Guys my boyfriend wants me to "be more aggressive" what does he mean?

[Lovelymelody]

He says I'm being "fake" & "I'm not into"

[jthm72]

Ah. I know exactly what he's wanting.

What he's trying to say is he wants you to take control and make the moves first.

Throw him down on the bed, climb on top of him, and go for what you want. Rip his pants off, put him in your hands and/or mouth, and give him a little "kick start"

[Ninjawarrior148]

Probably means that you're too timid and you let others do most of the things. He wants you to start to be more confident and comfortable with what ever you do

[Account]

Does he mean it in a sexual context? If yes, he probably wants you to stop being that passive in bed.

[AgentDearestZ]

You're going to need to be most specific.

[Lovelymelody]

He says I'm not into like it's a chore I guess you can say that...

[AgentDearestZ]

"Im not into" what? Does he mean you should start going after him? Does he mean aggressive in bed? You gotta elaborate and help me help you.

[Lovelymelody]

Yes in bed sexually

[Anonymous]

He wants you to stop being a dead fish.