YOU driving 3 hours is a bit much. You should meet somewhere halfway, so each of you drives 1.5 hours. Other then that issue, I think it's perfectly fine you're meeting up after being in communication for over a month.
I've met dudes online but they've always come to me because I don't drive. The farthest one has driven to meet me was 1.5 hours and we didn't do an overnight/weekend thing. Just meet in public and do not make it an overnight thing. You don't know if he's a stalker/murderer/rapist and you can never be too safe. See how the initial meeting up goes and then decide if you want to continue the weekend and have "fun."
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It is somewhat unsafe. You two could've linked up in a hotel verses his place but if he's a serial killer it wouldn't matter o_o. Let your friends know your destination and if it doesn't feel right RUN :)
Is it crazy? No. As long as you realize that there's a *possibility* that it won't be everything you hoped for, then fine. It could be great too. Just make sure someone knows where you're going and who you'll be with, and that you check in from time to time for your safety.
Well he won't complain ill give you that.
its not crazy, love/attraction will make you do somethings, its not weird or anything. If I could drive 3 hours to be with a girl I'm in love with, I wouldn't even think twice.
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You wanna get laid? Go for it.
I hope you have a crazy night.You're not crazy. I know of a guy who would walk 500 miles - then he'd walk 500 more
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=tbNlMtqrYS0
You're not crazy.A month is no where near long enough to know him, you really should wait and when you meet, you should meet half way in a public place, but you really should wait a few more months, stay safe,x
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