My mom had that and she hallucinated that my brother and I were trying to harm her and ourselves. Thanks to her and her manipulation I spent years in and out of group homes, psych hospitals, on heavy prescriptions, with extreme diagnosis, and even in juvenile court where I turned the case around on her and requested an investigation that finally exposed her delusions. I don't blame her. She was truly scared but literally everybody believed that I was a horrible child and I was treated like a mental invalid, meanwhile getting doped up on drugs I didn't need.
That's actually the pg version of events and this was since I was a toddler. People who can't differentiate reality from fantasy scare me.
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Guys typically aren't given this diagnosis. They are more likely diagnosed as bipolar or antisocial.
This diagnosis in the US is a kids of death. It means almost no clinical psychologist will see you. It's about 85% women diagnosed. There is no cure and this personality disorder simply can't maintain relationships with anyone be it their children or otherwise.
That's why psychologists have moved away from diagnosing it all together at least in charts.
I have borderline personality disorder and a whole slew of other disorders. I still manage to catch a few fish. And I have dated guys with their own problems as well and I'm fine with it. My boyfriend is autistic and I like him all the same. A disorder doesn't define who you are. YOU do. So as long as you take control of your life and responsibilities having BPD will mean nothing.
Nope! Run away fast! I know first hand that lots of abuse on many angles come with that disorder, especially when they aren't being treated or been diagnosed. There are plenty of people with that that never been to see a doctor, shrink or psychologist.
Welcome to my life.
My wife is borderline. I don't recommend it to anyone. I'm still with her because I understand most of her erratic behaviours, and I love her to bits because in the end she's a good person.
But if I had to chose, no, I would not.
Dated a girl with it, she broke my heart, staying the fuck away from any girl that shows signs of it.
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Thats kind of heartless if thats the only reason why you wouldn't date the person. Its shouldn't be a problem people think I'm weird and think I'm retarded but why does it matter. If you truly like a person them you do
Haha funny pic. Yes, I would. My best friend has BPD and now I know pretty well how to handle different situations. We would just need to have great communication between us for me to know what to do on certain moments.
Yes. I have mental health issues too so i'd probably be able to understand where some of the thoughts came from and try to help him any way I could, even though I know the thoughts are incredibly strong
no way in hell, had a friend with BPD and it was a nightmare. broken hearts all around, extremely manipulative and is now a prostitute
Would you ever date a guy with borderline personality disorder?
Nope. Dudes in my opinion are enough baggage, drama, burdens, compromises, and sacrifices. I don't need to add in mental illness too.No. im realistic and thats not something easy to deal with
depends on how extreme it is and whether he has control of it or not
I have BPD so yeah I would.
Most of them do, if he's rich it will be worth it.
drnobody do you have it?
I don't know what's it
yes i would because i have BPD as well haha
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