Why a hookup still follows me on social media?

So I had a one night stand with this guy I actually chatted with several days before actually meeting up. We shared pretty deep things with each others. I just thought he was really nice guy and thought we might become friends (nope not a couple, I don't fall for hookups) but after the night he started to ignore my messages. So I decided not to bother anymore and just let him be.

But this confuses me. Why doe she still follow my social media? Why does he watch every single Snapchat Mystery I upload? I don't get it. If he hated me so much he doesn't want to chat, why doesn't he just unfriend me?

Help meee


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What Guys Said 1

  • It seems clear that he wants to leave his options open. If he only had sex with you, and then wouldn't even chat with you, don't bother about him: he'll never be genuinely interested, even if he says so.


What Girls Said 1

  • Probably because he still wants to keep you around as an option.