I've been talking to a guy for a few weeks who lives over 5 hours away. When it can up in conversation that I will be visiting the city where he lives in the spring he asked me if we could go on a date. I said yeah. But now he offered to drive all the way to where I live next week (or Valentine's Day weekend, which ever will work better with my schedule.) but I can't read him. Is he driving this far to actually meet me and take me out or is it just a hookup?
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just to get sex? [nope. avi]
to get to know someone I'm starting to find interest and maybe spark love? yes
to spark love, share more together, get to know her more, and have balls-deep and meaningful sex then keep going on a long term relationship? yes
Does all I said matters? no... that guy could be an immature fuckboi
how to tell if he man loves you?
he loves you if you're carved in his mind, if he thinks a lot about you
if reminds precise details related to you
is careful and receptive with you
sometimes thinks about you when he wakes up
however if that isn't the case from the beginning this is normal, this sometimes needs to be built TOGETHER
be honest, stay true to yourself, get involved and take your parts of the controls while leaving him his part, communicate and share with him, pay close attention to what he is thinking.
(and don't get freaked out if he is thinking about nothing: we are able to do that, thinking about nothing at all, and this is normal for men)1