes a guy a 'keeper'? With the obsession of hypergamy, it seems that men need to focus on what will make women consider them as 'dating/marrying up'.
Ask Stina Lykke Petersen, she's a real keeper.
if she doesn't have an over romanticized view of relationships, sex and dating. if she understands that we are individuals sharing our time together vs thinking we have to become the same person just because of feelings
If she's fun to talk to, fun to look at and fun to play with.
someone you genuinely enjoy being around. a girl who doesn't evade probing questions. also feminists are huge red flags, because they don't value marriage (or men) as much as normal women
A keeper isn't defined by a characteristic only , but how she's perceived through her personality and the balance she keeps between personality and the character she displays.
you know the one you're with is the one when you're with her and everything you do together is better when you're not with her all you can think of this would be better when she is here
Low penis count and a high credit score. Low maintenance. Same lifestyle and core values.
-Down to earthness
is my number 1 thing if i were to say any, it's a rarity.She doesn't have threesomes with strangers at the start of a relatiomship.
When she wants to bring another woman into the relationship.
independent smart good looking hard working patient and understanding
Anything that is the opposite of modern feminism.
A girl with a loving personality.
Combination of beauty and personality.
Um, well do you really need me to explain it?
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