Sudden repulsion syndrome?

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

condition many people experience after dating an individual for a short amount of time. The individual is probably polite, nice, and generally pleasant to be around, but one day, you suddenly find yourself disgusted by his or her appearance. You cannot ever see yourself establishing a physical relationship with this individual, and when you imagine it, you vomit in your mouth a little. The consequence of SRS is that you end up feeling as though you must break it off immediately.

happens more to women... because we stay fantasizing about the perfect guy but when you find out the guy you are with its not..

we feel repulsion over them... studies say we women have to change minds a little bit and be more flexible when dating a guy or being in a relationship... etc..

has this happened to you? guys.. girls?

[Summeroflove]

Some people send mixed signals because they genuinely don’t know what they want but people aren’t always honest about it. Especially because they can go back and fourth of wanting someone then not wanting someone.

I think there is a major difference between lust and genuine attraction. A lot of times when you’re listing after someone or sleep with someone in the moment it’s wrong but thrilling. But when it’s said and done you come to your senses and you feel… Disgusted. Shame. Remorse. All of those things. Take it as a lesson.

Other times be direct with someone just say hey I’ve enjoyed the time I had with you but I don’t feel like we’re meant to be. Sometimes we see someone who seems great but you get to know them ask you’re like…. Wellll maybe they aren’t all I thought of them to be. It’s not always rejecting them as a human being I may like someone just fine but know romantically I would never be compatible with that person.

It’s not only for my own good to find someone I’m a better fit for who I like beinr around more. But to also allow her to find someone else as well or for you him…. To find someone who is genuinely attracted. Not just ghosting and playing games.

Some people do play games just to play games don’t get me wrong. But a lot of times it comes form what people are feeling in the moment. Are they in a lustful mood or do they feel guilt and shame for what they did…

[Summeroflove]

A lot of it really comes form in the moment. Look… Nobody is perrrdt. A lot of people paint a perfect picture of someone in their head and become infatuated before they meet them.

I do think if you don’t want to be with someone. Just break it off. Don’t waste your time and don’t waste theirs. It doesn’t make them a bad person they aren’t meant to be.

But it a lot comes down to sleeping witn people then regretting it. Then you crave it again… then you feel disgusted by it. It’s a vicious cycle

[Summeroflove]

And there is people who are too unreasonable but even if they got everything they think they want…: they will NEVER be truly happy. NOT EVER… It’s not worth it. Just let them stay miserable. They choose to be that way

[Anonymous]

It happened to me recently. I was getting to know this girl and we were getting along well. We met up a few times before dating and after the second date. I was done with her. She just had no confidence in anything and could not decide on things. I tried being her freind but she only wanted to be more than freinds so it did not work out.
Often it happens because the chase is over. Instead of you going for him or you both going for each other. You have each other and it all seems boring.

[Anonymous]

This usually happens to me after I've fucked a guy who wasn't that good in bed but gassed himself up beforehand.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

lol true is like i dnt feel like seein you again

[molonski2]

Sounds like complete and utter bullshit to me , maybe they just want a name for everything , ludicrous.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. stop watching and reading 50 shades of bullshitville. Start living in the real world. You'll probably find a man willing to put up with your bullshit.

[Anonymous]

Lol, yes it has happened to me.

[Intraluminal]

Nope. I date people, not fantasies.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

mr intraluminal... i ment if you have high expectations for another individual and they are not met you loose interest...

[blackwolf3x]

sudden urge to kill them all syndrome