Girl randomly stopped texting me randomly is she upset with me?

[Anonymous]

Long story short there is a cute girl I met at the salon where my mom worked. She cut my hair and we hit it off. She even told my mom after I left that I was super cool and to tell me to come back. Well next time I went was her last day at that salon, so I got her number. We texted quite a bit, and she even initiated some texts. She even sent me a good morning text, so I figured she was somewhat interested. Anyways I don't really like texting and I don't reply very quickly. I would respond every hour usually and she would take literally less than a minute when texting me. I am also afraid of showing too much interest. Anyways two weeks later I set up plans to get my haircut from her at the new salon she was working at. When I got there she was very nice, and as I sat in the chair she rubbed her arm across my shoulder, and intitiated some touch. In conversation we were talking about dating, and she told me that her parents thinks she needs to find more friends that will take her on dates. Later in the conversation I jokingly said well we are friends right, and she said we better be or I could butcher your hair. Anyways she invites me over to her house afterwards and she drove me there in her truck. She told me some very personal things about her and her family, and when we got there I was able to meet her step dad and her mom and got a grand tour of her house. We hung there for two hours or so, and after she drove me back, she told me that she wanted to hug me, and gave me a really close tight hug that lasted 20 seconds. She told me she would see me soon, and I suggested we do it again. Fast forward I texted her a week later thanking her for the fun time, and I got busy so I told her I would talk to her later. Later ended up being a week later. She is now unresponsive to my texts and has stopped texting me. Maybe she's upset I didn't ask her out officially or is confused by me? She still likes my posts on Instagram though. What would you do in this case?

[Deamose]

waiting a week after probably drove her insane. I imagine she finally imagined a reason you didn't text her during that week and wrote you off.

never wait a week, she probably felt you didn't care or she screwed something up to scare you off, or that you have a girl and she wasn't in for being on the back burner.

you can try explaining but I bet you drove her nuts if she had liked you. she's probably shut you out emotionally.

[Asker]

That's what I was thinking. It has been a while now since all this happened. I also think she might have felt like I only see her as a friend, because that day we hung out, I told her we should hang out again, but never made specific plans. I should probably be more straight forward to her instead of beating behind the bush and hiding my feelings

[magingary]

text her more often they dont like being neglected but not too excesive wemen like the illusion of being chased not actually being chased

[Asker]

I agree. I have been giving her some space though. It has been a long time since I have actually texted her, but want to re initiate things as they once were. Just trying to go about as to how. I wish girls would just let the guy know they are frustrated rather than giving them the silent treatment

[magingary]

no chicks dont do that and dont come off as hesitating just be confident

[Anonymous]

She probably assumed that you were not interested and she moved on.

[Asker]

Yeah, and it sucks. I guess all I can do is still be her friend but give her space. Either that or just ask her out instead of beat around the bush. Got nothing to lose. If she doesn't respond still.. Then I'll know it's a lost cause. Or maybe I just act like nothing happened.